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Sex not gender, No Outsiders changing the Equality Act, DepHead/DSL captured

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Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 12:51

Well, here we are, with a whole new thread!

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4713725-please-help-gender-not-sex-on-a-school-protected-characteristics-poster-just-spoken-to-the-head?page=10&reply=123546552

Thank you all, so so much for the support you have given me.

I am currently working on the draft of the message I want to send.

Long story short, DD's primary school displays posters by No Outsiders, showing the 9 protected characteristics of the Equality Act. Sex as been replaced with gender.

I have raised this with the Head, the assistant Head, and the Deputy Head (DepHead, as DH just doesn't work here). I have been reassured that sex is synonymous with gender in law, and, through an email stream, No Outsiders have reassured the school that it is deliberate, gender is easier to teach children than sex, especially as some will snigger at sex.

Oh, and teaching that gender is the difference between boys and girls, it makes it easier to then explain gender reassignment later on.

I'll put the message from the DepHead and No Outsiders here, and also my reply, in its current state.

Thank you all again!

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ScrollingLeaves · 01/02/2023 16:02

Definitions of gender by Stonewall, the UK government and the WHO are all different and all highlight there is social and cultural impact on how gender is understood.

Veb, after this, could you say that in contrast to how ‘gender ‘ is a social construct, children just need to know that ‘sex ‘ is physical body and whether they are a boy or a girl?

ScrollingLeaves · 01/02/2023 15:50

beccaboo222 · Today 13:59

But the poster doesn't mention the equality act. I understand what you are saying, but is your concern about the poster or what the children are being taught? Because if it's the latter, the poster doesn't reflect what the children are being taught about the equality act - wouldn't it make more sense to ask how the children are taught about the equality act, rather than going off on a tangent about the semantics of an inclusivity poster?

If the inclusivity poster is not the Equality Act, it is mimicking it to the extent that it would mislead children into thinking it is by quoting all the characteristics bar one.

Apart from that it says ‘WE ARE ALL EQUAL’ underneath.

Parents, who are aware of DoE guidance that children be taught the EA, are likely to assume the reason it is on the wall is to teach the EA.

It also misleads children into thinking sex - called gender here - can be swopped, when it cannot, by putting the bubble ‘gender’ showing male and female signs right next to the ‘gender reassignment’ bubble which shows exactly the same male and female signs but adds reverse/swop arrows.

  1. If is not the EA it is misleading.
  2. It conflates sex with gender wrongly and misleadingly
  3. If it is not the EA where has the school put a real EA poster so as to fulfil its obligations according to the DoE?
At the very least it shows that NO and, AM at its head, are manipulative, have agenda, and their resources should not be near any school.
Sex not gender, No Outsiders changing the Equality Act, DepHead/DSL captured
SinnerBoy · 01/02/2023 15:40

*Catabogus · Today 13:52

Are they really “correcting” children wrongly to say that gender not sex is in the EA?

No, they're lying, plainly and simply lying. They know the difference, but have deliberately chosen to pretend that the two are the same thing, knowing exactly why they have excluded "sex."

The poster is guising as being based on the EA act and therefore, correct and accurate, when, in fact, it's incorrect, imprecise and inaccurate.

It's propaganda and it has no place in any part of the public sphere, especially in schools.

ScrollingLeaves · 01/02/2023 15:23

.beccaboo222 · Today 13:25
As their email state, this is not a poster about the equality act. It is a poster about inclusion - "everyone is welcome here".

You need to read thread one perhaps to understand why what you say here this is wrong.

If they change gender to sex, where do intersex people fit? Are they not welcome? Gender is a more inclusive term so it makes sense to use it in this context. It doesn't mean that the school don't take the issues you've mentioned seriously, and I think it's a bit of a stretch to claim that a poster about inclusion goes against any of the policies you mention

If by intersex you mean DSD these are very rare medical conditions and unrelated to this question. People with DSDs will be protected under sex and under disability.

WarriorN · 01/02/2023 15:07

The inclusion of sex as a protected characteristic in the Equality Act, directly addresses the issue that people can be discriminated against due to their sex.

