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Another potential celebrity baby purchase 🙄.

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AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 11/03/2025 15:13

Today I've been hanging around waiting for an appointment with a dwindling phone battery and the only reading materials on offer being last weekends newspapers. I was having a flick through the Mail on Sunday 😳 and saw this story by someone called Louise Thompson, who casually mentions that she and her partner would like to have another child "but would have to use a surrogate'.

I have to admit I'd never heard of her but a bit of nosy googling revealed that she's from Made in Chelsea and during the birth of her first child she suffered a major hemorrhage and months of PTSD afterwards. Something she seemingly has no qualms about potentially putting another woman through. I just despair.

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OuterSpaceCadet · 11/03/2025 16:16

Ph3 · 11/03/2025 16:05

I think surrogacy can be a valid way to bring your child into the world if you can’t do it yourself. I must admit I’m not overly familiar with the laws regarding this in the UK but if they are strict enough to protect both parties and the baby I don’t see how it’s any of my business.

It's your business in the sense that we all have a duty to protect society's most vulnerable.

Commissioning surrogacy is commissioning the intentional separation trauma of removing a newborn baby from it's mother. A woman can "choose" to inflict this trauma upon herself but a baby cannot advocate for itself (although it is of course debatable how much choice the woman really has as the vast majority of surrogates are poor and you certainly never see middle/ upper class women volunteering to do it for strangers).

This is a world of difference to adoption where the best is made of a tragic situation where trauma has already happened and has not been commissioned on the whim of wealthy people. Regardless, and speaking from experience, even people adopted as very young babies suffer from the traumatic loss of that separation.

Our society knows not to treat animals this badly. We ought to understand this about humans too.

Ph3 · 11/03/2025 16:05

I think surrogacy can be a valid way to bring your child into the world if you can’t do it yourself. I must admit I’m not overly familiar with the laws regarding this in the UK but if they are strict enough to protect both parties and the baby I don’t see how it’s any of my business.

DurbevillesGirl2 · 11/03/2025 16:02

How much does a woman get paid for surrogacy?

WhatIsCorndogs · 11/03/2025 15:39

The sooner we ban surrogacy the better. A baby is not a commodity.