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1967 Valley of the Dolls film

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ZeldaFighter · 09/09/2024 18:22

"Why can't a woman be more like a man?" waiIs one of the male characters. I believe he was a repressed, closeted gay man.

I watched it years ago as my (then new) boyfriend liked it. I now think he simply enjoyed the preponderance of large-breastfed women.

The line stayed with me. It puzzled me as surely not being men was what men liked about women. Then 90s ladette culture had girls who shagged, drank and watched football like boys. Then MTF trans people being much better "women" with their lack of periods or menopause, better sporting performance, male interests etc

Same behaviour, different decades? Interested to hear any thoughts.

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TheCatsTongue · 28/06/2025 21:01

MistyGreenAndBlue · 28/06/2025 19:47

Fgs. So somebody first wrote this crap. Then some other idiot published it and then an even worse idiot made a bloody film of it?

I am now ready to resign from the human race. 🙄

It's an excellent film, it's one that makes you think, particularly around the fantastical element in this film. There are no easy answers.

Pedro Almodovor films are morally complex films. Much better than the straight-forward moralising you get in Hollywood and British films.

TheCatsTongue · 28/06/2025 20:58

lcakethereforeIam · 28/06/2025 12:05

Isn't there a film where the guy...you know that bloke?...he was the voice of Puss in Boots! That guy! Anyway he kidnapped the man who'd sexually assaulted his daughter leading to her suicide and turned him into his daughter, he was a skilled plastic surgeon. Imagine if he'd been an accountant! They became lovers. It was fucked up. I think she/he bided her time and killed him.

No, he made the kidnapped man look like his deceased wife, and that is why he wanted a relationship with the person.

His wife burned to death in a car accident? And he invented a burn-proof skin that he tested on the kidnapped man.

CassOle · 28/06/2025 19:53

Written by a man.

When I saw the film, I was pleased that I realised that the patient and the rapist were the same person due to the ripped fabric. Both the patient and the rapist would rip clothes and then create things from the ripped pieces. I had not heard about AGP at that time. The story makes a lot more sense now.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11367816-tarantula?fromsearch=true&fromsrp=true&qid=xLdAzKCy7P&rank=7

ETA - I can't imagine what a transwidow would make of it, but I suspect that many of the themes would feel very familiar in the worst ways.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 28/06/2025 19:47

CassOle · 28/06/2025 19:42

It was Antonio's dead wife that the rapist was transformed into. Antonio's brother (in the film) was dressed a tiger and thought that the transwoman actually was the dead wife, which confused him, because IIRC he had something to do with the wife's death. Sex still happened, of course. I think the transwoman ended up happy because the woman he had been in love with before being captured was a lesbian and now they could be together.

Of course, pre (forced) transition the rapist is played by a man, and afterwords by a woman.

The book (Tarantula) is meant to be even more depraved, but I have not read it.

Fgs. So somebody first wrote this crap. Then some other idiot published it and then an even worse idiot made a bloody film of it?

I am now ready to resign from the human race. 🙄

CassOle · 28/06/2025 19:42

yossell · 28/06/2025 17:01

Is that The Skin I live In? An Almodovar film? It's pretty weird...

I am intrigued by the large breastfed women in the op though. I really can't tell just by sight.

It was Antonio's dead wife that the rapist was transformed into. Antonio's brother (in the film) was dressed a tiger and thought that the transwoman actually was the dead wife, which confused him, because IIRC he had something to do with the wife's death. Sex still happened, of course. I think the transwoman ended up happy because the woman he had been in love with before being captured was a lesbian and now they could be together.

Of course, pre (forced) transition the rapist is played by a man, and afterwords by a woman.

The book (Tarantula) is meant to be even more depraved, but I have not read it.

Tantomile · 28/06/2025 19:23

Love Valley of the Dolls - Patty Duke-Austin.

lcakethereforeIam · 28/06/2025 17:30

That's the one. I could remember Almodovar, but wasn't 100% sure it was one of his. Banderas i completely blanked on.

yossell · 28/06/2025 17:01

lcakethereforeIam · 28/06/2025 12:05

Isn't there a film where the guy...you know that bloke?...he was the voice of Puss in Boots! That guy! Anyway he kidnapped the man who'd sexually assaulted his daughter leading to her suicide and turned him into his daughter, he was a skilled plastic surgeon. Imagine if he'd been an accountant! They became lovers. It was fucked up. I think she/he bided her time and killed him.

Is that The Skin I live In? An Almodovar film? It's pretty weird...

