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David Walliams

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mrpenny · 10/11/2026 12:16

To Think it could not have been DW??

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BlueTreeInn · 11/11/2026 05:01

Undahpressurah · 10/11/2026 22:45

To be fair, ‘not illegal’ is a pretty low bar. People who groom 15 year olds for sexual relationships might not end up in prison, but they certainly shouldn’t end up on prime time tv or with multi million pound publishing contracts. I think that’s just.

I completely agree with you.
But what I'm trying to establish is what law he's broken.
Because if he hasn't broken a law, then justice will not be served (as stated by @junkoenoshima).

BrickMaker · 11/11/2026 04:40

VanCleefArpels · 10/11/2026 21:55

Seriously? So two sixth formers one of whom is 18 and the other 17 shouldn’t have a sexual relationship?

That is OBVIOUSLY not what I mean here. And the laws in question in the US where the age of consent is 18 or higher take into account close-in-age age differences which are exempt (Romeo and Juliet clause). These laws are specifically designed so that adult men do not take advantage of young girls and are generally within two years of each other (so a 17 yr old and a 18 yr old or a 17 yr old and a 19 yr old). Would I think 17 and 20 is a problem? Yes I would. I would certainly think 17 and 36 is a problem as would just about any person with any sense of decency.

Dragononawagon · 11/11/2026 02:50

TooBigForMyBoots · 11/11/2026 02:31

I don't think the BGT hot mic leak happened without Cowell's knowledge. Maybe he saw the writing on the wall before Harper Collins.🤔

Absolutely. I think SC knew DW had to go and that was an easy way for him to achieve that.

TooBigForMyBoots · 11/11/2026 02:31

Koalacanth · 11/11/2026 00:33

I wonder if Simon Cowell had any idea Walliams was behaving so badly.

I don't think the BGT hot mic leak happened without Cowell's knowledge. Maybe he saw the writing on the wall before Harper Collins.🤔

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 02:30

HectorPlasm · 10/11/2026 15:03

I've always had bad vibes about JR - add the bake-off man to that vibe too

Edited

Why ? as a matter of interest. I've always thought he's a bit of a show off and big mouth and probably wanted to appear to be one of the lads, but I've never thought of him as a predator. He seems to have a wife and family that he is devoted to.

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 02:25

UnaPersson · 10/11/2026 14:03

What has Alisha done?

Well, thwy presumably earn very big money so they arent going to bite the hand that feeds them, are they. Thar's the trouble with ppl in showbiz. They earn big bucks and have nice lifestyles and they all cover their own backs so they arent going to whistleblow. They get very mealy mouthed when it comes to calling out other entertainers, have you noticed ? They are all over each other to get work. .

TouchMyBumThisIsLife · 11/11/2026 02:17

Datingwoess · 11/11/2026 01:09

Anyone think Simon C is next?

This thread is sure to mention him by name. This thread is not going down without the trousers.

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 02:16

Sartre · 10/11/2026 19:39

It doesn’t sound suspicious at all. I do not get those vibes from Matt whatsoever. I’m worried about Noel Fielding who I’ve always liked.

He strikes me as easily led, laughing at didgy jokes bit not really as a predator....although he does seem very immature with a look that's way past its sell by date...and llooks awful on a mzn who,'s getti ng fat

TouchMyBumThisIsLife · 11/11/2026 02:11

Dead thread.

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 02:09

fridakahlosmoustache · 11/11/2026 00:44

He always set of my creepometer big time. Glad to be vindicated (though I expected it to be young boys).

Yeah, I kind of did too.

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 02:04

Electricsausages · 10/11/2026 13:28

@PinkFrogss we have just said the same, let’s hope they put him away with Brand

Yes. They can abuse each other.

Koalacanth · 11/11/2026 01:57

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 01:50

Surely not him...if i've got the right person. He doesn't seem sleazy enough. Brand and Walliams seem.obviously sleazy.

How old were he and his wife when they started dating?

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 01:54

NooNakedJacuzziness · 10/11/2026 13:01

I foresee a new reality programme in the making “I’m a nonce get me out of here”

😂

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 01:50

JustHereForTheShitsAndGiggles · 10/11/2026 12:59

Do you mean JR? I heard (from a policeman) years ago that he was the next one to be exposed.

Surely not him...if i've got the right person. He doesn't seem sleazy enough. Brand and Walliams seem.obviously sleazy.

Clonakilla · 11/11/2026 01:49

Great interview with Lucy Beaumont. Brave woman. And how sad the person who originally confided in her felt he couldn’t raise it or didn’t know how via the employer.

RaspberryCoffeePot · 11/11/2026 01:39

mrpenny · 10/11/2026 12:16

To Think it could not have been DW??

Lucy Beaumont spoke out against him and said she fears she will lose work because of it. He was getting people to sign NDAs so they could speak to no-one about the abuse. Not even a therapist. This is appalling. So he can traumatise women and then make sure they get no help. Vile and disgusting. Please people, let us start getting behind people like Lucy Beaumont who bravely spoke out. Let's change the culture once and for all. Powerful men need to be stopped from abusing, and people who speak out need to be supported and encouraged. Change the culture NOW !!!!

