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Jamie film

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dramanodrama · 11/07/2024 17:53

I've name changed for this due to privacy concerns but HQ would be able to confirm I'm a regular on this board and am above board.
My Dd is watching this film as part of her drama GCSE. I've not personally heard of it. Dd says it's about a boy who is gay, something to do with drag and discrimination and Section 28. We have been discussing the misogyny of drag today and Dd told me they were watching this film. I think they've only recently started it and she doesn't know much about it but deems it boring.
I'm wondering if it's appropriate and thought here was the best place to ask for considered opinions. The teacher is gay and saying he and Jamie had things in common and that when he was in high school 15 years ago (2009) there was no gay people around, not in the media etc and he felt isolated. I left school in 1992 and there were gay lads at school, Freddie Mercury was big news, gay actors, other gay musicians etc. I don't remember many gay women though 🤔 but my point is that I left school in 1992 and there was plenty of gay people around so how was there less 17 years later?

Maybe Dd has misunderstood his explanation. Maybe it's standard drama GCSE material. Maybe I'm just a bit paranoid after two Dd have been through the school and had issues due to being GC.

The school is on the surface fully stonewalled with pride flags flying and printed on the walls but there are teachers who are GC from what I've seen in my contact with them.
Is this film an issue or a non-issue? I hate drag and its misogynistic woman face and am not sure if it has a place in GCSEs.

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KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 13/07/2024 18:12

SammyScrounge · 13/07/2024 16:43

What do you mean by saying 'heteronormativity was unchallenged'?

I don’t think the word or concept was current. So it was normal and acceptable to assume everyone was straight. And to look surprised and perhaps be nosy and discuss it if someone wasn’t.

Now I’d say we are still pretty heteronormative but people try harder and generally realise they’ve been unreasonable to make het assumptions.

Obviously that depends where you are and who you’re mixing with.

SammyScrounge · 13/07/2024 16:43

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 13/07/2024 07:42

There was a definite regression in the 2000s though.

In the 80s it was unspoken and heteronormativity was the rule.

In the 90s things were opening up in every day life, but heteronormativity was unchallenged.

In the 2000s gay became an insult meaning lame.

Teenagers are savage and will bully anyone and everything. If it's not sexuality it's dress sense or glasses.

What do you mean by saying 'heteronormativity was unchallenged'?

TeenDivided · 13/07/2024 14:07

@Groveparker01 No not a drama teacher but both my DDs attempted GCSE drama and due to SEN I found myself having to understand what they were and weren't meant to be focusing on.

aodirjjd · 13/07/2024 13:31

WorriedRelative · 12/07/2024 11:55

In 1994 Brookside aired the famous Lesbian kiss with Anna Friel.

In 1999 Queer as Folk was on TV.

In 2004 The Archers aired a gay kiss and in 2006 a gay marriage.

Eurotrash first aired in 1993.

Martina Naviratilova was out in the 80s, Justin Fashanu came out as the first openly gay footballer in 1990. Gareth Thomas came out as the first gay rugby player in 2009.

Claire Balding has been on the BBC since the 1990s.

Gay representation was definitely there when this guy was growing up, it could have been better, but it was there and he seems to be rather dismissive of LGB history.

Justin Fashnu coming out ruined his career. After he came out as gay he never got another full time contract offered and he eventually committed suicide due to allegations he claimed were a result of him being openly gay.

Martina was outed unwillingly and initially denied being gay and claimed instead to be bisexual. The backlash was huge.

Stories like these don’t paint a picture of gay representation to me. They paint a story of shut up or look what happens to you and you should be ashamed.

There are so many comments on here saying “well my workplace/university had an openly gay man so obviously it was fine to be gay in the 80’s”. Like I don’t know where you guys went to school or worked but highschool and the workplace or highschool and university are just so totally different it’s a moot point.

NotBadConsidering · 13/07/2024 13:03

Carol & Susan in Friends were often 'the baddies' in storylines.

Not particularly, Ross’s insecurity was usually the punchline whenever they were involved in an episode. Besides, Susan was the OW in Ross’s marriage, it makes sense he didn’t like her and she was seen as the “baddie”, look at any thread on Mumsnet about being the OW!

drspouse · 13/07/2024 12:03

Where did the teacher grow up, the dark ages?
I started my previous job in 2000 and my boss was living with the same man he'd been with for 10 years and no more quiet about it than married colleagues.
I was at uni in the 80s in the middle of the AIDS crisis and had openly gay friends. In fact it seems odd to say "openly" like it's a problem.
My Beautiful Launderette?
Brokeback Mountain?
Julian Clary?
Graham Norton?
John Barrowman?
Maybe he was Amish.

