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Anyone else worried Trump’s advocacy of gender-critical views taints and discredits them?

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PotteringPondering · 27/03/2025 03:52

I’m gender-critical, and was pleased when Trump issued his early Executive Orders on Protecting Children from Chemical and Surgical Mutilation, and Keeping Men Out of Women’s Sports.

But now… everything else. The sickening bullying of Zelensky and support for Putin, the threats to invade allies, the insults, lies, laziness, lawbreaking, cruelty and incompetence.

I’m concerned the fact Trump is an advocate of gender-critical views taints and discredits them in the eyes of thinking people. The verdict of history may be harsh because of the Trump connection.

I’m a resident of Terf Island, and still passionately hold GC views. But the support of Trump and Vance is starting to feel less like a blessing, more like a kiss of death.

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Jaessa · 06/04/2025 23:18

MarieDeGournay · 06/04/2025 23:15

Is that what it sounds like to you? You haven't been paying attention then, have you? The only people we're 'siding with' are women.

Siding with Trump is an anti women movement period. Go tell the Yemeni women getting bombed that at least they are safe from men in women's sports.

MarieDeGournay · 06/04/2025 23:15

Jaessa · 06/04/2025 23:06

It sounds like your so ideologically hostile to trans women that you're happy to side with a scamming, lying, war mongering abuser, rather than been accepting of your fellow human beings.

Is that what it sounds like to you? You haven't been paying attention then, have you? The only people we're 'siding with' are women.

TheKeatingFive · 06/04/2025 23:13

Jaessa · 06/04/2025 23:06

It sounds like your so ideologically hostile to trans women that you're happy to side with a scamming, lying, war mongering abuser, rather than been accepting of your fellow human beings.

Looks like someone hasn't read the thread.

I am not 'accepting' of someone saying they can change sex, because that's impossible. How they present is entirely up to them however.

I'm no fan of Trump, but the extraordinary thing is not that he's a sex realist. It's that the Democrats aren't.

Jaessa · 06/04/2025 23:06

It sounds like your so ideologically hostile to trans women that you're happy to side with a scamming, lying, war mongering abuser, rather than been accepting of your fellow human beings.

GraduationDay · 28/03/2025 09:59

Oh 🤩 you are such intelligent, interesting women (mostly - I’m assuming!) with such fantastic observations about this. I wish I knew more people in real life who said things like this. Do people still have conversations like this IRL?

TheKeatingFive · 28/03/2025 09:49

Hydrahelix · 28/03/2025 09:48

Exactly. You know you have a problem when Trump's position comes across as more sane than yours.

I think my US friend would prefer to say 'equally insane'. Biden and the Democrat leads were earnestly insane re GI, Trump and Vance and Musk are insane in a more clearcut and venal way.

My point was in reference to this particular issue.

Hydrahelix · 28/03/2025 09:48

Exactly. You know you have a problem when Trump's position comes across as more sane than yours.

I think my US friend would prefer to say 'equally insane'. Biden and the Democrat leads were earnestly insane re GI, Trump and Vance and Musk are insane in a more clearcut and venal way.

TempestTost · 28/03/2025 09:47

I think it also plays into all the Achilles heels of the left, the areas where they are often seen as weak by voters.

Utopianism, a lack of pragmatism/being overly ideological, elitism, authoritarianism, among other things.

The tendency to smug self-righteous elitism is not new, it's been a good while that this is one of the flaws of leftist parties. But gender ideology really shows it up to be as bad as it could possibly be.

ALl political parties do better when their tendency to various flaws are kept under control and not too obvious to the public, but in this case it just makes them look worse in every way.

