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Thank you MNHQ

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Blistory · 16/04/2025 15:20

I don't post much on here anymore but just wanted to take a moment today to thank Mumsnet @MNHQ and Justine in particular for standing strong over a considerable number of years.

I fully appreciate that not all Mumsnet members or employees held the same beliefs but in the fury of doxing, banning, and insults, MNHQ held the line to enable this space where women were able to have a discussion.

I know the arguments and concerns over the years but the fact is that this was the only public space for a considerable number of years where a conversation was allowed about what came to be known as gender critical concerns.

This was where women came to gather, to discuss, to learn, to be heard, to form new spaces, to support and to stand strong. It wasn't always a pleasant place to be but it was always a place that was allowed to exist. It stood against the pressure groups, the hate, the doxxing, the pressure of advertisers, Stonewall law and it did so by simply being allowed to exist. The women on here and in the wider world did the rest. It's easy to forget just how difficult it was for MNHQ to hold the line especially when being attacked by all sides.

Thank you.

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MrsPeterHarris · 16/04/2025 20:04

Thank you from me too - my eyes were firmly opened by the amazing women on this site & without the freedom for those posters to post, I’d still be mainly oblivious & not realise the threat women have been under! Thank you for allowing that.

sweetgrapes · 16/04/2025 19:56

My personal activism has ebbed and flowed over the years but I have always lurked here and learnt so much. Radicalised on Mumsnet with the very best of women!

Thanks to MNHQ! Thanks to Justine!
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Ingenieur · 16/04/2025 19:55

Yes, brava Mumsnet and Justine!

Such a brave and welcome stance, that has been borne-out as valuable and truly inclusive

BoreOfWhabylon · 16/04/2025 19:52

Agree entirely. Thank you MNHQ and @JustineMumsnet

wowwhataday · 16/04/2025 19:51

Another thank you for providing and protecting this space

Waitwhat23 · 16/04/2025 19:49

I love these threads as I love seeing the waves from the lurkers!

Thanks to Justine and MNHQ from me too. I've not always totally agreed with decisions but it's been bloody brave of you to face down all the shit coming from every angle and still protect this platform where women can speak. It's been invaluable and a huge part of why the UK is TERF Island and leading the charge to reclaim women's rights.

SwordOfOmens · 16/04/2025 19:46

Absolutely! Thank you MNHQ! I found mumsnet when I'd been banned for 30 days for defending a feminist on Facebook who had been "cancelled" for having a GC position. I was bereft and felt angry about the injustice.

I came here and saw the good fight was being fought right here.

I was a TERF refugee and found my tribe.

You're all amazing women and I love you all ❤️

wonderstuff · 16/04/2025 19:31

Hear hear! I don’t often contribute to the GC threads, but I really, really appreciate MN hosting them and providing a forum for women to say unpopular things. Would have been much easier not host such discussions but it is the right thing. Flowers

Noodlie · 16/04/2025 19:30

Huge thanks from me too - I was banned from Twitter three times for stating the obvious, so having a place where such an invasive ideology could actually be discussed was extremely precious.

idolikealiein · 16/04/2025 19:25

Thank you from me too.

swayinggarland · 16/04/2025 19:25

I’ve read so much, hardly ever posting, but really thankful to have had this space. I’ve learnt so much over the years.

youkiddingme · 16/04/2025 19:23

Thank you for what was/is often a space to hold onto my sanity!

WhoAreYouTalkingTo · 16/04/2025 19:23

MN helped me to coalesce the uncomfortable thought into my head into comprehensive argument. So I thank them for that. What a day!!

Voice0fReason · 16/04/2025 19:15

Yes, I have to agree. This has been an excellent place to learn, discuss and meet other women.

Boiledbeetle · 16/04/2025 19:11

I'll echo the thanks to MNHQ!

Considering Susan, Trina and Marion met on Mumsnet, without this site there would be no For Women Scotland and today wouldn't have happened.

And now I'm all tearful again!

Right back to my celebrations, although I may have drunk enough by now!

Thank you MNHQ
MeanMrMustardSeed · 16/04/2025 19:06

Thank you from me.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 16/04/2025 19:00

Another thank you for preserving a space for these issues to be debated.

ThatFlyIsMySpiritAnimal · 16/04/2025 18:56

Another huge thank you from me ❤️

paddingtoncoffee · 16/04/2025 18:55

Absolutely agree - the ability to dissent is absolutely crucial, and thank you for protecting the space to do that

Optimist1 · 16/04/2025 18:21

Add my thanks to those above.

guinnessguzzler · 16/04/2025 18:17

100%. Thank you.

FionaJT · 16/04/2025 18:16

Another big thank you. This is such a unique and valuable online space.

Catiette · 16/04/2025 18:14

Thank you from me, as well. FWR opened my eyes to what was happening - without you, as a committed Guardian reader and full of naive faith in the BBC, I may never otherwise have known the degree to which our rights were under threat - or, indeed, even that they were. How terrifying it is to think that. What a wonderful resource this site has been, and continues to be.

WinterTrees · 16/04/2025 18:12

INeedAPensieve · 16/04/2025 16:35

Well the amazing women who set up For Women Scotland and who have achieved this fantastic result today met on Mumsnet and rallied themselves and others for the fight. Just ordinary women who couldn't believe what the Scottish government were doing. In fighting something that in reality should never have been in question has now meant everyone's rights are equal. Which is a good thing.

My thanks also to Mumsnet x

I wasn't aware of that! How brilliant - hope there is fizz today at MNHQ. Thank you INeedAPensieve

UrsulasHerbBag · 16/04/2025 18:11

Thank you.