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Rape scenes on TV/in the movies

38 replies

roseability · 12/01/2011 15:25

I was half watching something last night (whilst mumsnetting!) and a particularly brutal rape scene was shown

I had to look away. Is it necessary to show such scenes? Is it harmful to women or does it rightly highlight how awful and degrading rape is for a woman?

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Sarsaparilllla · 12/01/2011 16:32

I think if a rape scene is done in the right way, not titillating but showing the reality then it's important to show, because it happens. Censoring things we don't want to happen on tv won't make them go away

The rape scene in the This Is England 86 really disturbed me, it was awful to watch, really horrible, but it was an important part of the story

TeiTetua · 12/01/2011 16:27

"The Forsyte Saga", anyone?

In the book you just had to imagine it all. It was just something like "when Soames had finally asserted his rights...".

wukter · 12/01/2011 15:42

How insightful.

Next week - How do you jazz up plain rice? Ans: don't. Eat pasta instead.

StewieGriffinsMom · 12/01/2011 15:40

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JBellingham · 12/01/2011 15:40

Yes, its the watershed or age certificate on your DVD. Watch what you like, avoid what you dont.

roseability · 12/01/2011 15:38

I left the room JBellingham

The jump from bleak landscapes to gang rape scenes is pretty big - is there nothing in bewteen?

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Mrsfluff · 12/01/2011 15:38

There was a rape scene in the last series of Sons of Anarchy, I found it very hard to watch and upsetting. I don't think it was done in a gratuitous way, but it was very brutal and raw.

GetOrfMoiLand · 12/01/2011 15:37

Oh J this is a debate. There is no need to make dim comments fgs.

JBellingham · 12/01/2011 15:34

Let's all just watch bland landscapes then and listen to Radio 3. There is a button on the remote that can sort it.

GetOrfMoiLand · 12/01/2011 15:32

I am the same actually - I cannot watch a fight scene in a film, I cannot bear violence.

scallopsrgreat · 12/01/2011 15:31

I don't think it is necessary. Part of me used to think that it was OK and that the reason I felt uncomfortable was because I had a problem with violent scenes. Now I think I ahve a healthy view to violent scenes and those people who can view them comfortably are desensitised.

I also think that that watching a lot of violence has a drip drip affect. So that person won't necessarily turn into a serial killer overnight but will gradually become less empathetic with other human beings. And if they see a lot of violence against women then they will become less empathetic towards women.

I am sure I could have worded that a lot more briefly Grin!

GetOrfMoiLand · 12/01/2011 15:29

I personally don't think it is necessary, especially in light of the fact that some blokes enjoy 'rape porn'

GetOrfMoiLand · 12/01/2011 15:29

To be honest with you, i think a lot of those scenes act as titillation.

I remember watching The Accused when i was younger and thought it was very hard hitting and powerful, and thought the rape scene was integral to it.

But then i watched it a few months back and was disgusted at the scene. It was brutal but in an almost lacivious way. Slow motion, background music etc.

It was not actually necessary to show that scene imo as it was at the end of the film, there was enough power in Jodie Foster's performance and it certainly didn't need to be so graphic.