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What's going on with Genspect?

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MalagaNights · 12/11/2023 17:51

I've seen Stella O'Malley tweet about being unfairly attacked.
I've seen a weird exchange from James Lindsay about feminists trying to take down Genspect.

But I can't work out what's happened or who is fighting with who.

Any ideas?

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MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 20:54

ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 20:44

I have no idea what the Disney thread is that you are referring to, I'm afraid.

Fair enough.

It was about a Disney employee who worked with kids and wears the fairy godmother dress.
Most feminist posters thought this was positive gender non conformity.

I suspect the only difference between him and Phil is Phil is open about his agp.

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EatMyHead · 13/11/2023 20:47

RhymesWithOrange · 13/11/2023 18:41

I was at the Women's Equality Party infamous Kettering conference years back and watched the party being torn in two by women who wanted to pander to AGPs and women who wanted to centre women.

It will be interesting to see which way Genspect goes. We all know how WEP has faded into obscurity.

Genspect is not a women's rights organisation, was not established for that purpose and makes no claim to be one.

It's an organisation advocating for evidence based approaches to gender dysphoria. There's no reason why an AGP man should have input to that organisation like anyone else.

ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 20:44

I have no idea what the Disney thread is that you are referring to, I'm afraid.

MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 20:43

ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 20:30

Message seems to be: if you pretend you're not agp we'll celebrate it. If you admit it we'll shun you.

From whom?

Many GC feminists should I've interacted with on here.

Disney bloke was positive gender non conformity.
Phil is negative agp.

I reckon they're the same

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MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 20:40

RhymesWithOrange · 13/11/2023 19:47

GC isn't an ideology, it's not a label that most normal people recognise. The only common factor is that they know that people can't change sex and they're not afraid to say so. That this requires a label shows how ridiculous this debate has become.

It's like labelling people who think the world is round "Globularists" à la Simon Edge's book. They're not round world ideologues, they're normal, rational people.

That's not GC feminism.
Otherwise Matt Walsh and Donald Trump would be GC feminists.

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RhymesWithOrange · 13/11/2023 20:39

It's well documented that Blanchard's diagnostic work was good, but his recommendations were entirely free from concern for women.

How surprising from a man.

ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 20:30

Message seems to be: if you pretend you're not agp we'll celebrate it. If you admit it we'll shun you.

From whom?

OldCrone · 13/11/2023 20:25

And I disagree that it's irrelevant whether a man can become a woman. If it were possible to change sex, then there wouldn't be an issue. But the fact that it's not possible means that we should be looking at other solutions for people who are tormented by a desire to be something which they are not and never can be. Especially since their pretence to be something which they are not has such an adverse impact on other people.

OldCrone · 13/11/2023 20:19

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2023 19:58

Re my post thread about the attitudes of psychiatrists etc when it comes to dealing with paraphilic men, here’s a recent tweet by Blanchard:

https://twitter.com/BlanchardPhD/status/1724058470670868688

Text reads:
@BlanchardPhD
In my view it’s irrelevant whether a man can become a woman or vice versa. What’s relevant is whether individuals tormented by the desire to be the opposite sex are happier when they present that way, and whether or how much the majority of society is willing to accommodate this.
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AGPs aren't tormented by the desire to be a woman though, are they? They're aroused by the thought of themselves as women. I don't think society needs to be willing to accommodate this at all. Any more than society needs to accommodate any other paraphilia.

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2023 19:58

Re my post thread about the attitudes of psychiatrists etc when it comes to dealing with paraphilic men, here’s a recent tweet by Blanchard:

https://twitter.com/BlanchardPhD/status/1724058470670868688

Text reads:
@BlanchardPhD
In my view it’s irrelevant whether a man can become a woman or vice versa. What’s relevant is whether individuals tormented by the desire to be the opposite sex are happier when they present that way, and whether or how much the majority of society is willing to accommodate this.
1:35 pm · 13 Nov 2023
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Soontobe60 · 13/11/2023 19:50

Unless and until he says or acts in a way which tries to involve or compell me in his delusion
this is precisely what’s happening - he IS involving you in his delusion for sexual thrills by virtue of the fact that you’re highly unlikely to be honest and tell him he's just a man dressed up as a woman.

RhymesWithOrange · 13/11/2023 19:47

GC isn't an ideology, it's not a label that most normal people recognise. The only common factor is that they know that people can't change sex and they're not afraid to say so. That this requires a label shows how ridiculous this debate has become.

It's like labelling people who think the world is round "Globularists" à la Simon Edge's book. They're not round world ideologues, they're normal, rational people.

MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 19:39

MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 19:26

Yes.
And so am I.

Many feminists don't though.