This is the key purpose of sex segregation when changing from age 8 upwards.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 01/02/2023 15:00

Yes, I think both those amends - gender and sex discrimination - are good. Clear and to the point.

WarriorN · 01/02/2023 14:59

Tose he's had an agenda from the first conception of the programme. Early pilots were actually done at schools near me (I don't think it was just him though) and it was more around LGB and of course the T.

WarriorN · 01/02/2023 14:57

I won't muddy this thread with what I know about a particular institution/ group of academics pushing the queer narrative into classrooms. It's not just Moffat.

Toseland · 01/02/2023 14:56

As a graphic designer it's interesting to see that the only 'teardrops' with a clear and bold illustration or icon (viewing small on my phone or how it would be seen at a distance) are the gender reassignment and gender ones. The gender reassignment one also jumps out being orange and in the centre, whilst the green recedes - sneaky.

WarriorN · 01/02/2023 14:55

Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:45

"The inclusion of sex as a protected characteristic in the Equality Act, directly addresses the issue that people can be discriminated against due to their sex."

Any good?

I think so! And let's face it, many female teachers have had to bring cases linked to sex discrimination in the past.

MrsO that's absolutely horrific Angry

By the way, as you know, Moffat knows full well it's sex as he's got it in the preamble/ introduction to his teacher book.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 01/02/2023 14:54

Sorry Vebrithien.

Added it for information for lurkers, rather than suggesting you get bogged down in including it. This goes back to 2008 - there's so much historic information out there that it's hard to keep on top of which are the child centred groups and which are the queer theory adults advocates who should be nowhere near schools. And the rainbow washing be kind narrative means that few people have the confidence to raise this in public.

Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:49

MrsOvertonsWindow · 01/02/2023 14:46

The primary teacher who runs the No Outsiders group (who produce these posters) has an interest in Queer Theory. He co presented a paper at a seminar called Queering the Body; Queering Primary Education.

This is an extract from the blurb about the seminar:

“The team is concerned to interrogate the desexualisation of children’s and teacher’s bodies, the negation of pleasure and desire and the tendency to shy away from discussion of (sexual) bodily activity in No Outsiders project work. The danger of accusations of the corruption of innocent children…..has led team members to make repeated claims that this project is not about sex or desire – and that it is therefore not about bodies. Yet, at a very significant level that is exactly what it is about… "

You can read more about this extraordinary concept in a piece by Transgender Trend that looked at the origins of the project:

www.transgendertrend.com/no-outsiders-queering-primary-classroom/

Read it, felt sick, added it to my list of references. Intend to send a printed copy to the school, if they don't get back to me.

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Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:47

Sadly, I've got to head off now and discharge my support human duties.

But I'm reading and planning. Still feel sick about it, but have managed to talk to my two closest friends, who both have children at the school. They are both in agreement with me. Language matters. Sex Matters. Children's safeguarding matters. Women and children matter.

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 01/02/2023 14:46

WarriorN · 01/02/2023 14:29

The poster makes no reference to transgender children

As above but also a child cannot legal change their sex in the U.K.

The idea of a transgender child is a misnomer.

The primary teacher who runs the No Outsiders group (who produce these posters) has an interest in Queer Theory. He co presented a paper at a seminar called Queering the Body; Queering Primary Education.

This is an extract from the blurb about the seminar:

“The team is concerned to interrogate the desexualisation of children’s and teacher’s bodies, the negation of pleasure and desire and the tendency to shy away from discussion of (sexual) bodily activity in No Outsiders project work. The danger of accusations of the corruption of innocent children…..has led team members to make repeated claims that this project is not about sex or desire – and that it is therefore not about bodies. Yet, at a very significant level that is exactly what it is about… "

You can read more about this extraordinary concept in a piece by Transgender Trend that looked at the origins of the project:

www.transgendertrend.com/no-outsiders-queering-primary-classroom/

Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:45

"The inclusion of sex as a protected characteristic in the Equality Act, directly addresses the issue that people can be discriminated against due to their sex."

