Yep, every single point in there and very well made.
And not only are we not allowed to speak the blasphemous truths and pretend it isn't so, we're supposed to shut our eyes to the harms that inevitably result to women and girls. In case of upsetting those we're supposed to be pretending we don't see as or think of as men.
It's male supremacism. There's no getting away from this. It fundamentally sees a man - whatever he calls himself - as more important to enable than to care about women. It's not even just a plain lack of equality of care and perception given to women compared to that given to a man who steps into the sacred caste with a flick of linguistics. At this point, the political lobby doesn't just require that you don't see women as equals: you must perform spitting upon and deriding women to truly prove your righteousness in the Faith.
'Reframe your trauma'. 'Learn to cope'. 'Punch women who do not submit to you'.
I'm still baffled this is all actually happening. And we keep being told that 'most people (no evidence) are ok with this and think it's a good thing'.
Most people are FUBAR then.