There was a consensus on the Disney employee thread, where he was wearing the women's uniform in the Bibbity bobbity boo shop that it was positive gender non conformity we should celebrate.

It must have been ok because he hadn't written a book about being an agp.

Message seems to be: if you pretend you're not agp we'll celebrate it. If you admit it we'll shun you.

What a load of bollocks. Literally.

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Scienceblast · 13/11/2023 19:36

According to Blanchard, there are also the homosexual transexual, who have gender dysphoria since early childhood, but are attracted to males. Most of male children with gender dysphoria grow out of it by puberty, but for some it persists. I've heard that the homosexual transexual are the minority of the trans(women) population, but I've never tried to find the original source, so I don't know if it's supported by data.

MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 19:26

JanesLittleGirl · 13/11/2023 19:11

I have always assumed that every man who wears feminine apparel has AGP.

Am I a bad person who applies lazy stereotypes?

Yes.
And so am I.

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MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 19:25

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2023 19:09

I’m not susceptible to the 'cool girl' attitude of 'It’s only a dude in a dress' because I’ve listened to testimony and I’ve read extensively about AGP and the impact it has on wives/partners, on children, on women in workplaces, on the functioning of institutions.

When it comes to these blokes it’s never 'just' a dress; paraphilias are all-consuming and obsessive and escalating in nature - boundary-invasions are a feature not a bug. For alcoholics, one drink is one drink too many and it’s the same for paraphilic men and women’s attire.

While women’s clothes provide this sexual thrill for sections of the male population, this feminist is rescinding her wish to see society behave as though clothing is just clothing. Our society still hasn’t tackled the sexist stereotypes that exist for clothing aimed at women and, as long as both these attitudes exist, wearing women’s attire and boundary-breaking will have a big attraction and be a major thrill for some men.

This is the same conclusion I have eventually come to.

Where I'd disagree is the idea that we could ever reach a position where clothing wasn't gendered and where there won't be men who will want to transgress whatever norms arise.

I've come to sthe view that many social norms are not just restrictive pointless inventions but they may be playing some role in maintaining a necessary boundary or role, even if it's not clear what that is.

That doesn't mean nothing should ever chnage, or we shouldn't be open to differnce, but we should change cautiously admitting we don't necessarily forsee consequneces.

It's partly my developing unedrstanding from this within the trans issue that has led me to be more conservative generally in my thinking. Radical chnage in pursuit of utopia whist ignoring human natrure never seems to go that well.

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ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 19:19

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2023 19:09

I’m not susceptible to the 'cool girl' attitude of 'It’s only a dude in a dress' because I’ve listened to testimony and I’ve read extensively about AGP and the impact it has on wives/partners, on children, on women in workplaces, on the functioning of institutions.

When it comes to these blokes it’s never 'just' a dress; paraphilias are all-consuming and obsessive and escalating in nature - boundary-invasions are a feature not a bug. For alcoholics, one drink is one drink too many and it’s the same for paraphilic men and women’s attire.

While women’s clothes provide this sexual thrill for sections of the male population, this feminist is rescinding her wish to see society behave as though clothing is just clothing. Our society still hasn’t tackled the sexist stereotypes that exist for clothing aimed at women and, as long as both these attitudes exist, wearing women’s attire and boundary-breaking will have a big attraction and be a major thrill for some men.

Yes. May be as well as reading the chap's book, try reading some of the Trans Widows' threads.

MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 19:17

RhymesWithOrange · 13/11/2023 18:43

Also, GC is absolutely not an ideology. The only thing "gender critical" feminists have in common is that they know that transwomen are men. That's not enough to call an ideology.

I guess it's hard to define, but your defintion would include Matt Walsh and me who would be neither feminists nor GC, so that definition doesn't work.

I've been around FWR for a long time and invoved in many debates and have seen patterns where I would call it an idelogy and where tenets such as gender is a socila construct, gender is oppressive, women are oppessed, the aim is to abolish gender, have been stated so many times you can see the sytem of thinking behind it. Often referrde to as patriarchy, whihc gender is utilsied by to oppress women.

I'd call it an ideology becuase I think those are tenets which are beleifs, that the world is then viewed through and which can't be challenged.

Not everyone is going to agree on that, but these idaeas occur agaian and again in GC discussions to the extent that I've come to see it as an ideology. One which I don't agree with.

I think what you've defined is sex realism. I am a sex realist interested in women's issues, but I'm not a GC feminist.

And I think this example of men in womens clothes is an exmaple of how some gender norms are not merely social contcuts but have some utility based in reality & pretebding it's all 'just clothes' leads to unintened consequences e.g 'wear whatever you like', has led to narcisstic men making women play along.

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JanesLittleGirl · 13/11/2023 19:11

I have always assumed that every man who wears feminine apparel has AGP.