GarlicNothing · 11/11/2026 01:16

PropertyD · 10/11/2026 16:47

I agree. I have read the Guardian article and the girls being quoted were being invited to his house, came back a number of times, took up his offer of staying with him.

I do wonder if there is something far worse that Walliams is worried about. He was an older man looking for young dates. The 15 year old is another matter but probably quite hard to prove after such a long time.

I haven't read the whole thread - and probably won't unless further new breaks - but the article gave me pause for thought.

Firstly, systematically grooming under-16s until they're legal is revolting. I was shocked at my own initial reaction, which was 'well, that's not so bad'. Actually, it's pretty bad in itself and I do hope our attitude is going to change. What it is, is picking out school children as potential sex targets and putting some effort into making them available as soon as they hit 16. .

Second, pulling up a 15-year-old's top to suck at her nipples is a serious sexual assault. She makes it clear she wasn't on board for that: it's very aggressive.

Third, employers don't pay a five-figure sum to a staff member to shut her up about creepy suggestions. It indicates he did assault her, badly enough that going to the police would've ruined his image.

Then there's the whole background business of de-bagging and fingering young men on stage (and video) plus the massive amount of 'hiding in plain sight' remarks he's made on film and in print. I suspect the journalists know there is more - which would explain his barmy injunction attempt. The girls' published stories might give other victims courage to come forward.

We'll find out in due course, I guess.

Datingwoess · 11/11/2026 01:09

Anyone think Simon C is next?

CrazyCatMam · 11/11/2026 01:00

Saw a clip where Matt Lucas says to Russell Brand & David Williams that they're the gayest straight men he knows. They both laugh about it and call it 'the perfect smokescreen'.

realsavagelike · 11/11/2026 00:57

CrazyMidget · 11/11/2026 00:34

I'm around your age. I stopped going dancing for the exact same reason around age 20. All I wanted to do was dance with my friends, but there was always some creep. I had my bottom grabbed, both cheeks, full-on, and whoever did it knew I couldn't easily whirl round and see who it was, because I was carrying two glasses of Coke. Another time, I was talking to a guy and he bought me a Coke and then just slid his hand onto my breast. Another time, my friend introduced me to an older male friend of hers, and - this is the worst one - he suddenly traced a finger down the centre of my vulva. 🤢 I also had an older teen boy follow me and flash his penis at me, and getting yelled at from cars when walking along was an everyday occurrence. Then there was the man at work who bullied me badly because he, apparently, fancied me. Then there was a family friend who touched me very inappropriately below the waist when I was 11, more than once. There are more street incidents too, like the man who tried to get into my apartment building with me.

If these men could know the depths of the revulsion they inspire in us, they wouldn't be so quick to do it.

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I'm in my early fifties. Distinctively remember going to a theatre performance in a miniskirt when I was around 13 and trying to yank it further down my legs the whole time because I could feel the persistent stare of the adult male sat in the row behind me. Felt so vulnerable and yucky.

fridakahlosmoustache · 11/11/2026 00:46

Getsomemeatonyerbones · 11/11/2026 00:10

Yes but even the way he stands, his hands etc, hard to explain. He definitely appears gay

On wiki, it quotes him as saying he's bi.

Badvocthebad · 11/11/2026 00:46

CrazyMidget · 11/11/2026 00:34

I'm around your age. I stopped going dancing for the exact same reason around age 20. All I wanted to do was dance with my friends, but there was always some creep. I had my bottom grabbed, both cheeks, full-on, and whoever did it knew I couldn't easily whirl round and see who it was, because I was carrying two glasses of Coke. Another time, I was talking to a guy and he bought me a Coke and then just slid his hand onto my breast. Another time, my friend introduced me to an older male friend of hers, and - this is the worst one - he suddenly traced a finger down the centre of my vulva. 🤢 I also had an older teen boy follow me and flash his penis at me, and getting yelled at from cars when walking along was an everyday occurrence. Then there was the man at work who bullied me badly because he, apparently, fancied me. Then there was a family friend who touched me very inappropriately below the waist when I was 11, more than once. There are more street incidents too, like the man who tried to get into my apartment building with me.

If these men could know the depths of the revulsion they inspire in us, they wouldn't be so quick to do it.

Edited

Yep.
Sounds all too familiar 💔
So sorry you had those experiences

CrazyMidget · 11/11/2026 00:44

Koalacanth · 11/11/2026 00:33

I wonder if Simon Cowell had any idea Walliams was behaving so badly.

I don't think so. Simon is a straight arrow, and I think he'd have fired DW immediately. He's also an excellent businessman who would never knowingly allow any hint of scandal to tarnish his shows.

fridakahlosmoustache · 11/11/2026 00:44

He always set of my creepometer big time. Glad to be vindicated (though I expected it to be young boys).