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Undahpressurah · 10/11/2026 13:49

Is he next?

thought this could be a good place to discuss his ‘jokes’ about a 15 year old going home with Walliams. He clearly knew far more about Brand and Walliams than he let on.

Repulsive.

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Sweetandsours · 13/11/2026 23:31

NewspaperTaxis · 13/11/2026 22:17

They tended to go after low-hanging fruit royals like Princess Michael of Kent.

I so agree.
I believe the RF have always thrown a few scraps to the media to chew on to distract them from the real stories.
I believe it continues to this day.
Just another large organisation manipulating the dim public.

BeLemonMoose · 13/11/2026 23:19

YourAmplePlumPoster · 13/11/2026 23:08

Yes. Prince Phillip was part of the circle around Stephen Ward and Christine Keeler.

I think prince Phillip is well dodgy.
Private eye alleged he was the naked waiter at one of Stephen wards parties.

Moochucks · 13/11/2026 23:12

They do always push the narrative that she pursued him, and that he was this awkward young man. Interestingly she apparently had an affair with Sean Hughes who also had rumours of liking younger fans.

I think JR has made a concerted effort to disappear because he knew this was coming.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 13/11/2026 23:08

Yes. Prince Phillip was part of the circle around Stephen Ward and Christine Keeler.

NewspaperTaxis · 13/11/2026 22:36

Prince Philip has been associated with the call girl Christine Keeler - reason for what looks like the murder - dressed up as suicide of her pimp - and the press vilification of Keeler that went on for decades.

There is also a very dodgy clip on YouTube of Savile on the Parkinson show with Alan Alda also as guest, where Savile tells a mad story in his scattergun style of getting a young lady in the boot of his car in to Buckingham Palace so she could meet Prince Philip - innocuous at the time but now looking very much like a typically coded message to those in the know: 'I've done stuff for you, you know I know, just so we know...'

BeLemonMoose · 13/11/2026 22:29

Sewingbeedamned · 12/11/2026 23:21

My mum said then when the queen was first married there were loads of rumours about Philip hanging out with David Niven and others with the implication it was sleazy/unsavoury and women were involved. Since we are not remotely aristocratic, I am not sure were those rumours came from. There were certain sections of the press that were fawningly obsequious, but I just don't think it's true it was always deferential. And if you go further back there's all kinds of rumours and scandals for earlier monarchs.

The rumours were in foreign newspapers that few British people had access to and from 1961 private eye. Private eye did not follow the UK medias example of avoiding mentioning royal scandals.

But most British people of the time would not have heard of the rumours. Look even today how few people directly read private eye. The difference now is some of its articles get shared on social media.

NewspaperTaxis · 13/11/2026 22:17

They tended to go after low-hanging fruit royals like Princess Michael of Kent.

Sewingbeedamned · 12/11/2026 23:21

BeLemonMoose · 12/11/2026 18:51

But the aristocracy were all sleeping with each other anyway.
And honestly the scandals before then were Margaret having an affair and Annes dog biting two people. There was loads that didn't come out until the press did start revealing scandals.

My mum said then when the queen was first married there were loads of rumours about Philip hanging out with David Niven and others with the implication it was sleazy/unsavoury and women were involved. Since we are not remotely aristocratic, I am not sure were those rumours came from. There were certain sections of the press that were fawningly obsequious, but I just don't think it's true it was always deferential. And if you go further back there's all kinds of rumours and scandals for earlier monarchs.

BeLemonMoose · 12/11/2026 21:25

I agree that 16 was seen as an adult. A young adult, but an adult.
But older men with 16 or 17 year olds were still seen as preying on their youth and inexperience.
In 1960 the average age for women and men to get married was 22 and 25 years old.