Am I a bad person who applies lazy stereotypes?

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2023 19:09

EatMyHead · 13/11/2023 18:12

Has anyone here read Illy's book? Genuine question - I haven't.

I think I'm just not convinced by the one dimensional and simplistic narrative of him "performing his fetish". I'm going by hearing him on the podcast, where he described how sex was only one part of it. He dresses in women's clothes full time, it's not like he only does it when he wants a sexual thrill.

Some might argue with this but I think really, if the fact that "he's written a book about it" is going to be used as an argument, one should probably have a reasonable idea of what that book says. I suspect it doesn't say what people think it says.

A lot of people saying how he's "forcing" them to participate in his fetish by being shocked by it. Isn't the simple solution to that to not be shocked by it? It's only a dude in a dress. And here I was thinking this is the country that invented panto. 😀

We had decades of feminists painstakingly dismantling the idea of boys' and girls' clothes. He's certainly not the first transwoman to apparently resurrect that idea through the striking juxtaposition of opposites, but it's entirely up to us whether we want to buy into it or not.

I’m not susceptible to the 'cool girl' attitude of 'It’s only a dude in a dress' because I’ve listened to testimony and I’ve read extensively about AGP and the impact it has on wives/partners, on children, on women in workplaces, on the functioning of institutions.

When it comes to these blokes it’s never 'just' a dress; paraphilias are all-consuming and obsessive and escalating in nature - boundary-invasions are a feature not a bug. For alcoholics, one drink is one drink too many and it’s the same for paraphilic men and women’s attire.

While women’s clothes provide this sexual thrill for sections of the male population, this feminist is rescinding her wish to see society behave as though clothing is just clothing. Our society still hasn’t tackled the sexist stereotypes that exist for clothing aimed at women and, as long as both these attitudes exist, wearing women’s attire and boundary-breaking will have a big attraction and be a major thrill for some men.

MalagaNights · 13/11/2023 19:02

ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 18:34

Yes.

What I'm seeing here is the familiar argument of 'they're going to break the rules anyway so what's the point of having them'.

Having rules is essential. We don't remove rules because we expect that some transgressors will break them.

So: 'Don't involve other people in your fetish' is a pretty basic rule that a conference involving fetishists would probably do well to state.

As I said I don't disagree I just think we're now trying to reintroduce rules that the 'wear what you want' mantra got rid of.

The old rule applied to all men so we didn't have to wait for honesty on motivation and apply the rules just to them, whilst having to ignore all those who won't admit their fetish.

I think there was a pretense in the wear what you like it's just clothes mantra, that there is a group of adult men who just like to wear dresses to work for fashion reasons.

We're now trying to undo that mistake, but it still lets most of the fetishists off the hook as they'll use the loop hole we've provided.

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RhymesWithOrange · 13/11/2023 18:43

Also, GC is absolutely not an ideology. The only thing "gender critical" feminists have in common is that they know that transwomen are men. That's not enough to call an ideology.

RhymesWithOrange · 13/11/2023 18:41

I was at the Women's Equality Party infamous Kettering conference years back and watched the party being torn in two by women who wanted to pander to AGPs and women who wanted to centre women.

It will be interesting to see which way Genspect goes. We all know how WEP has faded into obscurity.

ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 18:35

Zeev · 13/11/2023 18:15

I think I'm just not convinced by the one dimensional and simplistic narrative of him "performing his fetish". I'm going by hearing him on the podcast, where he described how sex was only one part of it. He dresses in women's clothes full time, it's not like he only does it when he wants a sexual thrill.

Hi, a trans widow here. I think about 99.9% of us have heard the "I wear them for comfort, it's not only a sex thing" or variations thereof. But look at what he was wearing. He wasn't wearing women's slacks and a blouse, or even a skirt and top suitable for the office. My ex wore a tutu "because it was so comfortable".

Yep. On some levels, narcissism is complex, counterintuitive and confusing.

On other levels, it's plain bog standard one dimensional and simplistic seedy creepiness.

ArthurbellaScott · 13/11/2023 18:34

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 13/11/2023 17:00

The difficulty is you don't know if it's fetish unless they've written a book on it. or declare it as such.

It starts by telling people that Genspect sees it as an unacceptable thing to do, that this is not Pride. Don't wear your fetish to conference, and don't expect acceptance if you do.

It's moving the boundary back towards where it belongs.

Yes.

What I'm seeing here is the familiar argument of 'they're going to break the rules anyway so what's the point of having them'.

Having rules is essential. We don't remove rules because we expect that some transgressors will break them.

So: 'Don't involve other people in your fetish' is a pretty basic rule that a conference involving fetishists would probably do well to state.