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Thank you MNHQ

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Blistory · 16/04/2025 15:20

I don't post much on here anymore but just wanted to take a moment today to thank Mumsnet @MNHQ and Justine in particular for standing strong over a considerable number of years.

I fully appreciate that not all Mumsnet members or employees held the same beliefs but in the fury of doxing, banning, and insults, MNHQ held the line to enable this space where women were able to have a discussion.

I know the arguments and concerns over the years but the fact is that this was the only public space for a considerable number of years where a conversation was allowed about what came to be known as gender critical concerns.

This was where women came to gather, to discuss, to learn, to be heard, to form new spaces, to support and to stand strong. It wasn't always a pleasant place to be but it was always a place that was allowed to exist. It stood against the pressure groups, the hate, the doxxing, the pressure of advertisers, Stonewall law and it did so by simply being allowed to exist. The women on here and in the wider world did the rest. It's easy to forget just how difficult it was for MNHQ to hold the line especially when being attacked by all sides.

Thank you.

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Needapadlockonmyfridge · 16/04/2025 17:58

Thanks from me, too.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 16/04/2025 17:54

Hear hear. 👍🏻

RedToothBrush · 16/04/2025 17:53

Thank you MNHQ

But for Forstater and you, women would not have been able to defend their existing legal rights.

We should recognise the importance of free speech (whilst understanding this is not the same as harassment and abuse).

nowindofblame · 16/04/2025 17:50

Thank you also from a long time lurker/constant name changer.💐

Also thank you to all the women (and a few men) on here who contribute masses of information and/or support, along with keeping our brains straight when dealing with the twisty "logic" that is continually dumped on us.🍷🌹

Felinnefine · 16/04/2025 17:39

INeedAPensieve · 16/04/2025 16:35

Well the amazing women who set up For Women Scotland and who have achieved this fantastic result today met on Mumsnet and rallied themselves and others for the fight. Just ordinary women who couldn't believe what the Scottish government were doing. In fighting something that in reality should never have been in question has now meant everyone's rights are equal. Which is a good thing.

My thanks also to Mumsnet x

Wow. I didn’t know that. But of course it makes complete sense. ❤️

FarriersGirl · 16/04/2025 17:34

Its thank you from me too. I only discovered MN and this board about 9 months ago. Although I have long had GC views I was isolated in them partly as I had a v woke employer. FWR was a revelation in more ways than one!

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 16/04/2025 16:58

Another voice to add to the chorus of thanks. It must have been incredibly challenging at times, trying to walk the line but MN has created a space where women could rally and discuss and stand together. Those who dismiss us as Mummies chatting about nappies need to think again. Those who try invade our spaces and take our words need to stop. We are women and we won't back down.

ThreeWordHarpy · 16/04/2025 16:43

Another voice to add to the chorus of appreciation here.

Thank you.

RNApolymerase · 16/04/2025 16:39

Thankyou from me too.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/04/2025 16:38

My thanks too. I'm aware that at times Mumsnet has taken a financial hit from various trans captured organisations pulling advertising and have made a point of using those advertisers that have stayed.
Thank you, thank you. Flowers

INeedAPensieve · 16/04/2025 16:35

WinterTrees · 16/04/2025 15:54

I was thinking the same thing OP. As a freelance worker in a captured industry I am not able to speak out publicly so MN has been my only means of participating in this debate and keeping up with developments. I know lots of us are in the same boat, and I wonder if today's ruling would have happened without MN providing this platform for thousands of women to read and research; to find out about petitions and consultations and issues to lobby their MPs on, and for the word to spread quietly, from one sofa/kitchen table/woman killing time at football practice or school pick up to another.

As a woman-centred discussion forum it's powerful and pretty unique. Today I read a post in which the poster said 'as a man' and I felt a moment of surprise as it's my default assumption that MN users are female. What a luxury that is, in a world where the default male dominates.

Thank you MNHQ.

Well the amazing women who set up For Women Scotland and who have achieved this fantastic result today met on Mumsnet and rallied themselves and others for the fight. Just ordinary women who couldn't believe what the Scottish government were doing. In fighting something that in reality should never have been in question has now meant everyone's rights are equal. Which is a good thing.

My thanks also to Mumsnet x

Theeyeballsinthesky · 16/04/2025 16:35

yes absolutely! Thank you @MNHQ Justine has been under ridículous pressure but she’s held yhr line and allowed women the freedom to discuss this when no one else would

Pluvia · 16/04/2025 16:34

Yes, thanks MN. I'm still sore over the number of times I've had posts removed for no apparent reason over the last 12 years, a couple of them comparatively recently. The TRAs watched us closely. Now the Supreme Court has spoken I can say Transwomen Are Men without fear of being modded, I hope.

Perhaps now is the time to reveal that I've been banned twice and found a way back to continue the fight each time.

Zimunya · 16/04/2025 16:33

I remember seeing a T-shirt which said, “Radicalised by Mumsnet” and it made me so happy to be a small part of it. I echo the thanks - Mumsnet and the mods have stood firm in the face of some strong opposition.

Lovelyview · 16/04/2025 16:27

Agree. Thank you MNHQ. This is where I washed up when I wanted to know what the hell was happening with rapists like Isla Bryson and violent sex offender Tiffany Scott being sent to women's prisons. I was shocked that my usual news sites like the Guardian and the BBC hadn't even raised it as an issue. I was so naive.

Needspaceforlego · 16/04/2025 16:27

Thank-you from me too.

And a huge thankyou to the women of MN who opened my eyes. And a certain Ms McKinnon, and the ladies who pointed him out.

Retiredfromthere · 16/04/2025 16:25

Thank you MN for your bravery in standing with women and allowing them to speak - even with restrictions and even when there was impact on you in extra work and threats to ad funding. Thanks to all the women here who have opened my eyes too.

NotMyRealAccount · 16/04/2025 16:10

Thank you MNHQ🌻

Five years ago I came here (different account, different name, I lost the ability to access my original one due to an IT glitch a few months ago) for an unrelated reason and was surprised and delighted to find a big cluster of women openly saying, "We're being force-fed a pack of lies about a fundamental aspect of reality and we're not going to stand for it," and being allowed to get on with it subject to a degree of moderation which appears to have loosened up over time. It wasn't just me after all! I have learned so much. I don't have a useful voice of my own but I've been signposted to those who do and shown how best to support them.

A brave corporate decision, and a right one.

Hypercatalectic · 16/04/2025 16:09

Hear hear! Have learned so much from the women in this space who have been allowed to unapologetically talk, discuss, debate, highlight and support. It’s given me the words, logic and facts that have helped me to articulate my own position.

Ireallycantthinkofagoodone · 16/04/2025 16:08

💐 for MNHQ from me too.

brawhen · 16/04/2025 16:04

Thank you. This site has provided an invaluable discussion space.

Murfmeister · 16/04/2025 16:02

Heartfelt thanks 💐

Mumsnet has given me the confidence to speak, which has, in turn, given others the confidence to do the same. I cannot stress how important that has been within my role at work.

myplace · 16/04/2025 16:02

Indeed. Some skirmishes were pretty ugly, but overall the space was held open for discussion.

Daleksatemyshed · 16/04/2025 15:59

Another thank you MNHQ, it's hard to be the people swimming against the tide.

Delphinium20 · 16/04/2025 15:59

I agree! I was kicked out of US groups in early 2020 and came to MN...what a breath of fresh air! You've helped women across the pond with arguments, stamina and the general sense we were not alone.

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