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Butlin's Skegness removes 5 trans women from female toilets

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TERFtown · 09/10/2024 20:19

https://x.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1843952648460140987?s=46&t=p6GESSn09HWHVXYgTLIbJg

(I don't want to call them "trans women", but I don't know what terminology gets me banned here!)

"Security guards removed five cross-dressing men, including this one, from the women's toilets at Bang Face, a dance festival at Butlin's Skegness this weekend. The men responded with a coordinated protest and the security guards have now "been removed""

Anyone up for a TERFy weekend in Butlin's?!? Wine

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SpringIsCome · 24/04/2025 14:42

Does anyone know if Butlins are going to abide by the SC ruling?

Bit odd of Butlins to turn against their customer base.

It would be nice if the security guards could have an apology now.

ArabellaScott · 18/10/2024 06:47

UtopiaPlanitia · 17/10/2024 14:58

It’s not unlike the Gnomes of South Park and the economic theory underpinning their stealing of underpants.

Currently the EDI thinking seems to run a bit like this:

Phase One: Introduce queer theory influenced policies throughout the organisation especially in customer facing departments
Phase Two: ?????
Phase Three: PROFIT

^Yes, I’m being flippant but sometimes the determination of organisations to alienate core service users, or customer groups, by implementing unsafe and bonkers policies does seem highly counterintuitive.

Ha! Yes.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 17/10/2024 23:31

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 10/10/2024 23:26

That picture is quite sad.

What do they think about themselves, really?do they look at that picture and think ‘pretty ‘? Or ‘female’ , or ‘fanciable’ or …..what?

I’m not pretending, I do feel really sorry, to be that messed up, to be so unhappy with one of the basic definitions of yourself, must be grim

( still doesn’t mean you should be waving your defining part around in women’s spaces, though)

I don’t feel sorry for them at all - that man is wielding a huge knife. These men are bullies and are worthy of nothing but contempt and derision.

viques · 17/10/2024 23:21

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 10/10/2024 11:13

I’m pretty certain any hypothetical list would include:

wearing lipstick
tilting your head to one side when listening
heels
flicking your hair
only talking about shoes and handbags
always having sanpro in your handbag to offer other women in public toilets

Pillow fights and girly pyjama parties

squealing

running while waving your hands/ waving your hands while running

lcakethereforeIam · 17/10/2024 22:54

Sounds like a heck of a blockage!

kanye toilet GIF by ADWEEK
UtopiaPlanitia · 17/10/2024 14:58

ArabellaScott · 17/10/2024 08:56

What's so daft is that in many cases they are apparently choosing to actively disenfranchise their core demographic.

Queer theory applied to marketing? Disrupt the idea of profitability being desirable?

It’s not unlike the Gnomes of South Park and the economic theory underpinning their stealing of underpants.

Currently the EDI thinking seems to run a bit like this:

Phase One: Introduce queer theory influenced policies throughout the organisation especially in customer facing departments
Phase Two: ?????
Phase Three: PROFIT

^Yes, I’m being flippant but sometimes the determination of organisations to alienate core service users, or customer groups, by implementing unsafe and bonkers policies does seem highly counterintuitive.

ArabellaScott · 17/10/2024 08:56

TeaMistress · 15/10/2024 22:12

There will be a lot of businesses in this position. Women do not forgive or forget those companies who have actively sought to suppress and harm women by aiding and abetting those who are seeking to encroach on our language, our sex based rights and spaces. The list is going to be long.

What's so daft is that in many cases they are apparently choosing to actively disenfranchise their core demographic.

Queer theory applied to marketing? Disrupt the idea of profitability being desirable?

TeaMistress · 15/10/2024 22:12

Bodeganights · 15/10/2024 21:57

A fair amount will go bankrupt before it's all over. I'm pretty sure even the likes of m and s and j Lewis will be among the casualties.

At some future time the tipping point will happen, when every woman knows another woman who met a man in the previously womens changing room. Of course there are plenty of handmaidens to wave it away, but it wont be waved away forever.

There will be a lot of businesses in this position. Women do not forgive or forget those companies who have actively sought to suppress and harm women by aiding and abetting those who are seeking to encroach on our language, our sex based rights and spaces. The list is going to be long.

Bodeganights · 15/10/2024 21:57

IGuessIllbetheFirst · 14/10/2024 21:47

When this is all over, because I believe that one day men in women’s clothing will again just be men in women’s clothing, will the companies that bowed down to these bullies realise the unrepairable damage they have inflicted upon themselves? So many companies have just sold themselves out - John Lewis, Body Shop amongst them as well as now Butlins.

A fair amount will go bankrupt before it's all over. I'm pretty sure even the likes of m and s and j Lewis will be among the casualties.

At some future time the tipping point will happen, when every woman knows another woman who met a man in the previously womens changing room. Of course there are plenty of handmaidens to wave it away, but it wont be waved away forever.

spannasaurus · 15/10/2024 20:59

Baroness Nicholson has written to Butlins
https://x.com/Baroness_Nichol/status/1846263639306576371

Butlin's Skegness removes 5 trans women from female toilets
EasternStandard · 15/10/2024 20:47

HandDefence · 10/10/2024 14:42

I mean are there any situations where pro gender ideology might think oh hang on

SinnerBoy · 15/10/2024 20:37

KimDealsBass · 13/10/2024 12:12

These guards then called for reinforcements and several women were physically removed from the toilets.