ThisAlertRaven · 28/03/2025 09:36

Such a horrible mistake by the left to promote TWAW, it was a gift to the right. Awful.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/03/2025 09:19

That’s the most blatant gaslighting of all.

illinivich · 28/03/2025 08:48

Also, the lie isnt just that that man is now a woman, its the lie that it has no impact on anyone else. And in a time of increased awareness of equality, its women who are the ones who are having to budge up and shut up.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/03/2025 08:42

GraduationDay · 28/03/2025 07:48

Yes! I like the way you put this. I was trying to figure out what exactly irks me about the Elon Musk’s son story that just came out. Why should I even care? But it does bother me so I guess that’s it. It’s that he is a dude. A guy! But I’m being asked to pretend he’s a young woman. And I just don’t want to. I don’t know exactly why I don’t want to but bottom line is, I don’t. It’s probably something primal to do with self preservation as men are so inherently dangerous for women and we need to be able to pick them out of a line up. And the trans brigade wants to tell me I’m a bad person because of that. So yes, I think for many people it’s the minor irritation even if it doesn’t massively impact them in everyday life, that’s enough to make this issue count politically.

Yes, exactly.

TheKeatingFive · 28/03/2025 08:39

Hydrahelix · 28/03/2025 08:30

I've been saying for years that once a government starts supporting what is plainly a lie they lose all credibility. The voters aren't completely stupid. Supporting an obvious lie and then expecting the population to go along with it, and refusing to fess up when challenged, is what tyrants and despots do. We all know politicians have to lie sometimes, but lying on this blatant and obvious scale was something that only the Putins and Saddam Husseins of this world did until gender ideology came along and made fools of Trudeau and Biden and the Labour Party, among others.

Now I hear this argument coming from all angles. People have woken up and wised up and want to force politicians back to reality and the only means of doing so was to choose the other nutter, as an American friend who lives over here, puts it.

Exactly. You know you have a problem when Trump's position comes across as more sane than yours.

Hydrahelix · 28/03/2025 08:30

I've been saying for years that once a government starts supporting what is plainly a lie they lose all credibility. The voters aren't completely stupid. Supporting an obvious lie and then expecting the population to go along with it, and refusing to fess up when challenged, is what tyrants and despots do. We all know politicians have to lie sometimes, but lying on this blatant and obvious scale was something that only the Putins and Saddam Husseins of this world did until gender ideology came along and made fools of Trudeau and Biden and the Labour Party, among others.

Now I hear this argument coming from all angles. People have woken up and wised up and want to force politicians back to reality and the only means of doing so was to choose the other nutter, as an American friend who lives over here, puts it.

GraduationDay · 28/03/2025 07:48

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 12:48

7% of voters voted for / against Brexit on the basis of actual EU related issues. That's on both sides of the debate.

The official Vote Leave actively and openly have admitted that their campaign strategy was to tap into wider voter dissatisfaction - that includes everything from bins and pot holes to immigration policy.

The Brexit vote was known to be a watershed in terms of have international politics has played out. And it was nearly ten years ago now.

Yet so many people have not caught up with how the political landscape has changed and why voters vote the way they do.

Then COVID happened and compounded it.

Voters in the UK certainly are more likely to vote AGAINST someone than in a most positive way FOR someone. This caught the Labour party by surprise at the last election. They thought they'd have a resounding victory with everyone wanting them in power, and whilst they've managed to get a shed load of seats this election, their margin of victory is wafer thing. The reception has been luke warm at best. And incumbent governments tend to lose ground at subsequent elections.

This is due to a feeling of general mismanagement at local and national level - something again reflected in the US. And the response to that is to have an attitude of 'things are terrible so I might as well vote for radical change because it can't possibly get worse than this', rather than people voting FOR whatever changes are proposed. Most people don't even look too deeply at policy.

The trans issue therefore stands out particularly badly, and is somewhat unique, because you don't have to have an in-depth understanding of policy. It's easy to know you are being trained at work or seeing in sport or on TV that you are being told to ignore what you can see with your eyes and support an untruth. It gets under the skin and annoys people in a way that hospitals, or housing or jobs don't.

And yes it's a trust issue at it's core too because it feeds into this sense of mismanagement and corruption at the heart of established politics.

Until other parties can get to grips with this issue they are screwed and they don't seem, even after nearly ten years, to be fully grasping the nature of the problem...

