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Daily Echo: Hampshire woman appears in court charged with raping girl

158 replies

frazzled1 · 13/02/2025 11:22

https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/24930914.woman-accused-sex-assault-children-appears-court/

The Mail reporting is clearer...

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14392643/Transgender-woman-court-rape-girl-sexually-assault-boy.html

Transgender woman Maddison Wilson, 37, is accused of abusing the young girl 'with your penis' in 2011, according to the charge sheet.

Wilson is also accused of sexually assaulting a boy under the age of 13 around six years later.

The alleged sex offender spoke only to confirm their preferred pronouns of 'she/her' in the dock at Southampton Magistrates’ Court yesterday.

Transgender woman appears in court accused of raping a girl under 13

Maddison Wilson, 37, who identifies as a woman and lives in Portsmouth, is accused of attacking the young girl 'with your penis', according to the charge sheet.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14392643/Transgender-woman-court-rape-girl-sexually-assault-boy.html

OP posts:
Chersfrozenface · 26/02/2025 16:26

I've just checked the Evening Standard website. Limited to the London area. Six live reports of perpetrators sought and court cases involving violent and/or sexual crimes. All involving men.

Such crimes are covered heavily by the media.

When the perpetrator is male and is described and referred to as a 'woman' and 'she', we notice and we object.

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:25

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/02/2025 16:18

Ah A Man has arrived to lecture women about how they should feel about a male rapist larping as a woman

lucky lucky us 🙄

Not a lecture, not telling you how to feel, just my point of view. But nice of you to try and invalidate my opinion.

Just pointing out the fact that this story has only made the headlines because it's a trans women and you've fallen for the patriarchal dog-whistles of vilifying a whole section of society based on an individual instead of addressing the systematic issues.

JazzyJelly · 26/02/2025 16:24

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:21

The fact that you're debating this case of rape and not the thousands of other rape cases shows that you care very deeply about this persons social identity as a trans woman. Likely so you can use it as ammo to bully and marginalise other trans women, who are innocent. Just as misogynists would use harmful stereotypes to marginalise others.

What the fuck are you on about mate? You're on a forum for women, generally mothers, and are surprised that people are angry that a rapist peadophile man is being called a woman in the media?

Did you mean to type 'reddit' or '4chan' into your search bar?

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/02/2025 16:22

TwistedWonder · 26/02/2025 16:21

Nothing h like a bit of mansplaining along with the usual cliches - dog whistle, clickbait, cis gender - to lecture women whilst nailing their misogynistic colours to the mast

Edited

Indeed! I thought half term was over?? Maybe not

TwistedWonder · 26/02/2025 16:21

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/02/2025 16:18

Ah A Man has arrived to lecture women about how they should feel about a male rapist larping as a woman

lucky lucky us 🙄

Nothing h like a bit of mansplaining along with the usual cliches - dog whistle, clickbait, cis gender - to lecture women whilst nailing their misogynistic colours to the mast

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:21

JazzyJelly · 26/02/2025 16:19

Who said anything about roles? He cast himself in the role of 'rapist', a crime only men can commit.

The fact that you're debating this case of rape and not the thousands of other rape cases shows that you care very deeply about this persons social identity as a trans woman. Likely so you can use it as ammo to bully and marginalise other trans women, who are innocent. Just as misogynists would use harmful stereotypes to marginalise others.

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:19

TwistedWonder · 26/02/2025 16:16

It doesn’t matter if it’s 1 - it’s not a woman’s crime and therefore shouldn’t be recorded or reported as such.

It does matter. And I'm sure their gender identity can be recorded too for the nuance that's necessary in statistics.

As I'm sure those statistics will show that this dog-whistle rhetoric that frames all trans women as a threat to women and children is just that. Click-bait and sensationalism to sell news ad-space.

JazzyJelly · 26/02/2025 16:19

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:16

I imagine this group would be equally as angry if we held biology as deterministic of your role in society... something feminism has fought hard against...

