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PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 16:37

That is because of your belief in such a thing as a " genuine" trans identity - which you cling to no matter what arguments or alternative evidence/persepctives are put to you.

Well you were bringing up the issue of "multiple pathways" to be trans. Fine. Let's focus on that.

I'm not going to abandon my view just because you mention something, right?

Why do you think "multiple pathways" would be important here? Why would it undermine that "there are genuine trans people"?

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 16:37

The whole 'identifying as' something comes from Queer Theory. Now we hear people who are lesbian or gay saying " I identify as a gay man" or "I identify as Queer". This is quite a new phenomena - that is straight from post modernistic ideas about the construction of the self, whereby there is only role play and no core self.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 16:24

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 16:12

I haven't been posting for years, and I didn't report anyone's post.

I'm well aware that it's alleged that there is a sexual motivation in some cases and some trans people have said things that are supportive of that.

Personally I would still be curious as to whether this is really creating a trans identity or whether they just become committed to the role.

That is because of your belief in such a thing as a " genuine" trans identity - which you cling to no matter what arguments or alternative evidence/persepctives are put to you.

If you were really interested in testing out your beliefs you would have subjected them to some of the evidence and accounts that are in plentiful supply on this board.

Queer Theory ( from which gender identity theory arises) is all about playing roles. The performance of gender.

'Identity' in the way you are using it is role play. That is why someone identifies as something - and not with something. Identifying with something means that you share a set of values or conditions.

If you identify as something, it implies you are not actually that thing.

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PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 16:19

How "genuinely" someone believes something is something only they can know; plus it still doesn't make that belief true.

This is "going round in circles".

I'm not talking about that. I haven't said well they identify that way so they must be women!

Again, your "different pathways" point just doesn't seem to mean much. Why should it matter?

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 16:12

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:35

You've been posting for years....i recognise your username. You must have read the many many threads that deal with this?

I haven't been posting for years, and I didn't report anyone's post.

I'm well aware that it's alleged that there is a sexual motivation in some cases and some trans people have said things that are supportive of that.

Personally I would still be curious as to whether this is really creating a trans identity or whether they just become committed to the role.

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 16:08

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 15:59

Because I think it's correct to say "some trans people are genuine".

Even if there are different pathways, that doesn't mean it can't be genuine identity for them.

As I was recently saying with political lesbianism, I wouldn't rule out the possibility that if you embrace an ideology, it could genuinely turn off one side of your sexuality in select cases. So for a minority of people perhaps.

So they could end up as "exclusively same sex attracted to women" because of their ideological commitment.

I don't think multiple pathways to lesbianism would mean that lesbianism isn't a real thing. Even if political lesbians may have a less stable identity and may go back to men. Like maybe when the ideological commitment weakens.

And perhaps there are multiple pathways for trans, and some should be treated in a medically different way, or considered as less stable identities where medical transition is less justified.

We keep going round in circles...and you have totally avoided the issue of the sexual motivation that lies behind transition for many, even though you posed a question about it, and evn though you have been on this board for years.

How "genuinely" someone believes something is something only they can know; plus it still doesn't make that belief true. We all hold beliefs of one sort or other, and then the time comes when the scales fall from our eyes and we come to realise that what we believed was a fantasy; or the belief was an avoidance strategy; or a naivety; or whatever it was.

You do realise that Stonewall and the new orthodoxy both say that being trans is not a medical condition, and that one does not even need to be suffering from dysphoria to be "genuinely" trans, don't you?

Of course you do.

How other people identify is for them alone. It has got nothing to do with the rest of society until it impinges on other people's rights and protections or transgresses societies moral or criminal codes.

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PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 15:59

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:28

You are still clinging to the "genuinely trans" claim. Adopting a trans identity is not like being gay - which is just a matter of fact around being attracted to people of the same sex. There is no " matter of fact" about being trans. It is not one thing. It is many things. Many motivations. Many different reasons. Many different pathways. It is not one single state.

Because I think it's correct to say "some trans people are genuine".

Even if there are different pathways, that doesn't mean it can't be genuine identity for them.

As I was recently saying with political lesbianism, I wouldn't rule out the possibility that if you embrace an ideology, it could genuinely turn off one side of your sexuality in select cases. So for a minority of people perhaps.

So they could end up as "exclusively same sex attracted to women" because of their ideological commitment.

I don't think multiple pathways to lesbianism would mean that lesbianism isn't a real thing. Even if political lesbians may have a less stable identity and may go back to men. Like maybe when the ideological commitment weakens.

And perhaps there are multiple pathways for trans, and some should be treated in a medically different way, or considered as less stable identities where medical transition is less justified.

YewTree84 · 20/09/2023 15:56

Because at the core of it, they are unwell.

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:35

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 15:17

So the answer to that question is maybe some do, but plenty of others don't. And even then, the some that do may eventually desist when reality creeps in and can no longer be denied or avoided.

OK.

It would certainly be interesting if we could know exactly what is going on in some late transitioning cases. Is it sexually motivated? Can that genuinely turn some people trans? Are they lying and just somehow committed to playing that role?

You've been posting for years....i recognise your username. You must have read the many many threads that deal with this?

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:32

See the 'trans widows' thread if you are unaware of the sexual motivations and obsessions that have taken hold of many men.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:31

Is that the Grayson Perry post that has been deleted? The one where he describes the reasons and motivations ( including sexual) behind cross dressing?And where I mention Andrea Long Chu discussing how pornograophy is what turned him trans?

i though we were having a genuine conversation -I didn't realise that you were seeking to report honest posts ( perhaps it was not you who reported?)

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Bosky · 20/09/2023 15:30

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 15:17

So the answer to that question is maybe some do, but plenty of others don't. And even then, the some that do may eventually desist when reality creeps in and can no longer be denied or avoided.