MarieDeGournay · 13/07/2024 12:02
  • sorry, Gabrielle! a little bit of gerbil sneaked in to my spelling there😄
MarieDeGournay · 13/07/2024 12:01

OK so this is a bit of a stretch because they weren't 'out', but hey any excuse to revisit them: Xena and Garbrielle💞

There's a distinction being made by some posters between role models and positive role models - I think that got better for a while, and has now got worse - flouncing, glitter, and the almost total absence of lesbians do not constitute positive role models.

Groveparker01 · 13/07/2024 10:19

I can't quote the post but TeenDivided are you a drama teacher?

Bit of a sidetrack but I'm interested in what you say about the discussion not being about the text and whether this is a new development (possibly since new GCSEs?).

I did drama GCSE and theatre studies A Level a LONG time ago and we definitely discussed the text (more in A Level I think) but I know things are v different now. My son is about to start GCSE drama so I'm interested in the changes.

PeppercornMill · 13/07/2024 09:53

TBH this teacher does actually sound like the "only gay in the (Manchester) village", pretending that he faced discrimination everywhere and not there weren't any other visible gay people around.

You see this a lot today with the TQ+ activism, with the constant desire to see discrimination everywhere, "deny trans existence", "killing trans children" etc.

Society today rewards victimisation, gardening magazines and computer game magazines etc have to feature a TQ+ person during Pride month to talk about how tough life is for them. We need to know about the struggles of men wearing high heels whilst cutting the grass.

Ingenieur · 13/07/2024 09:44

@KeirSpoutsTwaddle

In the 2000s gay became an insult meaning lame.

The 2000s? My sweet summer child...

Also, "lame" is derogatory itself against disabled people, probably shouldn't be throwing that one around.

TeenDivided · 13/07/2024 09:32

SaltPorridge · 13/07/2024 08:46

Just to reiterate, in drama the focus on the discussion should not be on issues with characterisation etc. It should be on how a production chooses to portray the script through staging, costume etc.

If that's the case, why study "Jamie" rather than a classic vanilla story like "Romeo and Juliet"? How you portray the script of "Jamie" where the costume is the story is a great question, and what happens if you cast a girl as Jamie - that fundamentally messes with the storyline. Imagine a mother giving her daughter a pair of heels as a birthday present so she can go to work as a burlesque dancer.

Can't work out if you are agreeing or disagreeing with me! However I agree a casting discussion would come under scope. Eg would the film have felt different if someone the build of a rugby player had been cast as Jamie?
My DD did blood brothers.

Carebearsonmybed · 13/07/2024 09:01

As a teen during s28, which I wasn't aware of there were next to no positive representations of lesbians in popular culture or IRL.

KD Lang was the only out/open lesbian I could name.

The Anna Friel kiss was a big deal but seemed more about straight male voyerism than gay women. (There was no happy ending)

Carol & Susan in Friends were often 'the baddies' in storylines.

In 1996 This Life had positive male gay characters but a storyline involved a lesbian leaving her husband and how it was unfair that wasn't adultery.

It wasn't until Sugar Rush on tv in 2005 that a young lesbian was portrayed positively, even then her crush wasn't reciprocated.

When Ellen came out/was outed she was dropped from her job wasn't she? It took a while for her career to recover.

Other female celebrities we now know are lesbians weren't out and I certainly didn't twig there were in an age of heteronormativity eg Navratilova Balding Tosvig Margoles Foster, Sam Fox, Sara Gilbert, etc

No one in school was out. No pupils no teachers.

I didnt meet a gay person until til uni. Even then it was a rare novelty. A friend came out and it was a BIG DEAL.

SaltPorridge · 13/07/2024 08:46

Just to reiterate, in drama the focus on the discussion should not be on issues with characterisation etc. It should be on how a production chooses to portray the script through staging, costume etc.

If that's the case, why study "Jamie" rather than a classic vanilla story like "Romeo and Juliet"? How you portray the script of "Jamie" where the costume is the story is a great question, and what happens if you cast a girl as Jamie - that fundamentally messes with the storyline. Imagine a mother giving her daughter a pair of heels as a birthday present so she can go to work as a burlesque dancer.

FrancescaContini · 13/07/2024 08:31

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 13/07/2024 06:55

Can I give a mention to Buffy The Vampire Slayer? Willow came out as a lesbian in season 4 which would have been around 2001. And as mentioned above, Carol in Friends would have been in 1994.
Yes the characters weren't "celebrated" (within their own shows) like they would be now, more it was just another part of the character, I wonder if that's the difference?
Back then people kept way more of their private life actually private, that's not the fashion now so I wonder if that's why there's a mismatch between acknowledgement and celebration?

