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Labour's Ben Bradshaw on the attack

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CysticMeg · 29/12/2022 22:45

twitter.com/BenPBradshaw/status/1607991584234115072?t=cBmrw2vp-ik9Q-5oSqyJow&s=19

So disappointed to read this tweet and the very clear direction of his follow up.

Interesting to read the overwhelmingly challenging replies though, with so many people feeling able to state their concerns. Another demonstration of the own goal nature of the Scottish ruling?

So mystifying to see see a gay man who is otherwise open to listening (or who has given that impression over his career) be so absolutely defiantly resistant to acknowledging the concerns of female constituents.

Depressing to think that surrounded by Tories in the SW, Labour are prepared to do nothing to listen in an effort to represent and engage with their electorate.

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DysonSpheres · 30/12/2022 17:13

nilsmousehammer · 30/12/2022 15:07

Sorry. Yes. For some reason the original tweets regarding this seem to be deleted now, but lesbians scolded for 'gatekeeping their vaginas' from male people self identifying? Yes, definitely a thing. 'Gatekeeping' is a bit of a beloved term to those not into female people being allowed autonomy or sexuality of their own.

I wrote a long reply but the very concept made my sentences look absurd. It still sounds ridiculous.

Essentially you're saying, men think women's vaginas should be available at their disposal whenever and however they want and if you refuse to have PIV sex (or any sex fullstop) and aren't attracted to male bodies or penises as a lesbian or otherwise, its prejudicial 'gate keeping.'

So...your vagina should be a permanently 'open gate' to all who feel they have a right to it or else you're using your vagina as a vehicle for transphobia?

Cheers to 2023! 😥

Helleofabore · 30/12/2022 17:09

I wish you wouldn’t begin sentences with “Like” - it makes you hard to understand.

Like it is something I used to say in the 80s. Maybe it is fashionable again???

LlynTegid · 30/12/2022 16:08

I am old enough to remember one of the campaigns in the 1980s for gay rights (as it was then termed) included the legal recognition of lesbian relationships. They did not exist in law because of a desire not to offend Queen Victoria when sex between two or more men was criminalised. Finally in the 1990s (?) lesbians were recognised in law.

It seems to me that the Bill passed by the Scottish Parliament if it becomes law and the UK government does not intervene will be one step towards almost de-recognising lesbians in law at least.

Datun · 30/12/2022 16:01

Yes, anything that these men want, lesbian sexuality, female identity, women's groups, is positioned as something that should not be 'gate kept'.

Nasty really.

CysticMeg · 30/12/2022 15:59

TheBiologyStupid · 30/12/2022 10:32

Thanks, Corgi.

The ratio on Ben Bradshaw's tweet is excellent.

It's very encouraging to see people drawing a line.

I wonder if he's read and reflected at all.

I actually feel quite disturbed by the spin off threads - where people are STILL arguing that if women feel threatened in single sex spaces they should "just report it" but when it is pointed out what actually happens ie WiSpa - there are still those who vehemently judge the women who complained? About a convicted sexual offender with convictions for exactly the same sort of indecent exposure? It makes my head hurt.

And surely people like Ben Bradshaw MP can read that and see what it is and what he's part of? Blanket defence of convicted male sex offenders and their rights to offend in women's intimate spaces. Beggars belief.

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FrancescaContini · 30/12/2022 15:44

“Gatekeeping our vaginas”

How dare we!! It should be a case of “Open Sesame!” when any male of any identity or sexuality or otherwise commands.

dropthevipers · 30/12/2022 15:29

Thanks, I didn't know that.

TooBigForMyBoots · 30/12/2022 15:27

dropthevipers · 29/12/2022 22:48

I'm not surprised, Ben has form, but I didn't think Teresa may was a kool aid nutter?

She handed it out in 2017 when she was PM.
www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2017/oct/18/theresa-may-plans-to-let-people-change-gender-without-medical-checks

nilsmousehammer · 30/12/2022 15:07

Sorry. Yes. For some reason the original tweets regarding this seem to be deleted now, but lesbians scolded for 'gatekeeping their vaginas' from male people self identifying? Yes, definitely a thing. 'Gatekeeping' is a bit of a beloved term to those not into female people being allowed autonomy or sexuality of their own.

DysonSpheres · 30/12/2022 14:54

'gatekeeping your vagina'

I only hang around here on a sparodic basis so I've missed this. Surely, surely it can't be a term used in any context except jest?

Surely not with any sort of sincerity? No. Really no.

No?

CysticMeg · 30/12/2022 14:45

FrancescaContini · 30/12/2022 09:39

As for Ben - what a knob. But I think the Rosie/Eddie meme on his thread deserves a thread of its own, so I’m grateful to Ben for letting me see it.

Rosie - I ❤️ you.

Ooo will go looking!

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FrancescaContini · 30/12/2022 10:53

Thanks for the links, @DaughterOfPsychiatrist I’ll wait until I have a stronger stomach for this!

SamphirethePogoingStickerist · 30/12/2022 10:51

EvilBee · 29/12/2022 23:16

Like..do you guys really believe that the majority of cisgender LGB ppl support you? Many of us were around the last time and got bought up thru sec 28..you sit with the people who are calling all LGBTQ ppl paedophiles - hell Glinner is proud that he uses the term 'groomer' to push hate.

