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Blistory · 16/04/2025 15:20

I don't post much on here anymore but just wanted to take a moment today to thank Mumsnet @MNHQ and Justine in particular for standing strong over a considerable number of years.

I fully appreciate that not all Mumsnet members or employees held the same beliefs but in the fury of doxing, banning, and insults, MNHQ held the line to enable this space where women were able to have a discussion.

I know the arguments and concerns over the years but the fact is that this was the only public space for a considerable number of years where a conversation was allowed about what came to be known as gender critical concerns.

This was where women came to gather, to discuss, to learn, to be heard, to form new spaces, to support and to stand strong. It wasn't always a pleasant place to be but it was always a place that was allowed to exist. It stood against the pressure groups, the hate, the doxxing, the pressure of advertisers, Stonewall law and it did so by simply being allowed to exist. The women on here and in the wider world did the rest. It's easy to forget just how difficult it was for MNHQ to hold the line especially when being attacked by all sides.

Thank you.

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MrsPeterHarris · 18/04/2025 22:44

Can I ask, what does FWR stand for?

Itdoesntendwellatall · 18/04/2025 22:39

TransMother · 18/04/2025 21:53

Thank you @JustineMumsnet for staying strong and giving us the online space to be heard.

I can't convey how important the FWR forum has been for me in recent years, without the wisdom and support there, I would have lost my sanity. Thank you to the lovely FWR vipers too.

Same here.

Thank you.

PerkyBlinder · 18/04/2025 22:35

Waitwhat23 · 18/04/2025 19:32

Was the geeky group one with a Disney adjacent name? If so, I left because I couldn't take the fawning over a TIM who liked to dress in practically indecent cos play. And I liked that group.

No - think more something like model railway enthusiasts - it was really sad seeing people banned for hate from a very specialist hobby group they had a lot of knowledge in and were passionate about.

The group had a ‘no political posts’ rule and someone posted say a railway track with all the different gender flags all over it in pride month. Someone else reported it as a political post and then a discussion broke out about why the gender identity bit can be considered political and a few blokes were quite confused as they hadn’t come across the idea of gender identity and said they thought sex was binary and it was all a load of nonsense so they were banned as transphobic and hateful. Then the person who put up the original post made sure a trans activist was made an admin to advise the original admins on what was hateful and what wasn’t with a totalitarian zeal. It was quite scary to witness and peaked me massively.

YoniHuman · 18/04/2025 22:30

Another one here adding to the thanks. I joined up when first pregnant 18 years ago and stayed around due to the funny, helpful & knowledgeable posters. MN has provided me with plenty of entertainment over the years but also provided invaluable support through the birth of my children and the loss of my own parent.
I always came away from the Feminist boards having learnt something and was amazed that more people around me didn’t realise or didn't seem to care what was going on as women's rights were being eroded. MN gave me the courage to contact and meet my local WRN group a couple of years ago and what a fabulous bunch of women they are.

TransMother · 18/04/2025 21:53

Thank you @JustineMumsnet for staying strong and giving us the online space to be heard.

I can't convey how important the FWR forum has been for me in recent years, without the wisdom and support there, I would have lost my sanity. Thank you to the lovely FWR vipers too.

hockeysticks89 · 18/04/2025 20:08

so pleased to see @mnhqgetting the appreciation they deserve. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 20:05

Thank you @JustineMumsnet and @SusanSmithFWS for everything and all the hardships you’ve endured for us. Thank you thank you thank you. 😘🙏🏻

edited to add - in my business I charge “toxic people” at 200% the going rate. Might be worth considering similar if Ocado and the like want you back. There should be a penalty for being so duplicitous

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 20:00

TanteRose · 18/04/2025 12:18

Thanks @JustineMumsnet
and thanks @SusanSmithFWS

by the way, re: Ocado, Sonia Sodha just contacted them and got this reply

https://x.com/soniasodha/status/1913182381101510985?s=46&t=DYMVYhEoGD6kTaKmo-0O8Q

What absolute fucking bullshit.
Bye bye Ocado you utter snivelling bastards.
Once maybe. Twice - fuck off forever

AzurePanda · 18/04/2025 19:34

Thank you @JustineMumsnet. I’ve been here since the start and have never been more grateful for Mumsnet than this week.