And I agree it's always been hard for teenagers to come out, what teen wants to be different from the crowd?

I think you’ve hit the nail on the head with “celebrated”. As you say, their sexuality was just one part of their character: it wasn’t the over-riding (not sure if that’s a sexual pun but unintentional if so) feature.

Perhaps this explains why many of us who grew up with the TV programmes, characters, introductions of laws etc mentioned on this thread are baffled/irritated by the ubiquity of the rainbows and sparkles because they suggest that until recently, anyone represented by the Pride flag was terribly oppressed by all kinds of -phobias and unable to “be themselves”, and why we raise an eyebrow at the insistence on foregrounding someone’s sexuality. We just don’t care about your sexuality - it’s not the most important thing about you.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 13/07/2024 08:12

I seem to remember a gay character on Shine of Harvey Moon - must’ve been 80s?

Of course there were gay - and even shock horror - lesbian role models for young folk in the 80s.

Signalbox · 13/07/2024 08:01

Gay men have had good representation on TV way before 2009. Lesbians on the other hand not so much (even now)

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 13/07/2024 07:42

There was a definite regression in the 2000s though.

In the 80s it was unspoken and heteronormativity was the rule.

In the 90s things were opening up in every day life, but heteronormativity was unchallenged.

In the 2000s gay became an insult meaning lame.

Teenagers are savage and will bully anyone and everything. If it's not sexuality it's dress sense or glasses.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 13/07/2024 07:39

Just to nip back to 'the only gay in the village'-

Not only played by a gay man, laughing about someone being so invested in their special identity that no one else cared about- Myffanwy (?) the barmaid was a lesbian. Little Daffyd never noticed because he was so blinded by himself.

TeenDivided · 13/07/2024 07:22

Groveparker01 · 13/07/2024 06:59

I'm not a teacher but I am a writer (and GC) if that counts for anything!

I like Jamie. My son who is 14 has watched the musical and the film version. It's really good.

I do think there are issues with the female characters that your daughter might want to point. His friend is quite caricatured and like someone else said - just there as a sidekick, the teacher is awful, and Jamie is so horrible to his lovely mum (more so in the film) that I found it quite upsetting.

But it's fun and there is a lot to talk about. I enjoyed both the film and the stage version.

Just to reiterate, in drama the focus on the discussion should not be on issues with characterisation etc. It should be on how a production chooses to portray the script through staging, costume etc.

Groveparker01 · 13/07/2024 06:59

I'm not a teacher but I am a writer (and GC) if that counts for anything!

I like Jamie. My son who is 14 has watched the musical and the film version. It's really good.

I do think there are issues with the female characters that your daughter might want to point. His friend is quite caricatured and like someone else said - just there as a sidekick, the teacher is awful, and Jamie is so horrible to his lovely mum (more so in the film) that I found it quite upsetting.

But it's fun and there is a lot to talk about. I enjoyed both the film and the stage version.

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 13/07/2024 06:55

Can I give a mention to Buffy The Vampire Slayer? Willow came out as a lesbian in season 4 which would have been around 2001. And as mentioned above, Carol in Friends would have been in 1994.
Yes the characters weren't "celebrated" (within their own shows) like they would be now, more it was just another part of the character, I wonder if that's the difference?
Back then people kept way more of their private life actually private, that's not the fashion now so I wonder if that's why there's a mismatch between acknowledgement and celebration?

And I agree it's always been hard for teenagers to come out, what teen wants to be different from the crowd?

Imustgoforarun · 13/07/2024 06:22

I worked in a London local authority, 1987 - 2002. There were certainly gay men there. I worked with one who would boast about his antics. 1987 was still very old fashioned compared to now. Managers were addressed by title. All admin posts were female and sexism was rife. My female colleague, 21 at the time when pregnant in 1988 was asked to leave as was advised that a career and babies didn’t mix. There was discrimination and sexism everywhere then and certainly not just at gay men.

FartyBrainedHippo · 13/07/2024 06:12

Priscilla, Queen of the Desert came out(!) in 1994, and was a stage show long before 2009. Gay and trans.

petermaddog · 13/07/2024 02:46

hmmm 2 cousins moved to miami(more open there)and worked at a drag bar for years the tourist loved the place. this was in1979 so.....gay men had hard time to get a job when out.not campy just out.

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