Who said anything about roles? He cast himself in the role of 'rapist', a crime only men can commit.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/02/2025 16:18

Ah A Man has arrived to lecture women about how they should feel about a male rapist larping as a woman

lucky lucky us 🙄

murasaki · 26/02/2025 16:18

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:12

It's implicit in the charges that the person in this case is natally male, and the fact that they live, socially, as a woman has no bearing on the charges that they are accused of. And the only reason you're here, discussing this case and not the thousands of others is that this person lived as a woman, not the nature of circumstances of the crime.

This has more to do with the stereotypes you want to enforce on people than the nature of the crimes they may have been accused of or even convicted of.

And there is no evidence that offending rates in the trans woman community can be extrapolated form the broader male population save for some twitter hack-job statistics. There's more to offending than chromosomes.

So please do mansplain 'living as a woman' to me, an actual woman would love to know.

If you can avoid the words make up and dresses, that would be great.

Thanks in advance.

BunfightBetty · 26/02/2025 16:18

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:12

It's implicit in the charges that the person in this case is natally male, and the fact that they live, socially, as a woman has no bearing on the charges that they are accused of. And the only reason you're here, discussing this case and not the thousands of others is that this person lived as a woman, not the nature of circumstances of the crime.

This has more to do with the stereotypes you want to enforce on people than the nature of the crimes they may have been accused of or even convicted of.

And there is no evidence that offending rates in the trans woman community can be extrapolated form the broader male population save for some twitter hack-job statistics. There's more to offending than chromosomes.

As an actual woman, and therefore in the category of human beings who commit only 1% of sexual crimes, I utterly object to this male person being misrepresented as a woman. Doing so skews public perception and - even more outrageously - in some cases, the official statistics used to measure crime and allocate resources to tackling it.

Facts matter. Accurate reporting matters.

eatfigs · 26/02/2025 16:18

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:04

You seem to take some delight in their death. And I'll wait for the receipts on whether their identity had any bearing on their offences. I suspect it's just a dog-whistle the papers use to get your clicks...

And you seem adamant on defending this vile man. Why is that, I wonder.

TwistedWonder · 26/02/2025 16:16

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:15

How many is it? There are perhaps a handful out of the thousands.... which is the expected ratio of trans people in the broader community...

It's just click-bait you're falling for.

It doesn’t matter if it’s 1 - it’s not a woman’s crime and therefore shouldn’t be recorded or reported as such.

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:16

JazzyJelly · 26/02/2025 16:11

And I imagine people from any of the listed groups would be angry as well, had the rapist claimed they were, say, black when actually white, Christian when actually atheist, or poor if they had a million in the bank.

I imagine this group would be equally as angry if we held biology as deterministic of your role in society... something feminism has fought hard against...

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:15

TwistedWonder · 26/02/2025 16:06

Who are all correctly to referred to by their biological sex in the media.

Rape isn’t a woman’s crime and the perpetrator should be clearly referred to by their biological sex

Weird how many male sex offenders suddenly realise they’re women once they’re due in court

How many is it? There are perhaps a handful out of the thousands.... which is the expected ratio of trans people in the broader community...

It's just click-bait you're falling for.

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:12

Chersfrozenface · 26/02/2025 16:05

The objection is to describing and referring to a man accused of rape - an offence which only a male with a penis can commit - as a 'woman' or 'she'.

In other cases people have objected to a male murderer and a man convicted of inciting child sexual abuse being described and referred to as a 'woman' and 'she'.

These offenders are not women.

They are men, the sex class responsible for 75% of violent crimes, 93% of murders and 98% of sexual offences.

It's implicit in the charges that the person in this case is natally male, and the fact that they live, socially, as a woman has no bearing on the charges that they are accused of. And the only reason you're here, discussing this case and not the thousands of others is that this person lived as a woman, not the nature of circumstances of the crime.