I am intrigued by the large breastfed women in the op though. I really can't tell just by sight.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 28/06/2025 16:53

lcakethereforeIam · 28/06/2025 12:05

Isn't there a film where the guy...you know that bloke?...he was the voice of Puss in Boots! That guy! Anyway he kidnapped the man who'd sexually assaulted his daughter leading to her suicide and turned him into his daughter, he was a skilled plastic surgeon. Imagine if he'd been an accountant! They became lovers. It was fucked up. I think she/he bided her time and killed him.

Antonio Banderas. He did a few weird kinky films but I haven't heard of this one.

ImWearingPantaloons · 28/06/2025 16:33

I love Valley Of The Dolls, have it in DVD and one of guilty pleasures when I’m home alone on a rainy day. Love Sharon Tate movies (RIP)

MarieDeGournay · 28/06/2025 16:19

ZeldaFighter · 09/09/2024 22:42

Yep, I did mean the huge tits Russ Meyer one. I think I should just stick to reading other women's wise words! I'm not doing very well here!

You started an interesting and fun chat about films and books, and gave us the memorable typo 'large breastfed women'😀 so 'you're grand' as we say in Ireland, and come back any time with more things for us to talk aboutSmile
BTW I'm laughing with you and not at you about the 'breastfed' typo, we all do typos, but that one is brill!Grin

lcakethereforeIam · 28/06/2025 12:05

Isn't there a film where the guy...you know that bloke?...he was the voice of Puss in Boots! That guy! Anyway he kidnapped the man who'd sexually assaulted his daughter leading to her suicide and turned him into his daughter, he was a skilled plastic surgeon. Imagine if he'd been an accountant! They became lovers. It was fucked up. I think she/he bided her time and killed him.

AliasGrace47 · 28/06/2025 01:55

I see what you mean about ladettes: but otoh why shouldn't a woman watch football? Or play it? As a GC, that doesn't make her a man!

Drinking and too much shagging are bad for both sexes, tho they tend to hit women harder due to pregnancy potential & less alcohol restitance.

StainlessSteelMouse · 10/09/2024 23:52

theDudesmummy · 10/09/2024 22:44

O.G I had forgotten Myra Beckenridge. Thanks for reminding me. I was blown away by the book when I was in my 20s. I never saw the film.

It's a real mess. Very much of its time. But there are fun moments. Raquel had a talent for comedy that was rarely used, and there is the jaw dropping spectacle of an 80 year old Mae West running a casting couch for male actors.

lifeinthelastlane · 10/09/2024 22:58

I like the idea of "large, breastfed women" 😂

theDudesmummy · 10/09/2024 22:44

O.G I had forgotten Myra Beckenridge. Thanks for reminding me. I was blown away by the book when I was in my 20s. I never saw the film.

Rightsraptor · 10/09/2024 21:37

I love the theme song from Valley of the Dolls, sung by Dionne Warwick.

TempestTost · 10/09/2024 02:12

I think people in general want things both ways. Heterosexuals, at least, are often very attracted to the specific differences between the sexes, the things that most differentiate them. oth physically and otherwise.

At the same time, the sentiment, why can't they be more like us, seems really common. Why can't they care about the things we care about, enjoy the things we enjoy, want the kinds of lives we want? You can hear groups of men talk this way about their female partners and groups of women about their male partners.

SinnerBoy · 10/09/2024 01:51

I only found out a few years ago that The Valley of the Dolls was a film (I'm a 54 year old stripling...) I just thought it was the Generation X song.

Yes, I'm probably a Philistine!

StainlessSteelMouse · 10/09/2024 01:20

Some of the trashy movies of the time have become so camp with age that they're lots of fun now, if you're in a silly enough mood.

I'm always amazed that nobody has tried to cancel Myra Breckinridge yet. Maybe it's too old, too weird and too obscure. You can tell it's a male fantasy though, by the fact a guy gets on the operating table and wakes up as Raquel Welch. Almost no women look like Raquel Welch.

Though I've heard a story that Raquel wanted to play the male part too, which could have been hilarious.

Love My Fair Lady. Haven't seen it in years though. Long overdue a rewatch.

OhcantthInkofaname · 10/09/2024 00:43

Hey now, I'm in the US, I got a one day suspension for skipping school to go see Valley of the Dolls. I loved that movie.

MissEsmeWatson · 10/09/2024 00:34

Beyond the Valley of the Dolls isn't really anything to do with the original Valley of the Dolls. Best to read the original Jacqueline Susann book, I love it.

jazzybelle · 10/09/2024 00:28

Valley of the Dolls is a really good book.

TheCultureHusks · 10/09/2024 00:25

THTRMO!

NPET · 10/09/2024 00:03

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 09/09/2024 18:28

Isn't that from the 1964 film 'My Fair Lady' sung by Rex Harrison?

(I haven't seen Valley of the Dolls)

That's immediately what I thought.

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