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borntobequiet · 18/11/2024 14:07

Ugh, WH already featured one of them and I complained then. May have to complain again.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 18/11/2024 11:54

GlomOfNit · 18/11/2024 10:55

Women's Hour just finished a hand-wringing interview with Catherine Meyer and Sandi Toskvig. Dear god, that's my BP buggered for the day, then ...

The GASLIGHTING! The DARVO! The BS! The sheer bloody bald-faced cheek of trying to tell us that the TWAW issue has nothing to do with the demise of the party, yet carefully steering the 'discussion' off that subject every time it's brought up. Nuala brings up a Pink News article, SO pleased that publication is being cited on Women's Hour ...

If I honestly felt that the party really did want to maintain a non-shouty space to continue this debate, as ST just claimed, I'd be a lot more hopeful. But we know damn well that isn't the case.

Hope your BP is steadily lowering.

As said upthread - privileged women involved in a vanity project that centres men rather than women's rights. I suppose if your political activism ignores women's rights and child safeguarding, you'll never be insightful about your limitations in running a party for women (and your preferred men).

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/11/2024 11:21

Women's Hour just finished a hand-wringing interview with Catherine Meyer and Sandi Toskvig. Dear god, that's my BP buggered for the day, then ...

I heard it was happening and couldn't bear listen. Ridiculous lying nonsense.

RethinkingLife · 18/11/2024 11:07

TWAW issue has nothing to do with the demise of the party

So, those of us who left over the lack of due process for HBE, not a TWAW issue?

Sophie Walker's comments since stepping down? The disagreements in the meetings? Walker's letter to Mandu Reid?

I’m writing to ask you please to scrap your proposed motion on self-ID to the Women’s Equality Party conference this weekend. I think you’re making a terrible mistake and wish you would reconsider.

I have no right to ask this of you except as one feminist to another. I am not a member of the Women’s Equality Party and have not been for a while. The leadership and management groups in the party do not make it a comfortable home for women who do not accept the ideology of gender. I left for many reasons but this was one of them. (I am aware of course of the irony of this. I feel responsible for every woman who left WEP when I was Leader on the same grounds, as I struggled to hold the party together around this schism.)

But here we are, and history is repeating itself. Four years ago, a group of WEP members brought a motion to conference to ask members to approve a policy of self-ID: That anyone could be a woman on their own say-so. I was deeply concerned about the implications of this motion and that it could be passed as party policy by the small percentage of party members present in the hall. Working with the members who brought that motion – to whom I am still grateful – we instead held a special debate, and the motion was referred back, with a request that the party undertake a members-wide consultation.

https://www.wepsbr.com/post/sophiewalkerletter

The alignment of the agenda with the main funder?

The re-writing of history happens quickly. I expect that the fantasy history will be forthcoming.

ETA: given how much WH usually uses even-handedness as cover for having different perspectives, why didn't WH take the opportunity to interview Sophie Walker for her views?

Sophie Walker's Letter to Mandu Reid

Sophie Walker writes to Mandu Reid asking her to withdraw motion on Gender Self-ID

https://www.wepsbr.com/post/sophiewalkerletter

GlomOfNit · 18/11/2024 10:55

Women's Hour just finished a hand-wringing interview with Catherine Meyer and Sandi Toskvig. Dear god, that's my BP buggered for the day, then ...

The GASLIGHTING! The DARVO! The BS! The sheer bloody bald-faced cheek of trying to tell us that the TWAW issue has nothing to do with the demise of the party, yet carefully steering the 'discussion' off that subject every time it's brought up. Nuala brings up a Pink News article, SO pleased that publication is being cited on Women's Hour ...

If I honestly felt that the party really did want to maintain a non-shouty space to continue this debate, as ST just claimed, I'd be a lot more hopeful. But we know damn well that isn't the case.

borntobequiet · 18/11/2024 09:52

They got interviewed quite a lot by sympathetic media, raising their individual profiles. I think that’s it.

SilverChampagne · 18/11/2024 09:50

The exact thing I would have expected WEP to be all over. Yet, they weren't.
Are there any examples of anything they did actually achieve?
I’m mystified as to how they justified their existence at all.

PronounssheRa · 18/11/2024 09:45

Have they ever pondered the reason why donations dried up.

This is exactly the kind of thing I would have given money too, if they were in fact a party for women. Instead I have donated to more than a few crowdfunders, mainly those where women have had to take their employer to tribunal because they were discriminated against. The exact thing I would have expected WEP to be all over. Yet, they weren't.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/11/2024 00:11

Fuckity bye.

It's really the only response.