OK.

It would certainly be interesting if we could know exactly what is going on in some late transitioning cases. Is it sexually motivated? Can that genuinely turn some people trans? Are they lying and just somehow committed to playing that role?

"It would certainly be interesting if we could know exactly what is going on in some late transitioning cases. Is it sexually motivated?"

Genuine question: are you new to this topic?

Seriously, there is a wealth of research, first person accounts and more evidence on the likes of reddit than you can shake a stick at.

"Can that genuinely turn some people trans?"

As in, "Can that genuinely make some people believe that they have actually changed sex?"

Possibly but glibly calling that state of mind "trans" is part of the problem. If someone genuinely believes that they have changed sex that can be a symptom of psychosis, ie. the person is psychotic and that is just one of the symptoms they might evidence.

For example, Andrew Burns / Tiffany Scott (aka Obi Wan Kenobi/Mighty Almighty)

https://transcrimeuk.com/2017/10/31/andrew-burns-tiffany-scott/

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:28

You are still clinging to the "genuinely trans" claim. Adopting a trans identity is not like being gay - which is just a matter of fact around being attracted to people of the same sex. There is no " matter of fact" about being trans. It is not one thing. It is many things. Many motivations. Many different reasons. Many different pathways. It is not one single state.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:25

Add to that the implicit thrill in transgression...which is what lies behind Queer theory.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:23

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PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 15:17

So the answer to that question is maybe some do, but plenty of others don't. And even then, the some that do may eventually desist when reality creeps in and can no longer be denied or avoided.

OK.

It would certainly be interesting if we could know exactly what is going on in some late transitioning cases. Is it sexually motivated? Can that genuinely turn some people trans? Are they lying and just somehow committed to playing that role?

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:12

I've been witnessing the transition of a young man over the last 12 years or so - from a distance via an Internet forum. He started off with intense and chronic dysphoria and distress around his male organ - but now genuinely seems to believe ( or has talked himself into - with the encouragemnt of allies) a belief that he is a woman.

I don't think this belief will persist forever, even though he has now had the 'full' surgery. In fact - that surgery, and its consequences, may well escalate the final reckoning with reality.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:04

I see them as people who are driven by a psychological condition or state of mind - to enact a role.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 15:03

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 14:56

What I recognise is that some people identify as trans. I don't recognise that they are what they feel they are, no.

Do you recognise that they have a genuine belief? That's all that I mentioned.

I didn't say "recognise that they are really the opposite sex in some mysterious sense".

I think there are many different people who have adopted a trans identity and they have a variety of motivations and experiences. I mentioned two to you a few days ago - the tweo men who featured in the Netdflix documentary 'Regretters'. They both knew they were not really the opposite sex - they recognised they were adopting this persona in order to fulfil a deeper need that was driving them.

So the answer to that question is maybe some do, but plenty of others don't. And even then, the some that do may eventually desist when reality creeps in and can no longer be denied or avoided.

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PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 15:02

The issue is, though, that many of these men with trans identities who are in prison are themsleves predatory and/or violent.

In prison a lot of them may be lying.

Regardless of whether they are lying or not, you can always refuse to let them into a special wing, or kick them out of it, if you believe they are going to cause problems and be a threat to other prisoners' safety.

I would also consider trying harsher, much harsher, punishments on such people. Isolation. Whatever.

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 14:59

There seems to be a desire amongst many to assert that if a trans identified person is violent, predatory or abusive then they cannot actually be 'genuine'. This posits that trans identified people are by nature victims and incapable of the same range of behaviours as everyone else, which is simply not true.

The fact, though, that many men who are now transitioning are of the AGP variety - and would previously have been referred to as cross dressers. These people have a high level of paraphilia which can manifest in transgressive behaviours, sexual drives and desires. You only have to speak with the wives, and families, to know about this.

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PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 14:56

What I recognise is that some people identify as trans. I don't recognise that they are what they feel they are, no.

Do you recognise that they have a genuine belief? That's all that I mentioned.

I didn't say "recognise that they are really the opposite sex in some mysterious sense".

RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 14:50

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 14:26

"A man/ or a woman with a trans identity" best describes the reality - whilst also acknowledging the person's chosen 'identity'.

OK, so you recognise the existence of trans people then. "Trans identified male" is fine. "Trans woman" is also common. I'm not going to worry about the best term here.

Identity at this level is something you negotiate with your nearest and dearest - not something you impose on everyone.

I agree it shouldn't be imposed on the whole of society as an ideology, or when it comes to claimed "rights".

But as mentioned, it does need to be recognised in medical and legal contexts. Maybe prisons as in a trans wing of a prison. Private clubs or organisations can also recognise them of course.

What I recognise is that some people identify as trans. I don't recognise that they are what they feel they are, no.

Theer are lost of men who have vulnerabilities in prison - and yes, there could be a separate wing to protect them from violence. The issue is, though, that many of these men with trans identities who are in prison are themsleves predatory and/or violent.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 14:47

It is the transgression between public and private that is the issue. Identity should largely be a private matter - not a public one.

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RebelliousCow · 20/09/2023 14:46

PorcelinaV · 20/09/2023 14:38

Well they may want to claim "transphobia" if you call it an ideology, because they don't like criticism and want to evade having a proper debate.

So at the level of the activists, they probably don't want to admit that it's an ideology.

If you polled trans people, I don't know how many would admit, "it's an ideological belief that could be wrong".

That's the issue, though. And that is the difference, generally, with Christians who maintain a personal faith. They don't require everyone else to believe in it too.

There are trans identified peole who do know they are not really the opposite sex. They don't seek to impose it upon everyone else- it is just a way of 'presenting' that they feel they need to do.

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