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David Walliams

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mrpenny · 10/11/2026 12:16

To Think it could not have been DW??

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IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · 10/11/2026 16:31

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 10/11/2026 16:25

Isn’t that exactly their point.

It is, but that one poster is, as I said earlier, being deliberately obtuse or goady. No one can actually be that stupid not to grasp such a basic point.

TouchMyBumThisIsLife · 10/11/2026 16:31

Look at the news. Paedo stuff, rape stuff and grooming. The top 3 stories today.

Lifeomars · 10/11/2026 16:31

I'm watching the ITV documentary on Tube, it's nasty creepy stuff,much older famous wealthy man using his celebrity to access very young girls. One thing that really made me feel sick was an extract of an interview with DW and Alan Carr. Carr asks DW how he gets so many women, and DW replies that he offers them lifts in his car. AC responds, " So you are like a dodgy taxi driver, you get them into the car and then pounce", and both men then convulse with laughter. I've had to get away from a "dodgy taxi driver" and one of my friends was raped by one, and then of course there was the Jon Worboys case. i get more disgusted by men by the day

nomas · 10/11/2026 16:31

Supersimkin7 · 10/11/2026 14:55

He’s no rapist.

The Guardian says he invited loads of younger women out on social media, but he never, ever assaulted any of them.

If this is the best they can do, he’s just a middle-aged sleaze. Not a sex criminal.

The Guardian says he invited loads of younger women out on social media, but he never, ever assaulted any of them.

The Guardian didn't say 'he never, ever assaulted any of them' what a load of bull.

ohyesiseethatnow · 10/11/2026 16:27

Motuihe · 10/11/2026 16:22

Computer said NO

.....AND many women and girls said NO, and it means NO!

But he hasn’t been accused of rape?

Consent isn’t really applicable here, is it?

Most of this I see a man trying to date younger women by sending postcards and flowers and coming across as a bit desperate.

Unedifying, yes. Illegal and rapey, no.

The issue with the 15 year old girl is entirely different and definitely illegal and will presumably be investigated.

The rest of it is just noise.

Men are letches and always have been. But hopefully the tide is turning on this although I’m doubtful this behavior will ever be fully stamped out.

Vinvertebrate · 10/11/2026 16:25

hooverthefloor · 10/11/2026 16:07

Someone gave my daughter one of his books for her birthday once (years ago), and I immediately gave it to a charity shop. Though I felt guilty about that, for whoever would read it (I can't bring myself to throw books away). But I certainly didn't want it in our house.

Same here, on all counts. He was only ever a poundshop Roald Dahl imo, but DS loved the books.

For me, DW's cover was blown by the legal press who referred to "Walliams injunction" in a headline on the most lucrative cases for a particualr firm. The judgment itself makes very dark reading.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 10/11/2026 16:25

Allseeingallknowing · 10/11/2026 15:45

Then it’s best not to make any statements like that until you do know!

Isn’t that exactly their point.

Motuihe · 10/11/2026 16:22

Computer said NO

.....AND many women and girls said NO, and it means NO!

YouLittleWally · 10/11/2026 16:21

BMW6 · 10/11/2026 12:40

Sadly it's not restricted to men with power/money.

Look at the cases where husbands have drugged wives and invited total strangers to rape them.
Ordinary average men in plain sight.
Then think about how many men got the invitation, didn't take it up BUT DIDNT GO TO THE POLICE.

It may not be all men but the evidence suggests the majority are so inclined.

Good point

Ved · 10/11/2026 16:21

Molteneb · 10/11/2026 16:16

Same, same. Its sad that we should have to bring our daughters up to assume the worst of the men they meet to avoid, at best, disappointment, at worst being killed by one.

But to never ever assume they're 'fine' until they REALLY get to know them 😔

But to never ever assume they're 'fine' until they REALLY get to know them 😔

And even then you can't really tell..........

Banjas · 10/11/2026 16:21

I feel very sorry for DW’s son.
His Mum, Lara Stone has recently revealed that she has been diagnosed with breast cancer.
His Dad, DW has threatened that he will commit suicide if allegations are allowed in the public arena. And apparently DW has made suicide attempts.
That poor child. 😢

Molteneb · 10/11/2026 16:16

KidsDoBetter · 10/11/2026 12:33

I am just feeling fucking weary. Weary of all this shit.

