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Robbing from Tesco with impunity *edited by MNHQ*

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KatherineSwynford1403 · 11/08/2023 09:14

I just got off a bus outside a Tesco that is a short walk from where I work to buy some yogurt and fruit for breakfast. On the bus there were three horrendous guys - loud, under the influence, scruffy, swearing, F-ing and Jeffing across the aisles at each other. They got off at the same stop - well, burst off the bus laughing - and burst into Tesco. I watched them saunter up to the booze aisle laughing as they went, nick a bottle of spirits each and walk out laughing in front of all the staff (floorwalking).

I challenged one of the members of staff (a big guy who could handle himself) as to if he was going to let them get away with it. He says they come in every morning and help themselves and nobody is allowed to touch or challenge them. They've contacted the police who don't want to know.

I told him "Right, see you then, I'm helping myself to these strawberries and this yogurt, have a nice day!" and he said I was OK to do that!!! Of course I told him I was joking and I paid.

How in hell have we got to this state of affairs in this country? Or my town specifically?

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Elieenmorrigan · 11/08/2023 11:17

CardiganBardigan · 11/08/2023 11:10

Tesco are profiteering bastards who overcharge for shite.

I have absolutely no fucks to give about someone shoplifting from there in broad daylight.

So the rest of us have to pay for that in the form of raised prices?

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 11/08/2023 11:15

CardiganBardigan · 11/08/2023 11:10

Tesco are profiteering bastards who overcharge for shite.

I have absolutely no fucks to give about someone shoplifting from there in broad daylight.

Wow.

RudsyFarmer · 11/08/2023 11:14

*sight.

RudsyFarmer · 11/08/2023 11:14

CardiganBardigan · 11/08/2023 11:10

Tesco are profiteering bastards who overcharge for shite.

I have absolutely no fucks to give about someone shoplifting from there in broad daylight.

And there it is. Out in plain site.

Sandra1984 · 11/08/2023 11:13

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I actually haven’t, I’m incredibly lucky to have a job that can only be performed by humans. I strongly believe that the robotization of society and advent of AI is only going to benefit extreme capitalism. The working class is getting massively fuc—ed.

oakleaffy · 11/08/2023 11:13

OnedayIwillfeelfree · 11/08/2023 10:30

Forest Hill? They even keep cans of deodorant and tubes of sun cream behind the till now as the druggies would just walk in and brazenly steal them to sell on. I wouldn’t challenge them either. My life is worth more than £20 worth of toiletries.

I saw young man risk his life apprehending a shoplifter- He was manager of one of the smaller branches of a supermarket on edge of an estate- I said ''Not worth getting stabbed for, surely..?''He replied ''If they know we are a soft target, they come in even more to steal from here''..

RudsyFarmer · 11/08/2023 11:13

Why TF would you challenge the staff about it?

Why did you not go and challenge the 3 men who were actually committing the crime?

Why didn’t the bus passenger march up to the three male youths on the bus. and demand to know why they were boasting about committing a shop lifting offence?

Hmmmm. That’s a tricky one. What a sensible tactic that would have been to stamp out petty theft. I’m sure the bus passenger would have had a very interesting, calm conversation about it and at the end hearts and minds would have been changed.

dawngreen · 11/08/2023 11:12

One small independent shop gets raided raided 4 times a week, and they seem to steal the latest fad at the time. He says its adults as well as teens. Then they wonder were the small shops went.

Glittertwins · 11/08/2023 11:11

I believe it also depends on the level to which the security guard is licenced as to how much they can confront / restrain. The higher the licence, the more they can do but obviously the price of security increases too

CardiganBardigan · 11/08/2023 11:10

Tesco are profiteering bastards who overcharge for shite.

I have absolutely no fucks to give about someone shoplifting from there in broad daylight.

RudsyFarmer · 11/08/2023 11:09

parklifeee · 11/08/2023 10:42

Well, eventually you get the breakdown of society as the social norms and values which held society together collapse and the people who are currently doing "the right thing" stop doing the right thing because they see everyone else getting away with doing the wrong thing and getting rewarded for it. I think we are getting very close to that point. Just things like how much rubbish and littering is everywhere and how people seem to care less and less about their immediate environment is a sign of this imo.

