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There's nothing I can do about this, is there?

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Acunningruse · 11/04/2024 18:57

Visited a different city today for work and went to a branch of Caffè Nero. I was served by what was very clearly a man, despite his attempt to look female and the fact he was wearing a she/her badge. Said man was wearing extremely tight leggings which, as he was wearing a waist-length t-shirt, meant his manhood was obviously visible. His appearance was a source of mumbling/muttering in the queue and he seemed to be enjoying the attention with a lot of hair-flicking.

I m not able to articulate why this made me so uncomfortable- other than the fact that no way in hell would I want to share a bathroom or changing room with this person.

But there's nothing at all to be done, is there? As any objection would surely be met with accusations of "discrimination " and "be kind".

Just so so frustrating. I just wanted to scream "you are not a woman!!!!" But I can't, can I.

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AGodawfulsmallaffair · 11/04/2024 19:15

NeverDropYourMooncup · 11/04/2024 19:14

Health & Safety will probably provide the Karma for this at some point.

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 11/04/2024 19:14

Health & Safety will probably provide the Karma for this at some point.

KellieJaysLapdog · 11/04/2024 19:06

Report him for not wearing an apron!

AtrociousCircumstance · 11/04/2024 19:01

Gross. No one needs to see your cock and balls mate, while you’re doing your job serving fucking coffees.

You can write to the cafe and say you don’t want to see someone exposing themselves. Nothing to do with trans. You shouldn’t have to be confronted by an exhibitionist.

Make a complaint.

Distantview · 11/04/2024 19:01

He was probably getting a sexual thrill out of it if his manhood was clearly visible. No wonder you felt uncomfortable.

Username947531 · 11/04/2024 18:59

Nothing you can do unfortunately other than take your custom elsewhere.