Not all men of course. But essentially always ... men.

Same, same. Its sad that we should have to bring our daughters up to assume the worst of the men they meet to avoid, at best, disappointment, at worst being killed by one.

But to never ever assume they're 'fine' until they REALLY get to know them 😔

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · 10/11/2026 16:16

Just to say MNHQ have just pulled a thread about Jonathan Ross, so think about what you're posting

Banjas · 10/11/2026 16:15

viques · 10/11/2026 15:51

I think it was £12,000,000. To someone AMW still says he never met…….

I know.
Extraordinary isn’t it.

hooverthefloor · 10/11/2026 16:07

Araminta1004 · 10/11/2026 13:15

DS (who is 12 now) had a primary teacher who purged all his books from the school library a few years back already, she must have known something. I asked her about it and she said he was dodgy.
So what is going to happen to the books now in schools/libraries?

Someone gave my daughter one of his books for her birthday once (years ago), and I immediately gave it to a charity shop. Though I felt guilty about that, for whoever would read it (I can't bring myself to throw books away). But I certainly didn't want it in our house.

EscCtrl · 10/11/2026 16:07

Limeandfigs · 10/11/2026 16:04

For clarity, that message was sent to a 17 year old who had told him she was "old enough to drink" (implying she was 18).

Sorry. I got that wrong. She was 17 at the time of that message. He met her when she was 15.

Limeandfigs · 10/11/2026 16:04

EscCtrl · 10/11/2026 15:59

"From: David
To: Alex
9 October 2005 19:51:38
You in the bath is a nice thought."

His telling a 15 year old girl he is thinking about her naked is sexual.

For clarity, that message was sent to a 17 year old who had told him she was "old enough to drink" (implying she was 18).

BrandiedAromatics · 10/11/2026 16:03

EscCtrl · 10/11/2026 15:59

"From: David
To: Alex
9 October 2005 19:51:38
You in the bath is a nice thought."

His telling a 15 year old girl he is thinking about her naked is sexual.

Yes, and then Jade: she met him when she was 15. She says that weeks after he first made contact, he invited her to his house and initiated sexual contact. (The Guardian)

RelativePitch · 10/11/2026 16:03

Going back 20 years, DW was a relatively frequent guest on the Chris Moyles Radio1 breakfast show. And I distinctly remember Chris Moyles saying that sometimes a guest would come on who made everyone in the studio and behind the scenes uncomfortable and DW was such a guest.
Chris Moyles really liked him and didn't get it despite being letched on during the entire interview. But there wasn't an imbalance of power between DW and CM, so of course he wasn't going to get it.
But Chris Moyles was also the guy who said 'Your boobs are enormous!' to a then heavily pregnant Davina McCall as he started the interview. No hello, no how are you. Just straight in there followed by a conversation about her breasts and backside.
To millions and millions of listeners, many who were on the way to school.
And we wonder why we are where we are.

EscCtrl · 10/11/2026 15:59

Firesidechatter · 10/11/2026 15:18

But the messages are things like good luck in your exams, stay in touch, he’s been very careful. There is nothing in there sexual,

"From: David
To: Alex
9 October 2005 19:51:38
You in the bath is a nice thought."

His telling a 15 year old girl he is thinking about her naked is sexual.

Limeandfigs · 10/11/2026 15:59

PrincessScarlett · 10/11/2026 15:51

I've not watched the documentary yet. But I wonder if it's consequence will be like the Brand documentary was, to encourage more victims to come forward who do then go to court.

Certainly a possibility. I can only comment on what's been published so far however.

nomas · 10/11/2026 15:57

viques · 10/11/2026 15:51

I think it was £12,000,000. To someone AMW still says he never met…….

Shame he had to sell his £19m Verbier home due to his other debts, he could of holed up there instead of Marsh Farm.

mrpenny · 10/11/2026 15:55

Ved · 10/11/2026 15:46

Ooooh, tetchy! 😬

Ooh, silly 🤨🙄

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DancingonmyOwn88 · 10/11/2026 15:54

The Sun did the same thing with Charlotte Church and Emma Watson I believe. Probably more.

nomas · 10/11/2026 15:54

mrpenny · 10/11/2026 15:37

Forget it. Some people need guides on here …

I think they're all a bunch of creeps (Brand, Walliams, Ross and Fielding).

So I'm genuinely curious what you mean.