For those reading along on this thread, just a reminder that we have recently been shown just how people's transgender identities are based on philosophical belief.
Because to be a person with a transgender identity is not based on having gender dysphoria. We have been told this now by professional academics as well as trans people themselves.
Therefore the only commonality for people with transgender identities is that their philosophical belief. Meaning no one needs to comply with another persons philosophical belief. No one.
No male can ever experience “life as a woman.” They are not living life as a woman. No matter how much they are trying.
They can only ever experience life as a male person who believes they are a woman. Even when they 'act' like a woman, they are acting as they believe a 'woman' should act. They are not a woman. It is rather misogynistic that they believe they are acting like a woman or living as a woman.
Even if they are treated 'as a woman' by some people, they are being treated as a 'male who presents as a woman and believes they are a woman'. Because their every reaction is based on that. Not on them being female in any way.
Even when they have extreme body modifications, it is to be their own concept of what a female looks like to them. It is not what a female is. How can it be?
The only way a person can experience life as a woman, is to have a female body, formed around the production of large gametes, even if it doesn't produce those and to navigate their life based on the decisions they and society makes that revolve around them having that body.
A male can conceptualise what it might be like to be a female, but that is all it ever is - their concept of being female.
They may do it because they don't feel they fit into how they conceptualise how a male person interacts with the world (ie. their own stereotypes around being male) or they do it because they want to be seen as a female (using their own stereotypes of how a female navigates life). It really doesn't matter though. Their motivation is irrelevant to the outcome.
Which is that they will always be just a male person who believes they are something they are objectively not.
How can the material reality be any different? This is why someone's gender is only based on someone's philosophical belief. And philosophical beliefs are fine for people to hold, but not one person in the UK has to comply with another's philosophical belief.
No matter how kind or respectful that person who is trying to shame you into complying to use that language tells you that it is to use the preferred language, it is someone who is demanding that you support their own philosophical belief.
And no one has to pretend that any person on this earth has changed sex or is the sex they identify as but is materially not.
And those attempting to shame others in doing so, are not the 'kind' people that they would have you believe.
And no male person can ‘live as a woman’.