Strumpetpumpet · 12/11/2026 20:24

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/11/2026 18:03

Back in the 1970s, people would have been astounded to hear 16yos referred to as children. Minors, yes, but very much on the verge of adulthood and treated as such, with a lot of independence and resilience expected, and not much of a safety net for those who couldn't cope, sadly. Very few kids stayed at school beyond that age. Of those that did stay on, an even smaller number went on to university, polytechnic or some sort of professional training, and those of us who did get that opportunity were treated as fully adult. No adults at university open days, no expectation that parents would be involved in our lives at all beyond (if we were lucky) a financial contribution to top up the maintenance grant. Lots left with no qualifications. I don't know if most had jobs in their early teens, but lots of my schoolmates had Saturday and holiday jobs then, as I did. Nobody bothered much about 16yos going to pubs or 18 films. As we have seen on this thread, it was widely accepted that 16yos could be sexually active and some of them ended up married. I may be wrong, but I think you could join the armed forces at 16.

I honestly think those of you who were 16 far more recently have little concept of how infantilised teenagers are now by comparison with all previous generations. I'm absolutely not saying that it's a great idea for 16yos to get married, but plenty of us have formed extremely successful long-term relationships at not much older than that (I did myself, 6 year age gap, we've been married for 44 years).

Absolutely. My MIL was 18 when she met FIL, who was 28 in the mid 1960s and there was absolutely nothing unusual about the age gap. I’m almost 60 and I totally agree with you about young people today. Not necessarily saying it’s a bad thing, but definitely more mollycoddled than my generation were.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 12/11/2026 20:01

Fancynancie · 10/11/2026 14:43

Well it wasn’t an oddity - it was celebrated on the cover of a middle of the road magazine

He should have been prosecuted for sex with a child...

Also didnt his son marry Mandy's mother??

BeLemonMoose · 12/11/2026 18:51

Sewingbeedamned · 12/11/2026 18:44

Well, until they weren't. I think a lot of royals went through periods of bad press prior to that, but I also think that the British aristocracy is such a small world, that any gossip would spread really quickly and could potentially be very embarrassing.

But the aristocracy were all sleeping with each other anyway.
And honestly the scandals before then were Margaret having an affair and Annes dog biting two people. There was loads that didn't come out until the press did start revealing scandals.

Sewingbeedamned · 12/11/2026 18:44

BeLemonMoose · 12/11/2026 18:38

I'm not sure I buy that. The press when Diana and Charles got married was virtually always incredibly complimentary of any royals. Royal women were always beautiful and radiant for example, whoever they were. The publishing of royal dirt stories started later.

Well, until they weren't. I think a lot of royals went through periods of bad press prior to that, but I also think that the British aristocracy is such a small world, that any gossip would spread really quickly and could potentially be very embarrassing.

BeLemonMoose · 12/11/2026 18:38

I'm not sure I buy that. The press when Diana and Charles got married was virtually always incredibly complimentary of any royals. Royal women were always beautiful and radiant for example, whoever they were. The publishing of royal dirt stories started later.

Sewingbeedamned · 12/11/2026 18:34

ffoffpls · 12/11/2026 17:58

@BeLemonMoose I think it was more to do with external royal conventions and pressure not just from the Queen & Philip - first ensuring the Royal blood line was genuine. Charles & Di got married in 1981 and DNA testing didn't exist until about 1985/6 so it wasn't something that could be identified. second avoiding any scandal from previous partners selling stories to the News of the World. This was well before the law of privacy developed and celeb injunctions.

Yes, my take was it was all about possible stories from the past coming up and embarrassing the RF. And let's be honest, the press would have had a field day with any "dirt".

ffoffpls · 12/11/2026 17:58

@BeLemonMoose I think it was more to do with external royal conventions and pressure not just from the Queen & Philip - first ensuring the Royal blood line was genuine. Charles & Di got married in 1981 and DNA testing didn't exist until about 1985/6 so it wasn't something that could be identified. second avoiding any scandal from previous partners selling stories to the News of the World. This was well before the law of privacy developed and celeb injunctions.