Like people can see the same tropes and recycled homophobia appearing.

Oh do sit down and shut up. Women are saying no to you.

All your claptrap and flat out lies won't change that.

postcardpuffin · 30/12/2022 10:45

RoyalCorgi · 30/12/2022 09:59

EvilBee is very far from being the sharpest tool in the box.

I refer everyone once again to the wise words of Rebekah Vardy, which we should all bear in mind every time one of these dimwits pops up on these threads: "It's like arguing with a pigeon. You can tell it that you are right and it is wrong but it’s still going to shit in your hair.”

😂😂😂 good one - I hadn’t heard that before!

DaughterOfPsychiatrist · 30/12/2022 10:44

Simon Edge’s thread is a proper eye opener. Makes my heart hurt - teens today (including one in my own family) are pretty much ‘culturally appropriating’ the historic victimisation of gay men (and lesbians, whose struggles were also very real but often very different, eg losing custody of children, which is a lot less glamorised).

postcardpuffin · 30/12/2022 10:42

EvilBee · 29/12/2022 23:16

Like..do you guys really believe that the majority of cisgender LGB ppl support you? Many of us were around the last time and got bought up thru sec 28..you sit with the people who are calling all LGBTQ ppl paedophiles - hell Glinner is proud that he uses the term 'groomer' to push hate.

Like people can see the same tropes and recycled homophobia appearing.

If you were brought up when section 28 existed you’d be aware that it meant nothing in practice. And you would be able to write “through” instead of the brainless “thru”.

And many of us are lesbian or gay.

TheBiologyStupid · 30/12/2022 10:32

Thanks, Corgi.

The ratio on Ben Bradshaw's tweet is excellent.

DaughterOfPsychiatrist · 30/12/2022 10:31

archive.org/details/BBCHorizonCollection512Episodes/BBC+Horizon+-+s2000e06+-+Complete+Obsession+-+Body+Dysmorphia.avi

It’s episode 6 from the series that aired in 2000.

not sure if the link will go straight to the episode or not, added some screenshots showing the doctors involved (Psychiatrist Reid and Surgeon Smith).

There are other archived Horizon episodes that are similarly shocking re: doctors in this field including one about John Money and what he did to the Reimer brothers.

anyone Ben Bradshaw’s constituent? Maybe he should watch some of these old programs. Thanks to the internet archive, the reality of what he is endorsing is all viewable.

Labour's Ben Bradshaw on the attack
Labour's Ben Bradshaw on the attack
RoyalCorgi · 30/12/2022 10:28

By the way, this isn't for EvilBee (who is beyond reason) but if anyone is interested in rebutting arguments about why "transphobia" is exactly like the homophobia of the 80s and 90s, or exactly like Section 28, here's an extremely well-argued and well-evidenced thread from Simon Edge about why it isn't:

twitter.com/simonjedge/status/1457327246042181635

FrancescaContini · 30/12/2022 10:17

I’m pretty sure @EvilBee is from the US. Nothing wrong with that, of course, but as you point out, Section 28 is part of British legal history, not American. Additionally, the liberal use of “like” in sentences places @EvilBee very firmly in the under-25s category. And therefore not old enough to have lived “thru” Section 28.

Unless of course @EvilBee “identifies as” a British time traveller. In which case, we must all bow to @EvilBee’s superior knowledge and not be “time traveller-phobic”.

DaughterOfPsychiatrist · 30/12/2022 10:14

Bonkers, innit?

the psychiatrist in the amputations story retired after being disciplined by the GMC for his work with trans patients. His successor/protege (a trans man doctor) was also investigated but closed the private practice without the case reaching tribunal.

There is a Horizons episode about the limb amputations saga. I watched it a little while ago on internet archive (will come back with a link). To bring this back on topic a bit this is is a prime example how our concerns re: chikdren & teens and gender transitions is absolutely NOTHING like section 28, as there weren’t batshit predatory doctors cutting bits off gay kids in the 80s.

Datun · 30/12/2022 10:04

FrancescaContini · 30/12/2022 09:36

I wish you wouldn’t begin sentences with “Like” - it makes you hard to understand.

Yes, irritating. And the constant use of which belies the assertion that the poster is old enough to have been 'brought up thru' section 28. Which, if this poster is from the US, they didn't even have.

So much bollocks, in other words.

Hoppinggreen · 30/12/2022 10:04

EvilBee · 29/12/2022 23:16

Like..do you guys really believe that the majority of cisgender LGB ppl support you? Many of us were around the last time and got bought up thru sec 28..you sit with the people who are calling all LGBTQ ppl paedophiles - hell Glinner is proud that he uses the term 'groomer' to push hate.

Like people can see the same tropes and recycled homophobia appearing.

Bingo

FrancescaContini · 30/12/2022 10:02

It’s 😅

Soontobe60 · 30/12/2022 10:02

EvilBee · 29/12/2022 23:16

Like..do you guys really believe that the majority of cisgender LGB ppl support you? Many of us were around the last time and got bought up thru sec 28..you sit with the people who are calling all LGBTQ ppl paedophiles - hell Glinner is proud that he uses the term 'groomer' to push hate.

Like people can see the same tropes and recycled homophobia appearing.

‘Cis’ is an offensive slur. Stop using it here.

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