This has more to do with the stereotypes you want to enforce on people than the nature of the crimes they may have been accused of or even convicted of.

And there is no evidence that offending rates in the trans woman community can be extrapolated form the broader male population save for some twitter hack-job statistics. There's more to offending than chromosomes.

JazzyJelly · 26/02/2025 16:11

eatfigs · 26/02/2025 15:57

The dead rapist in this case is a man pretending to be a woman, that's why it's unusual enough to be noticed.

And I imagine people from any of the listed groups would be angry as well, had the rapist claimed they were, say, black when actually white, Christian when actually atheist, or poor if they had a million in the bank.

TwistedWonder · 26/02/2025 16:07

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:04

You seem to take some delight in their death. And I'll wait for the receipts on whether their identity had any bearing on their offences. I suspect it's just a dog-whistle the papers use to get your clicks...

They were a man who raped a child - their sex has an absolute bearing on them committing a male crime. The media is correct to bring this to the public’s attention ton,

Wearing a pink headband doesn’t change what they did to a child. Any sympathy for the victim here?

Talkinpeace · 26/02/2025 16:07

The judge correctly sexed him today in closing the case
https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/24965017.hampshire-trans-woman-dies-southampton-rape-court-hearing/

TwistedWonder · 26/02/2025 16:06

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 15:50

Weird how it's only trans people that make the headlines instead of the hundreds of thousands of cisgendered people....

Who are all correctly to referred to by their biological sex in the media.

Rape isn’t a woman’s crime and the perpetrator should be clearly referred to by their biological sex

Weird how many male sex offenders suddenly realise they’re women once they’re due in court

Chersfrozenface · 26/02/2025 16:05

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 15:55

Weird how complaints are only about missing out the identities you want to bully and marginalise... for instance would you complain that they missed out their faith, or their socio-economic status, or their profession?.....

So rare you see the headline "Rich, white, Christian pedophile...."....

Justice will be sought regardless of whether you deny someone their human right to identity or not... And bullying, nor vigilantism is justice...

The objection is to describing and referring to a man accused of rape - an offence which only a male with a penis can commit - as a 'woman' or 'she'.

In other cases people have objected to a male murderer and a man convicted of inciting child sexual abuse being described and referred to as a 'woman' and 'she'.

These offenders are not women.

They are men, the sex class responsible for 75% of violent crimes, 93% of murders and 98% of sexual offences.

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 16:04

eatfigs · 26/02/2025 15:57

The dead rapist in this case is a man pretending to be a woman, that's why it's unusual enough to be noticed.

You seem to take some delight in their death. And I'll wait for the receipts on whether their identity had any bearing on their offences. I suspect it's just a dog-whistle the papers use to get your clicks...

eatfigs · 26/02/2025 15:57

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 15:50

Weird how it's only trans people that make the headlines instead of the hundreds of thousands of cisgendered people....

The dead rapist in this case is a man pretending to be a woman, that's why it's unusual enough to be noticed.

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 15:55

Misshaped · 26/02/2025 14:52

Has anyone made a complaint to the BBC about this? I usually eyeroll at their inability to use the correct sex but the crimes here are so awful that the she pronouns have made me particularly angry. The article describes the offence as rape which by definition can only be committed by a man. What has happened is tragic for his family but the onus should be on seeking justice for the young victims and not validating him. Sticking on a pink hairband does not make you female 🙄 It seems to me that the BBC are more concerned with protecting a rapist than the victims’ feelings. Those victims will be in absolute no doubt about who he was.

Weird how complaints are only about missing out the identities you want to bully and marginalise... for instance would you complain that they missed out their faith, or their socio-economic status, or their profession?.....

So rare you see the headline "Rich, white, Christian pedophile...."....

Justice will be sought regardless of whether you deny someone their human right to identity or not... And bullying, nor vigilantism is justice...

ProudDadDan · 26/02/2025 15:50

Weird how it's only trans people that make the headlines instead of the hundreds of thousands of cisgendered people....