TrainedByDinosaurs · 17/11/2024 23:37

Glad they have closed, sadly the ‘women’s’ organisations that centre males are going to have to learn that those males aren’t going to contribute to keep you going when the women leave

RethinkingLife · 17/11/2024 20:14

Signalbox · 17/11/2024 19:58

If they’d stood up for women they’d be thriving right now.

If WEP had stood up for women, it's possible that women would have had a political force that

  • pre-empted the need to go to employment tribunals and that WEP might have attracted that money instead
  • argued for affordable childcare
  • facilitated the lives of single parents (largely women)
  • there would be better treatment of carers (largely women).

Oh, what might have been. Some of the saddest words. I can only hope that there's political space for genuinely women-centred policies to flourish now that WEP has slow motion dripped in obscurity towards its inevitable demise.

Signalbox · 17/11/2024 19:58

If they’d stood up for women they’d be thriving right now.

larklane17 · 17/11/2024 19:33

Kidding themselves that they were instrumental in making changes for the benefit of women.

Shitting on the women who had high hopes for them and gave them their support.

Playing shepherdesses. like a bunch of over-privileged Marie Antoinettes.

DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole · 17/11/2024 18:56

I ended my membership in 2021 so couldn't vote, so thanks for the update.

I'm sad to see the end of what could've been something brilliant. I was so excited by the idea of it and was really involved with supporting Harini in the 2017 general election in Lambeth. But like so many others, I quit when they stopped being able to define a woman. So not sad to see what it became being ended.

HerGorgeousMajestyArabellaScott · 17/11/2024 18:54

Fuckity bye.

lcakethereforeIam · 17/11/2024 18:50

78% voted to dissolve it, does that mean 3/4-ish of one of them wanted to keep it going? I'm struggling to believe anyone else showed up.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 17/11/2024 18:47

Such a wasted opportunity. Privileged women who abandoned women's rights and child safeguarding in favour of the niche demands of certain men.

Rightsraptor · 17/11/2024 18:46

Good.

Don't let the door hit you on your way out.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/11/2024 18:43

How desperately sad.

The (literal) end of the Women's Equality Party
RethinkingLife · 17/11/2024 18:32

As an update, WEP has voted to dissolve.

Founders and leaders are still failing to grasp their own contribution to its demise.

Members of the Women’s Equality party (WE) have voted to dissolve the organisation after nearly a decade of activism, with its leaders blaming challenging finances and a more polarised political landscape.
The move, backed by the WE’s leader, Mandu Reid, and the party co-founders Catherine Mayer and Sandi Toksvig, was supported by 78% of members at the special conference, narrowly above the three-quarters majority needed for it to pass.

In an interview with the Observer in October setting out the idea, Reid said that while its policies and priorities were as relevant as ever, a lack of donations that started during Covid and changes to politics meant the party seemed no longer to be workable.

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/nov/17/womens-equality-party-wep-members-vote-dissolve-organisation

Women’s Equality party members vote to dissolve organisation

Challenging finances and polarised political landscape blamed for closure after nearly decade of activism

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/nov/17/womens-equality-party-wep-members-vote-dissolve-organisation

YourAmplePlumPoster · 31/10/2024 09:04

There's barely a cigarette paper between leftist men and right wing men, except the right have decided to reject the notion of trans women are women.

SidewaysOtter · 29/10/2024 19:21

WomanDaresTo · 29/10/2024 16:02

Omg I've just remembered a shouty drunk bloke arguing with me at the end of the night, years ago. "you women", etc etc.

Anyway his (lovely) girlfriend was distraught in the women's loos after - saying "i just don't understand: he was a founding member of the WEP you know" 😂

It's amazing how many "progressive liberal" men who proudly proclaim their feminist credentials are actually raging misogynists who can't accept women not acting as they're told they should by those who think they know better than them (i.e. men) Hmm

Bannedontherun · 29/10/2024 18:44

I saw that all by myself on you tube the police lack of reaction was startling.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 29/10/2024 18:38

Glinner did a chat with him as well.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/10/2024 16:55

YourAmplePlumPoster · 29/10/2024 10:44

It's worth checking out The Laughing Auditor at the trans protest outside a building where a collective of lesbians who wanted to peacefully meet together had the noisy TRAs outside and the kind of behaviour he filmed. On YouTube.

Oh yes - that was brilliant. Here he is explaining to Andrew Doyle how he was doing his "job" of monitoring the police when he came upon this group of misogynists and homophobes trying to stop the Lesbian Project's inaugural meeting from happening and how they turned on him to try to stop him recording their aggression and bigotry 😂:

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=620963746031116