SaffronSpice · Today 13:00
I think what needs to happen is as things get corrected the ‘old guard’ of GC have to step away and let those not trapped by earlier argument become the louder voices. This may seem harsh to those who feel they were on the front line and want to feel the satisfaction of having shifted opinion to their position, but however successful we were at getting the troops off the beaches at Dunkirk, it took D-Day to win the war.
I find this really sinister. 'As things get corrected'? With the implication that women have gone wrong along the line and have to drop out if they've misjudged something? Purity spiral stuff? 'You once said xyz, so you need to retire, grandma, and let the bright young things who know better take over'? Fuck that, @SaffronSpice No one's trapped. The path from where some of us started 18+ years ago has never been a clear straight line. Just because Kathleen Stock and Helen Joyce have had changes of heart and mind along the way, as the facts have accrued and knowledge increased, doesn't mean they're trapped or tarnished.
Are you one of the new wave of recently signed up GC women who managed to ignore all the concerns I and my cohort of tedious old-school feminists were raising over the years. Are you one of the women who, a few years ago supported men in women's DV shelters and women's centres before seeing the way the wind is blowing and deciding that now is the time to step up and take over from the nanas? I'm seeing you all over the place. I'm hearing conversations among the young grifter-women who have been taking public money to inculcate GI and are now planning to set up new training companies and new versions of feminist and women's networks to replace those they helped destroy when they went in preaching TWAW and Stonewall Law.
JB's been fighting for women for nearly 30 years. What have you done, @SaffronSpice ? We've been in this battle ever since the first men who said they were women rocked up in our unions and workplaces and universities and on the boards of charities 18 years ago and started telling us that TWAW and they were here to educate us. It's been a long, slow learning process: we've had to try and second guess the agenda and the psychology. We've had to learn the language — it's only in the last 18 months or so that we've been permitted to write AGP here on Mumsnet. How bloody dare you tell us it's time to retire and let you take over just as the battle is won and when we're the reason the UK's known as Terf Island. Without us the UK would be Canada or New Zealand by now.
'This may seem harsh'? Not harsh. Foolish and disingenuous and patronising. Show the women who've got this far the respect they deserve.