BeLemonMoose · 12/11/2026 17:40

Sewingbeedamned · 12/11/2026 16:35

Agree although someone upthread aggressively disagreed when I pointed this out. To be fair to old Charlie though, I think it was clear he had to marry someone young so there was no history, rather than his preference. O think it’s obvious that the age gap was part of the problem, although there were many. It was more institutional and societal creepiness.

I remember when that was explained in the media that he had to marry a virgin. I am about Diana's age if she was still alive obviously. And I and my friends were totally taken back at the idea Charles had to marry a virgin. That requirement must have come from Queen Elizabeth and Philip, because it was certainly not expected of young women by that stage

Puppylucky · 12/11/2026 17:34

She apparently did a bit from her stand up show - which was the blancmange routine that has caused all this fuss - as part of the chat. Jonathan Ross is paid (particularly by ITV who are much less indulgent of him than the Beeb were) to make guests look good and have some light chat so the conversation is directed towards the bits of business the guests want to do. It's not a real conversation (see also Graham Norton)

Terrribletwos · 12/11/2026 17:29

So Aisling Bee did do that as part of her stand up on the show?

Puppylucky · 12/11/2026 17:05

CatesandAle · 12/11/2026 16:23

Thanks for the explanation!

Which is wrong. It's already been explained multiple times that the question was a tee-up for Aisling Bea to do a bit from her stand up show. The expressions of the men were supposed to represent hang dog awkwardness as part of the joke. Honestly it's no wonder comedy is dying on its arse if this is the level of interpretation!

Terrribletwos · 12/11/2026 16:39

No I mean the Aisling Bea response
Didn't someone say upthread it was part of her stand up routine?

HappiestSleeping · 12/11/2026 16:36

Terrribletwos · 12/11/2026 16:29

Wasn't it a scripted thing ?

No, I don't think so. Some of his stuff is scripted, but you can't have a completely scripted chat show. It wouldn't work. I think he has a framework and then ad-libs.

Sewingbeedamned · 12/11/2026 16:35

Sweetandsours · 12/11/2026 14:25

I just don't get this whole 1980's bullshit that it was acceptable.
I was a 15 when Diana married Charles, we all thought he was a dirty old man creeping after a young innocent girl.
So did my parents and all my friends.
The word was "god love her" around me.

No way was it a fairytale stuff.
My background was ordinary MC.

No way would my parents or any of my friends parents have stood for a boyfriend more than 2 years absolute max.

My parents were in no way helicopter parents.
It was just known that only creeps want to go out with young girls.
No conversation, no warning.
It was just somehow communicated to us.

Agree although someone upthread aggressively disagreed when I pointed this out. To be fair to old Charlie though, I think it was clear he had to marry someone young so there was no history, rather than his preference. O think it’s obvious that the age gap was part of the problem, although there were many. It was more institutional and societal creepiness.

Terrribletwos · 12/11/2026 16:29

HappiestSleeping · 12/11/2026 15:45

Yes, I did. I think it was Jonathan Ross pushing boundaries in the way he is known to do. She shut him down. I think the other two were caught up in it and genuinely did not know how to react.

The problem with his type of 'edgy' humour is that it gets old quick, and it has to be pushed further and further in order to still be considered edgy. IMHO he stopped being funny over 20 years ago.

My personal view is that Aisling knew it wouldn't stop there, and that his veiled attempt to include everyone so it didn't look targeted would likely mean more would follow and that it would get more targeted.

Wasn't it a scripted thing ?

CatesandAle · 12/11/2026 16:23

HappiestSleeping · 12/11/2026 15:45

Yes, I did. I think it was Jonathan Ross pushing boundaries in the way he is known to do. She shut him down. I think the other two were caught up in it and genuinely did not know how to react.

The problem with his type of 'edgy' humour is that it gets old quick, and it has to be pushed further and further in order to still be considered edgy. IMHO he stopped being funny over 20 years ago.

My personal view is that Aisling knew it wouldn't stop there, and that his veiled attempt to include everyone so it didn't look targeted would likely mean more would follow and that it would get more targeted.

Thanks for the explanation!

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