We like to look abroad as useful comparisons for successful policy making. I think we’d be very, very wise to look abroad right now and see what’s going on.

OldTinHat · 11/08/2023 11:08

Moonberri · 11/08/2023 09:19

Interesting to read this post in juxtaposition with the autostic teenager arrested by 6 officers for saying that one of them looked like a lesbian like her Nan.

No, she said the officer looked like her nan who is a lesbian.

Keyworks · 11/08/2023 11:08

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RudsyFarmer · 11/08/2023 11:07

KimberleyClark · 11/08/2023 10:36

Well, the Mob means something different in America doesn’t it?

They used the phrase ‘a mob’ not ‘The Mob’. Perhaps a dictionary might help?

TheFormidableMrsC · 11/08/2023 11:05

My eldest works for a high end cosmetic business in London. Women regularly come in and help themselves, one woman scooped loads of products from an under counter cupboard. Staff can challenge but not stop them. The security guard seems to be just there as a decoration. He is also not allowed to stop them or touch them. I just don't understand it. Why on Earth is this allowed to happen?

BCCoach · 11/08/2023 11:03

Sandra1984 · 11/08/2023 10:55

Ohh…. You mean those robots that have taken away all the working class jobs leaving supermarkets with no humans are having a problem because the yobs are stealing the food?

why am I not saddened one bit by this?

If the money saved by replacing humans with automation is more than the money lost by increased wastage through shoplifting, then the retailers are fine with that. Automation doesn't have to do a job better than humans, it just has to do it cheaper.

KatherineSwynford1403 · 11/08/2023 11:01

Midwinterblues · 11/08/2023 10:45

Where are people’s morals in all this (the perpetrators I mean)? The moral compass of society has been knocked away hasn’t it, we used to know what was right and wrong and we acted accordingly - doesn’t have to be about religion either but our own sense of morality.
The fact that some people are excusing it is interesting too.

And I love your username OP, one of my favourite historical figures (and book!).

WeetabixTowels · Today 09:57

He probably couldn’t be arsed with a busybody making his nightmare job even more of a nightmare.

Its Friday - relax!

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Onelifeonly · 11/08/2023 11:00

OakTree16 · 11/08/2023 09:50

Weirdly it’s the opposite in my local Tesco! I’ve seen people steal a few times in there and they always go after them. I once saw them refuse to let a homeless man go until he handed back a bottle of coke that he had stole

Because one probably unthreatening- looking man is not difficult to tackle.

You need bravado, an aggressive attitude and preferably several mates to get away with being an overt thief.

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Sandra1984 · 11/08/2023 10:58

And the government has cut police numbers and now they can’t stop the yobs from stealing from large corporations?

Poetic justice…. finally.

Sandra1984 · 11/08/2023 10:55

Ohh…. You mean those robots that have taken away all the working class jobs leaving supermarkets with no humans are having a problem because the yobs are stealing the food?

why am I not saddened one bit by this?

Onelifeonly · 11/08/2023 10:55

0ne of my grown up children works in a place where groups walking in and helping themselves is not uncommon. They try to prevent it but ultimately it's not always possible. They also call the police but the perpetrators are usually gone by then (unless alone and under the influence).

This is not a supermarket and far from up north. Unfortunately, it happens. I'm not sure it's a new thing though. I witnessed similar 30 years ago in NYC.

I expect it's an everyday event that you just happened to chance upon OP. A few months back I saw a girl wearing a dressing gown (presumably stolen) run out of our local Tesco clutching a whole bundle of clothes. The security guard pursued her until another member of staff told him not to bother. I guess providing more security is more expensive to large companies than the losses they make from stealing.

Doesn't mean that most people aren't honest.

IhearyouClemFandango · 11/08/2023 10:53

WeetabixTowels · 11/08/2023 09:57

He probably couldn’t be arsed with a busybody making his nightmare job even more of a nightmare.

Its Friday - relax!

Urgh

Paq · 11/08/2023 10:52

Moonberri · 11/08/2023 09:19

Interesting to read this post in juxtaposition with the autostic teenager arrested by 6 officers for saying that one of them looked like a lesbian like her Nan.

Indeed. It's like the police have forgotten how to actually be police.

BCCoach · 11/08/2023 10:51

13 years of Tory rule has defunded the police far beyond the dreams of any leftie agitators.