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Robbing from Tesco with impunity *edited by MNHQ*

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KatherineSwynford1403 · 11/08/2023 09:14

I just got off a bus outside a Tesco that is a short walk from where I work to buy some yogurt and fruit for breakfast. On the bus there were three horrendous guys - loud, under the influence, scruffy, swearing, F-ing and Jeffing across the aisles at each other. They got off at the same stop - well, burst off the bus laughing - and burst into Tesco. I watched them saunter up to the booze aisle laughing as they went, nick a bottle of spirits each and walk out laughing in front of all the staff (floorwalking).

I challenged one of the members of staff (a big guy who could handle himself) as to if he was going to let them get away with it. He says they come in every morning and help themselves and nobody is allowed to touch or challenge them. They've contacted the police who don't want to know.

I told him "Right, see you then, I'm helping myself to these strawberries and this yogurt, have a nice day!" and he said I was OK to do that!!! Of course I told him I was joking and I paid.

How in hell have we got to this state of affairs in this country? Or my town specifically?

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Octosaurus · 11/08/2023 10:00

Good for them. We're the idiots paying for stuff at Tesco when they are robbing us blind for profit while claiming they have to raise prices because of inflation.

Flatulence · 11/08/2023 10:00

Crime is legal now, thanks to thirteen years of Tory rule axing police funding.
My local force don't even bother to investigate most domestic burglaries; they'll give even less of a shit about shop lifting.
And even if someone did get nicked, the courts have been so massively underfunded, the perpetrators would likely be waiting about 2 years for a magistrates' court appearance.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 11/08/2023 09:59

they don't get paid enough to be challenging people like this if i worked there i wouldn't care either tbh

MrsMarzetti · 11/08/2023 09:59

I don't know why anyone is surprised after all for the last 25 years instead of raising children to do as they are told we have raised entitled children who are the centre of the universe, they have been indulged and very rarely disciplined. The system has bent over backwards to be so inclusive it is ridiculous. Grown adults now act like children ( stupid little dances on thicktox) and expect everyone to run after them because they have anxiety, a poorly finger, issues with conforming to social norms. Too many feel so bloody entitled. We made the society we have and it will only get worse.

Advicerequest · 11/08/2023 09:58

I was so outraged two years ago in a New York chemist to see that whole sections of higher priced and most wanted on the theft list items (shampoos, face creams, nothing crazy expensive) padlocked plastic protector on the shelves. Couldn't believe that shop lifting was so rife in the city. Depressing that we have reached that state.

WeetabixTowels · 11/08/2023 09:58

When I was a student I worked in a Spar in a REALLY rough area of town. I never challenged shoplifters. I earned £3.50 per hour, why would I risk a punch in the face so someone didn’t nick a packet of crisps?!

Wsmi · 11/08/2023 09:58

Wisterical · 11/08/2023 09:56

@Elieenmorrigan
"In order to stay competitive in the marketplace Tesco's (and other supermarkets) operate on very small profit margins"

Lol. Tesco made £753m profit last year.

Yes that’s a small margin. Do you know what margin is? Look it up.

parklifeee · 11/08/2023 09:57

chimneydifficult · 11/08/2023 09:23

Yes, because a 100% true story that someone posted on a forum means the whole world is heading towards barbarism.

Do you not watch any news/social media? Videos of thieves stealing stuff and terrorising staff with abandon in the USA whilst security standby are posted almost every day on twitter/tiktok. They don't even hide their faces anymore as they know that nothing will happen to them and they are basically untouchable. It was only a matter of time until it started here. Oxford Street was great in the 90s. I wouldn't bother going there these days.

WeetabixTowels · 11/08/2023 09:57

He probably couldn’t be arsed with a busybody making his nightmare job even more of a nightmare.

Its Friday - relax!

BlowDryRat · 11/08/2023 09:57

It's the same at my local Co-op. They have regulars who brazenly steal their weekly shop. The staff have been instructed not to intervene in any way as it's not worth the risk of being killed or injured. The Tesco next door has security guards with body cams.

Wsmi · 11/08/2023 09:57

Like PP said shop staff should call the police and say that the shoplifter misgendered them. The blue lights would come racing across the town then.

Wisterical · 11/08/2023 09:56

@Elieenmorrigan
"In order to stay competitive in the marketplace Tesco's (and other supermarkets) operate on very small profit margins"

Lol. Tesco made £753m profit last year.

hateworkgo · 11/08/2023 09:56

Hi,
I work in a supermarket and we aren't allowed to touch them! If a manager doesn't see, we can't even challenge

x2boys · 11/08/2023 09:55

Awittyfool · 11/08/2023 09:44

Bollocks.

People ( usually men because they are very entitled) do it because they can. I used to work with teenage boys that nicked large amounts of booze. They were well fed at home and parents would give them money for lunch and snacks.

