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Robbing from Tesco with impunity *edited by MNHQ*

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KatherineSwynford1403 · 11/08/2023 09:14

I just got off a bus outside a Tesco that is a short walk from where I work to buy some yogurt and fruit for breakfast. On the bus there were three horrendous guys - loud, under the influence, scruffy, swearing, F-ing and Jeffing across the aisles at each other. They got off at the same stop - well, burst off the bus laughing - and burst into Tesco. I watched them saunter up to the booze aisle laughing as they went, nick a bottle of spirits each and walk out laughing in front of all the staff (floorwalking).

I challenged one of the members of staff (a big guy who could handle himself) as to if he was going to let them get away with it. He says they come in every morning and help themselves and nobody is allowed to touch or challenge them. They've contacted the police who don't want to know.

I told him "Right, see you then, I'm helping myself to these strawberries and this yogurt, have a nice day!" and he said I was OK to do that!!! Of course I told him I was joking and I paid.

How in hell have we got to this state of affairs in this country? Or my town specifically?

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oakleaffy · 11/08/2023 10:28

MumblesParty · 11/08/2023 10:27

male security guards should dress as women, engage in conversation with the shoplifters, wait till the shoplifter misgenders them, then call the police. They’d be there straight away!

Genius! 🤣

oakleaffy · 11/08/2023 10:27

JudgeAnderson · 11/08/2023 10:20

I absolutely hate how "petty" crimes (which apparently include housebreaking now?) are no longer policed. These crimes and general anti-social behaviour are what make areas, and people's lives, a grinding daily misery while the most aggressive and amoral amongst them swagger around doing exactly what they want, and possibly even claim victim status.

It's especially galling when the same police who have no resources to deal with any of it, apparently have all the time and officers in the world when it comes to harrassing middle-aged women for saying the wrong thing on twitter.

Fuck this society, seriously.

A nice, middle class woman is an easy target.

Thuggy, aggressive men aren't.

The police won't do anything for ''under £200'' of goods- so that covers a lot of stuff.

Waitrose too , my friend witnessed a big theft {over £200!}- won't say how the thief did it, in case of copy cats, but it's a free for all, it seems.

MumblesParty · 11/08/2023 10:27

male security guards should dress as women, engage in conversation with the shoplifters, wait till the shoplifter misgenders them, then call the police. They’d be there straight away!

dreamingbohemian · 11/08/2023 10:27

RoyalMint · 11/08/2023 10:19

The areas worst affected by antisocial behaviour are in Labour council seats. In certain areas of (Labour-run) SE London, there isn't even a system for dealing with noise complaints. You basically just have to accept that stealing, illegal raves, and intimidation are a human right. If you complain to your Labour councillors, who have been appointed to make your area livable, they just blithely blame "Tory cuts" and do nothing,all the while spending tas payers money on diversity awards for schools, or painting your local centre with rainbow colours.
And yet Londoners keep appointing them, year after year. I could literally bang my head against the wall.

You do know Lewisham Council aren't responsible for funding the Met, right? Neither is the mayor. Absolutely blame the Tories.

Daisyhillsareblooming · 11/08/2023 10:26

@Combusting I doubt it’s made up I have seen it several times in our southern town !

horseyhorsey17 · 11/08/2023 10:26

Wsmi · 11/08/2023 10:24

Remember, to Labour, there is no such thing as bad behavior or a crime. There is only intersectionality and underprivilege. Lefties usually have a dictionary to correct you and tell you what you can and can’t say. You will not be allowed to use the term anti-social soon because it labels people.

Are you OK hun?

itsmylife7 · 11/08/2023 10:26

The Police are too busy arresting 16 year old autistic children. Or the women that attended the Vigil for Sara who was killed by one of their own.

I've no respect for current Policing.

MXVIT · 11/08/2023 10:26

Interesting point of view, and wrong. It has never been the role of store workers to be have a go heroes.