From the reports I've seen, no women were removed, only men.

TeaMistress · 15/10/2024 19:14

More censorship @MNHQ ? I will not pretend that a man is a woman. Men wearing woman face and parading round as a caricature and a parody of womanhood are still men.

BestEffort · 15/10/2024 18:33

Is there an alternative cheep holiday resort like butlins? Does anyone know? Haven and parkdean etc are ok but I've always preferred butlins for the cheep good package and more to do. Just emailed them asking for clarification on their policy for single sex toilets and made it clear if I can't be sure my dd won't come face to face with a male person in the toilets we will be holidaying elsewhere. Trouble is we go a couple times a year as it's all we can afford and I'd hate to have to follow through with a boycott 😩

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GarethSouthgatesWaistcoat · 15/10/2024 17:30

KimDealsBass · 13/10/2024 12:12

They were third party contractors brought in for the festival, not employees, so "no" is the short answer. They don't have the rights of employees.

I have been to quite a few Bang Face events myself. I didn't go this year but obviously know a lot of people who did go. The version of events I have consistently heard from several different people is that the women in the toilets (and these were predominantly biological females) strongly opposed the actions of the security guards who followed the trans woman into the toilets, and even staged a protest in there.

These guards then called for reinforcements and several women were physically removed from the toilets. There have been allegations of very heavy-handed behaviour towards women (and again these included biological females) but obviously I wasn't there, so this is hearsay. The police are investigating these allegations.

If those allegations are upheld, it's very poor optics for women to be (allegedly) assaulted in the name of "protecting women".

It's certainly interesting but what right do these biologically female allies have to decide that the women's toilets are now unisex. Do other (biological) women at the event get no say?

ellenback21 · 15/10/2024 17:28

GarethSouthgatesWaistcoat · 15/10/2024 17:16

Power.

Power. This is what my DH repeatedly says about MtF. I think 'good' men have valid insights on what motivates men who cross boundaries, even young men

GarethSouthgatesWaistcoat · 15/10/2024 17:16

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 10/10/2024 23:26

That picture is quite sad.

What do they think about themselves, really?do they look at that picture and think ‘pretty ‘? Or ‘female’ , or ‘fanciable’ or …..what?

I’m not pretending, I do feel really sorry, to be that messed up, to be so unhappy with one of the basic definitions of yourself, must be grim

( still doesn’t mean you should be waving your defining part around in women’s spaces, though)

Power.

IGuessIllbetheFirst · 14/10/2024 21:47

When this is all over, because I believe that one day men in women’s clothing will again just be men in women’s clothing, will the companies that bowed down to these bullies realise the unrepairable damage they have inflicted upon themselves? So many companies have just sold themselves out - John Lewis, Body Shop amongst them as well as now Butlins.

KimDealsBass · 13/10/2024 14:15

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/10/2024 14:09

There have been allegations of very heavy-handed behaviour towards women (and again these included biological females)

"Women"
would only "include biological females" because males are not women.

I fully agree that security shouldn't be heavy handed towards anyone but security staff have always had to physically remove people who aren't cooperative. Don't fight with bouncers, it's unlikely to go well.

I emphasised "biological females" because there is a lot of misinformation going around about all involved being trans. That's simply not true, according to women who were actually there.

Police investigations are under way. It remains to be seen what the outcome of those will be.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/10/2024 14:09

There have been allegations of very heavy-handed behaviour towards women (and again these included biological females)

"Women"
would only "include biological females" because males are not women.

I fully agree that security shouldn't be heavy handed towards anyone but security staff have always had to physically remove people who aren't cooperative. Don't fight with bouncers, it's unlikely to go well.

KimDealsBass · 13/10/2024 12:25

DialSquare · 11/10/2024 17:36

They're so fucking clueless. They constantly sneer about us being middle aged and not "inclusive" then say that raves have always been inclusive. Where do they think all the original ravers are now? We're all fucking middle aged!

Ah yes, Bang Face has in the past marketed itself as "neo-rave". It's not an 'old skool rave' type of event and a lot of the acts are more d&b, breakcore, hardcore and so on. It started out as a club night some time in the early 2000s. That being said, there are certainly acts that do go right back to the original rave era including 808 State, Altern-8 etc.

So you're right that it's not a carbon copy of the original rave scene.

KimDealsBass · 13/10/2024 12:12

TERFtown · 11/10/2024 16:01

If the security guards are sacked, I wonder if they'd have an employment tribunal?

They were third party contractors brought in for the festival, not employees, so "no" is the short answer. They don't have the rights of employees.

I have been to quite a few Bang Face events myself. I didn't go this year but obviously know a lot of people who did go. The version of events I have consistently heard from several different people is that the women in the toilets (and these were predominantly biological females) strongly opposed the actions of the security guards who followed the trans woman into the toilets, and even staged a protest in there.

These guards then called for reinforcements and several women were physically removed from the toilets. There have been allegations of very heavy-handed behaviour towards women (and again these included biological females) but obviously I wasn't there, so this is hearsay. The police are investigating these allegations.

If those allegations are upheld, it's very poor optics for women to be (allegedly) assaulted in the name of "protecting women".

ArabellaScott · 11/10/2024 21:43

DialSquare · 11/10/2024 17:36

They're so fucking clueless. They constantly sneer about us being middle aged and not "inclusive" then say that raves have always been inclusive. Where do they think all the original ravers are now? We're all fucking middle aged!

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