It’s nonsense like this that means more people feel they can get away with it. The amount of people nicking stuff because they are hungry is virtually none. It’s perfectly well fed people exploiting open supermarkets, knowing they can’t be searched.

Indeed I live in a rough area and you get people knocking on the door trying to sell steaks ,legs of lamb etc that have clearly been shop.lifted ,its not to.feed their starving children like the bleeding hearts on mumsnet,would like to believe more like to.feed a habit .

RunAwayTurnAwayRunAwayTurnAway · 11/08/2023 09:54

Scienceadvisory · 11/08/2023 09:22

Perhaps you should have 'challenged' the shoplifters instead of the staff? Or didn't you think it worth risking your safety? The staff at Tesco probably think the same about protecting themselves.

This.

I wouldn't waste my time or energy giving a shit about this OP.

Ridemeginger · 11/08/2023 09:53

Someone needs to persuade one of these louts to misgender someone in Tesco. Then the police (especially if you are in West Yorkshire) will be down on them like a tonne of bricks. Because "non crime hate incidents" and other utter bollocks is all the police are interested in these days.

liveforsummer · 11/08/2023 09:52

KimberleyClark · 11/08/2023 09:26

What happens when the security tags on the stolen bottles set off the alarms?

The alarms go off for a bit I imagine?!

Elieenmorrigan · 11/08/2023 09:52

@HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMariaa Recent research shows the big four supermarkets are making excess profits and benefiting off the cost of living crisis by not passing savings on.

I can't comment on that. I can only repeat what I was told during my induction.

Maybe you can post a link to the 'recent research' you mention?

Elis44 · 11/08/2023 09:52

There has been loads on the news this week about this, across the UK.
Feels ‘lawless’, becoming a ‘help yourself’ acceptance.

Not very much of it is down to people struggling. It is about organised crime, drug/alcohol abuse and lack of services including the police.

Shop staff should not be put in danger.

I really fear for our country.

MymateDave · 11/08/2023 09:51

Mummyoflittledragon · 11/08/2023 09:47

Surely it would be cheaper to employ a second security guard to do the early shift.

You would think so. But the store has no say in having security. We have only recently got a guard back and that has taken many months.

EmmaEmerald · 11/08/2023 09:51

KimberleyClark · 11/08/2023 09:33

Why can’t they invent a system whereby the exit barriers won’t open if they detect security tags. I’m sure it wouldn’t be difficult.

That's easy for these people to navigate, you keep one person behind the barrier and hand the bottle to them, or just climb over the barrier.

CherryCokeFanatic · 11/08/2023 09:51

13 years of Tory Britain

Wsmi · 11/08/2023 09:51

The people who defend this are morons who don’t realise that they are paying higher prices in the shops as a result of this. The governments and police choosing not to defend this is basically a form of socialism. Or Marxism to be more precise. As Anarchy quite often is.

melj1213 · 11/08/2023 09:51

KimberleyClark · 11/08/2023 09:33

Why can’t they invent a system whereby the exit barriers won’t open if they detect security tags. I’m sure it wouldn’t be difficult.

Because then you'll get all the entitled customers accusing the supermarkets of treating everyone like thieves and it won't work as it will inconvenience the regular customers.

Look at Sainsbury's, they have installed gates on some of their self scan areas so you have to scan your receipt for the gate to open so you can leave. This is in order to deter shoplifters who were just walking straight through the self scan area to leave without paying. So many keyboard warriors have been up in arms about the fact they refuse to scan their reciepts to prove they aren't a shoplifter as supermarkets shouldn't treat everyone like a thief, thereby undermining the supermarkets attempts to reduce thefts ... They'll be the same people complaining that the prices are going up due to thefts.

People saying "lock it up" - that means regular customers will have to wait for a member of staff to come and unlock the cabinet whenever they want something, taking time away from the customer and from the staff member doing other jobs. Also as this would be a permanent situation, not just at 9am when the little scroats come in but at all times during the shop being open, then you'd get situations where customers a re kicking off because they're having to wait for service because the staff are busy opening the cabinet so Dave can get his cheap bottle of daily vodka at 5pm during the evening rush

People saying "don't stock the shelves till after they've come" -firstly that's just not logistically possible as they won't sell out of everything every day so the shelves won't be empty - should staff be emptying them and refilling them repeatedly through the day? - and secondly thieves may be idiotic but they aren't idiots, they'll just wait until the time the shelves are stocked and steal them then, or will steal other high value items just for the craic, or will just cause other problems, meanwhile other customers can't buy things they want as the shelves are empty and then they can't get served because the staff are busy taking stuff off the shelves because "It's almost 9am and the shoplifters will be here soon"

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