When I worked in retail a good decade ago we were always told if you see shoplifting do NOT approach them. It, simply, wasn't our job to stop it.

That's not to say its a human right - but rather a staff safeguarding issue.

As to whose job it is to deter? I suppose its the job of the police as first line defence, and the company's head office to look at shrinkage as a whole, identify trends and roll out measures to stop.

KatherineSwynford1403 · 11/08/2023 10:26

Daisyhillsareblooming · 11/08/2023 10:23

I saw similar in TKMaxx, I saw a guy fill his rucksack and walk out. I told the security guard and he said they’re not allowed to confront this . It’s totally bizarre.

What exactly is on security guards' job descriptions?

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dworky · 11/08/2023 10:25

Wisterical · 11/08/2023 09:16

Which Tesco's please?

😂

WeetabixTowels · 11/08/2023 10:25

JudgeJ · 11/08/2023 10:24

Do you expect staff to risk their own well-being to stop a theft from a multinational conglomerate?

It doesn't matter how big the store these scotes are stealing from, this post almost implies it's OK to steal from Tesco. The security staff should have easy access to Tasers, that would stop them quickly enough but then there would be the usual lot bleating that their little cherubs have been hurt!

WTF.

Only people who should carry weapons are police (and even they can’t be trusted not to use them properly). I don’t want to live in a world where some billy boy security guard can taser me if he wishes

horseyhorsey17 · 11/08/2023 10:25

This shoplifting is another reason for food price inflation - the insurance costs are passed on to the customers. So we're all paying for these lowlives to get trashed every morning on 'free' booze.

OneTC · 11/08/2023 10:25

We own a small independent food shop and the lead taken by the big supermarkets of just letting people do this has made our lives easier in some respects and harder in others.

Easier because people don't come to steal so often, harder because when they do they do it with confidence and menace which in 30 years of dealing with shoplifters has never really been a feature.

Combusting · 11/08/2023 10:24

KatherineSwynford1403 · 11/08/2023 09:17

It's a Northern town, not prepared to go beyond that sorry.

You will understand that this is likely to be interpreted as a made up story. —which it is— possibly.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 11/08/2023 10:24

Tesco is a billion-pound corporation, it could easily employ security guards to stop this, it could mov alcohol to behind the counter and add security tags to spirits. If Tesco wanted to it could put these measures in place but it doesn’t because it wouldn’t be profitable. In that case if the billion pound corporation doesn’t want to pay out to take measures to secure stock, why should the police do anything? The CEO of Tesco is ‘based in Ireland’ so he doesn’t have to pay any UK tax on his £4mil salary and Tesco has allegedly been involved in tax evasion in the past, why should our tax money go to policing their stores when they could easily afford security?

Wsmi · 11/08/2023 10:24

RoyalMint · 11/08/2023 10:19

The areas worst affected by antisocial behaviour are in Labour council seats. In certain areas of (Labour-run) SE London, there isn't even a system for dealing with noise complaints. You basically just have to accept that stealing, illegal raves, and intimidation are a human right. If you complain to your Labour councillors, who have been appointed to make your area livable, they just blithely blame "Tory cuts" and do nothing,all the while spending tas payers money on diversity awards for schools, or painting your local centre with rainbow colours.
And yet Londoners keep appointing them, year after year. I could literally bang my head against the wall.

Remember, to Labour, there is no such thing as bad behavior or a crime. There is only intersectionality and underprivilege. Lefties usually have a dictionary to correct you and tell you what you can and can’t say. You will not be allowed to use the term anti-social soon because it labels people.

JudgeJ · 11/08/2023 10:24

Do you expect staff to risk their own well-being to stop a theft from a multinational conglomerate?

It doesn't matter how big the store these scotes are stealing from, this post almost implies it's OK to steal from Tesco. The security staff should have easy access to Tasers, that would stop them quickly enough but then there would be the usual lot bleating that their little cherubs have been hurt!

