Yes, I think we're all in agreement here.
I feel it's extra painful to refuse detranstioners though because so many have been so totally lied to and let down by the very people we trust to know better. Teachers, doctors, psychologists, politicians, journalists. It's hard not to feel that society owwes them some recompense. But there have always been social fads which have damaged young peopl and medical fads/negligence which have done harm, and the Equality Act isn't the right place to deal with them.