Yes! I like the way you put this. I was trying to figure out what exactly irks me about the Elon Musk’s son story that just came out. Why should I even care? But it does bother me so I guess that’s it. It’s that he is a dude. A guy! But I’m being asked to pretend he’s a young woman. And I just don’t want to. I don’t know exactly why I don’t want to but bottom line is, I don’t. It’s probably something primal to do with self preservation as men are so inherently dangerous for women and we need to be able to pick them out of a line up. And the trans brigade wants to tell me I’m a bad person because of that. So yes, I think for many people it’s the minor irritation even if it doesn’t massively impact them in everyday life, that’s enough to make this issue count politically.

Helleofabore · 27/03/2025 23:32

thatsthewayitis · 27/03/2025 17:23

Okay, I'm American, lesbian and a lifelong libertarian-conservative.
The obsession here is Trump's personality. No one cares, we're not dating him. He just gave back women's rights and sports and isn't afraid to withhold Federal dollars to make states, like Maine fall in line.
He's shut the border and shipped out illegal hard-core gang members and now the foreign students on visas who were running and participating in university shut downs and anti-Semitism. He's cutting government fraud and waste.
All of which the Democrats oppose. Their popularity has sunk to 26%. Lowest ever recorded.
In the US Trump is very popular.

Wow. I hadn’t been following the trend for support polls. That 25% is a remarkable drop!!

TempestTost · 27/03/2025 22:12

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 18:00

Because women are not allowed to defend themselves. You are perfectly demonstrating Bewilderness's rules of misogyny on this subject.

Women not being allowed to name themselves. They are not allowed to name males patterns of abuse which have evidence to back up the fact they are sex based. Instead they are smeared for doing so as unreasonable and nasty.

Women have legitimate reasons to be concerned on these issues.

I was talking about the reason people on the political right have a problem with gender ideology.

I don't know what you are talking about because it seems to have zero to do with my post.

Igmum · 27/03/2025 19:52

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2025 18:00

Not at all.

The extraordinary thing is not that Trump is a sex realist.

The extraordinary thing is that the Democrats are not.

This 👆💯

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 18:00

TempestTost · 27/03/2025 17:47

So why did you bring it up? Are you implying that there are no women like that? Or that it isn't an example of an individual belief rather than something intrinsically connected to being GC?

Because women are not allowed to defend themselves. You are perfectly demonstrating Bewilderness's rules of misogyny on this subject.

Women not being allowed to name themselves. They are not allowed to name males patterns of abuse which have evidence to back up the fact they are sex based. Instead they are smeared for doing so as unreasonable and nasty.

Women have legitimate reasons to be concerned on these issues.

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2025 18:00

Not at all.

The extraordinary thing is not that Trump is a sex realist.

The extraordinary thing is that the Democrats are not.

TempestTost · 27/03/2025 17:47

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 17:42

Quite

"men are afraid of hurt feelings, women are afraid of men killing them"

So why did you bring it up? Are you implying that there are no women like that? Or that it isn't an example of an individual belief rather than something intrinsically connected to being GC?

PippistrelleBat · 27/03/2025 17:44

thatsthewayitis · 27/03/2025 17:23

Okay, I'm American, lesbian and a lifelong libertarian-conservative.
The obsession here is Trump's personality. No one cares, we're not dating him. He just gave back women's rights and sports and isn't afraid to withhold Federal dollars to make states, like Maine fall in line.
He's shut the border and shipped out illegal hard-core gang members and now the foreign students on visas who were running and participating in university shut downs and anti-Semitism. He's cutting government fraud and waste.
All of which the Democrats oppose. Their popularity has sunk to 26%. Lowest ever recorded.
In the US Trump is very popular.

A lot of what UK/Europe/rest of world worry about with Trump are behaviours a lot of Americans would view as positive for America. Whether such blinkered American-centric policies work out for America in the longer term remains to be seen but they produce winning rhetoric at the moment.

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 17:42

withthegreatestrespect · 27/03/2025 17:38

Nobody cares because it's just about women😂

Quite

"men are afraid of hurt feelings, women are afraid of men killing them"

withthegreatestrespect · 27/03/2025 17:38

TempestTost · 27/03/2025 17:37

And what's a woman's ability to recognize female behavior, then?

Nobody cares because it's just about women😂

TempestTost · 27/03/2025 17:37

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 17:33

12. Women’s ability to recognize male behavior patterns is misandry.

And what's a woman's ability to recognize female behavior, then?