Any good?

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Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:39

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 01/02/2023 14:27

The poster makes no reference to transgender children

Gender reassignment is listed. Next to the word 'Out'.

OP, I'm not sure that listing the various definitions of gender adds anything. I'd cut that to keep the paragraph on clear language more focused.

Yes, I would agree. I will change that to something like;

Definitions of gender by Stonewall, the UK government and the WHO are all different and all highlight there is social and cultural impact on how gender is understood.

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WarriorN · 01/02/2023 14:36

Excellent letter op!

I don't know if you want to include one phrase along the lines of "sex was brought in as a protected characteristic because people can be discriminated against due to their sex."

Moffat includes an example in his teachers book; something to do with a boy who wanted to attend a princess event at Disney land Paris advertised for girls. metro.co.uk/2017/08/30/boy-refused-princess-makeover-at-disneyland-paris-because-hes-not-a-girl-6890804/

He cites this as an example of sex discrimination, except uses the term gender. You can't be discriminated against based on gender.

Which then doesn't make sense, and can confuse children - even the mother in the article mentions that he's being discriminated against due to his sex.

If they're going to be teaching and talking about why we have the protected characteristics, you have to include them all or you do not tackle the one that affects half your school population (and probably most of your staff.)

WarriorN · 01/02/2023 14:29

The poster makes no reference to transgender children

As above but also a child cannot legal change their sex in the U.K.

The idea of a transgender child is a misnomer.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 01/02/2023 14:27

The poster makes no reference to transgender children

Gender reassignment is listed. Next to the word 'Out'.

OP, I'm not sure that listing the various definitions of gender adds anything. I'd cut that to keep the paragraph on clear language more focused.

Brokendaughter · 01/02/2023 14:24

Their poster intentionally primes children to grow up misunderstanding the list of protected characteristics.

Repeatedly seeing all of them listed clearly & correctly, but with ONE intentionally not included while being replaced means that instead of recalling sex, children will naturally recall the entire group they have seen repeatedly displayed together.

This is not accidental.
It is harmful to childrens long term understanding of what the list of protective characteristics are & deliberately downplays the importance of a humans sex by consistently leaving it out.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 01/02/2023 14:23

"I think gender as a term is useful when you later talk about gender reassignment. You have your gender but then you can also reassign your gender. They fit together – it makes for uncomplicated explanations and conversations further up the school."

The only way those explanantions and covnersations could ever be "uncomplicated" is if the adults pretend that gender reassignment is uncomplicated.

And actually I was wondering what teachers are supposed to say to children who see the words "gender reassignment" and ask what that is.

Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:21

Justme56 · 01/02/2023 14:16

So this guy has written a book called ‘No Outsiders in our School: Teaching the Equality Act in Primary Schools’ and the proceeds to get one of the characteristics wrong and claims the poster isn’t about the Equality Act?

Yes. Yes, that is exactly the problem.

They are "meant" to be the specialists.

I am expecting this to go to formal complaint/meeting with the school, so am collecting evidence, even if it isn't all used in my message

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Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:19

And;

Some people are definitely trying to make it a political issue, I just want children to know that there are boys and girls and everyone is equal.

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Vebrithien · 01/02/2023 14:17

Direct quote from No Outsiders;

"I think gender as a term is useful when you later talk about gender reassignment. You have your gender but then you can also reassign your gender. They fit together – it makes for uncomplicated explanations and conversations further up the school."

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AmaryllisNightAndDay · 01/02/2023 14:17

The leter is very comprehensive, wow! The content for the last paragraph is pretty good. I would just remove some of the wording so that it has a simple conclusion and a clear resolution something like this:

I agree that the messages of equality and inclusion are important in school. Accurate language is vital. I would like to see the school replace the misleading "No Outsiders" posters either with accurately worded EA posters (such as the one from Safe Schools Alliance linked above) or with more general messages that everyone equal is despite our differences. In the meantime I would like you to remove the "No Outsiders" poster [and whatever else] from display.