Waitwhat23 · 18/04/2025 19:32

PerkyBlinder · 18/04/2025 19:28

A massive thank you from another lurker.

I’ve learnt so much and followed the tribunals and waited with apprehension for the SC judgement. I’ve written to my MP, to organisations, and planted veggies here and there. I was peaked when it all kicked off with JK Rowling on Twitter in lockdown. I read her essay and was so confused by the hysteria and crazy reaction. shortly after I was banned from a small geeky specialist group on Facebook for simply saying that discussion was needed to make sure everyone is protected. A TRA got a whole heap of people banned, mostly autistic older males who were clueless that you couldn’t say sex is binary.

A million times thank you for standing strong!

Was the geeky group one with a Disney adjacent name? If so, I left because I couldn't take the fawning over a TIM who liked to dress in practically indecent cos play. And I liked that group.

PerkyBlinder · 18/04/2025 19:28

A massive thank you from another lurker.

I’ve learnt so much and followed the tribunals and waited with apprehension for the SC judgement. I’ve written to my MP, to organisations, and planted veggies here and there. I was peaked when it all kicked off with JK Rowling on Twitter in lockdown. I read her essay and was so confused by the hysteria and crazy reaction. shortly after I was banned from a small geeky specialist group on Facebook for simply saying that discussion was needed to make sure everyone is protected. A TRA got a whole heap of people banned, mostly autistic older males who were clueless that you couldn’t say sex is binary.

A million times thank you for standing strong!

senua · 18/04/2025 19:06

Thank you Justine and all at MNHQ for bravely holding the line despite everything.
Flowers

Tuesdaylast · 18/04/2025 18:02

From a lurker, thank you MNHQ and all the posters on this board.

Mwnci123 · 18/04/2025 16:58

Thank you @JustineMumsnet

TheSecondMrsCampbellBlack · 18/04/2025 16:58

I agree, thank you mumsnet

ElBandito · 18/04/2025 16:56

Thank you mumsnet.

frenchnoodle · 18/04/2025 16:52

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 18/04/2025 16:41

I have to say, I love the logo's party hat!!

That's because the site is 25, but it's very fitting considering.

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 18/04/2025 16:41

I have to say, I love the logo's party hat!!

placemats · 18/04/2025 16:08

TanteRose · 18/04/2025 12:18

Thanks @JustineMumsnet
and thanks @SusanSmithFWS

by the way, re: Ocado, Sonia Sodha just contacted them and got this reply

https://x.com/soniasodha/status/1913182381101510985?s=46&t=DYMVYhEoGD6kTaKmo-0O8Q

That's quite the non reserved apology reserved apology.

To add my thanks to all. About This Is My Child campaign was fantastic.

NotNowFGS · 18/04/2025 15:45

I bloody love Mumsnet. My babies are 21 and 23 but like many I have stayed for the feminism. Thank you Mumsnet and @JustineMumsnet and well done FWS, queens the lot of you 😘

Lolapusht · 18/04/2025 15:42

@JustineMumsnet thanks to all at Mumsnet for persevering.

IGuessIllbetheFirst · 18/04/2025 15:39

Thank you Mumsnet and thank you to all the brave women who stood up and stood firm until sanity prevailed.

RoyalCorgi · 18/04/2025 15:17

Another thank you to @JustineMumsnet from me. Mumsnet has been a beacon of hope and sanity over the past few years. You didn't have to do the right thing – and it would have been a lot easier to do the wrong thing – but you did it anyway.

And @SusanSmithFWS: wow! Completely in awe of what you and your Scottish sisters have achieved. We owe you a huge debt of gratitude.

FuzzyPuffling · 18/04/2025 15:14

I have read. I have learnt. I have been very grateful for the women here who are so articulate and knowledgeable.

Thank you MN.
Thank you women.

maximalistmaximus · 18/04/2025 15:14

Yes, thank you

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