Daisyhillsareblooming · 11/08/2023 10:23

I saw similar in TKMaxx, I saw a guy fill his rucksack and walk out. I told the security guard and he said they’re not allowed to confront this . It’s totally bizarre.

horseyhorsey17 · 11/08/2023 10:23

RoyalMint · 11/08/2023 10:19

The areas worst affected by antisocial behaviour are in Labour council seats. In certain areas of (Labour-run) SE London, there isn't even a system for dealing with noise complaints. You basically just have to accept that stealing, illegal raves, and intimidation are a human right. If you complain to your Labour councillors, who have been appointed to make your area livable, they just blithely blame "Tory cuts" and do nothing,all the while spending tas payers money on diversity awards for schools, or painting your local centre with rainbow colours.
And yet Londoners keep appointing them, year after year. I could literally bang my head against the wall.

The councillors can't make more money appear - it is down to Tory cuts, also because the Conservatives underfund Labour run councils as opposed to Conservative ones.

That said, I live in a Conservative-run council area, council tax is among the highest in the country and the town is still an absolute sh*t show for petty crime, drugs, homelessness, pot holes and litter, with communal areas currently looking like a jungle. Oh and you have to pay £50 extra to get your green bin emptied. Absolute jokes.

oakleaffy · 11/08/2023 10:22

@KatherineSwynford1403 I was in a shop and saw wanton, brazen theft.

Staff didn't do anything.
It's nuts...It's a shoplifter's dream.

ihadamarveloustime · 11/08/2023 10:22

I wouldn't have expected any employee to risk their life challenging 3 large, drunk/high men stealing alcohol.

I do find it incredibly depressing that the police can't be arsed to do anything about crimes like this however, especially crimes by the same people on a daily basis, as demonstrated here, which only emboldens others to do the same.

But SIX officers were available to arrest an autistic teenager for saying something they didn't like and that made perfect sense in her world.

THAT is the problem.

Elis44 · 11/08/2023 10:21

RoyalMint · 11/08/2023 10:19

The areas worst affected by antisocial behaviour are in Labour council seats. In certain areas of (Labour-run) SE London, there isn't even a system for dealing with noise complaints. You basically just have to accept that stealing, illegal raves, and intimidation are a human right. If you complain to your Labour councillors, who have been appointed to make your area livable, they just blithely blame "Tory cuts" and do nothing,all the while spending tas payers money on diversity awards for schools, or painting your local centre with rainbow colours.
And yet Londoners keep appointing them, year after year. I could literally bang my head against the wall.

Nope, also in PM’s own constituency.

jessycake · 11/08/2023 10:20

Happens in my town in the south east too

JudgeAnderson · 11/08/2023 10:20

I absolutely hate how "petty" crimes (which apparently include housebreaking now?) are no longer policed. These crimes and general anti-social behaviour are what make areas, and people's lives, a grinding daily misery while the most aggressive and amoral amongst them swagger around doing exactly what they want, and possibly even claim victim status.

It's especially galling when the same police who have no resources to deal with any of it, apparently have all the time and officers in the world when it comes to harrassing middle-aged women for saying the wrong thing on twitter.

Fuck this society, seriously.

RoyalMint · 11/08/2023 10:19

RudsyFarmer · 11/08/2023 10:10

Ah yes. Labour. The party of law and order. Fingers crossed they are all over it when they get in.

The areas worst affected by antisocial behaviour are in Labour council seats. In certain areas of (Labour-run) SE London, there isn't even a system for dealing with noise complaints. You basically just have to accept that stealing, illegal raves, and intimidation are a human right. If you complain to your Labour councillors, who have been appointed to make your area livable, they just blithely blame "Tory cuts" and do nothing,all the while spending tas payers money on diversity awards for schools, or painting your local centre with rainbow colours.
And yet Londoners keep appointing them, year after year. I could literally bang my head against the wall.

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