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Stayinganontoday · Yesterday 08:12

my DD (16) had wanted to study textiles at uni for maybe 4 years or so. She’s into cosplay and she does OK with her costumes, but as someone who was part of that culture in my youth I know she’s ok to good but not excellent. (My childhood BFF was a cosplayer too and she was amazing).

I’m against her getting into debt for this type of career (her auntie studied something similar and barely scrapes by) and I’ve said that she should look into doing it as an apprenticeship, but apparently they don’t exist.

We went for an open day at the local college, and now she’s fallen in love with hairdressing, but the biggest problem is that she wouldn’t be able to go to uni if she takes that route (or would have to study 2 extra years to get a levels).

i genuinely don’t mind if she does that TBH but she’s obviously turn. Her dad think it’s a “subpar career” and he isn’t super happy about textiles either, but we can’t stop her.

So what would you recommend I tell her or she does? Ty!

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Stayinganontoday · Yesterday 21:04

JLou08 · Yesterday 21:02

She is excelling in textiles, that's great. The world needs creative people. It would be pretty dull if we were all just great at the STEM subjects. Neither is more important or higher value than the other.

I’d be surprise if she didn’t as that’s the only course she actually does!

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mathanxiety · Today 03:51

Someone I went to school with became a makeup artist and had a long, interesting, and very well paid career. She started off in art school but dropped out as her makeup side hustle began to pay really well and demand more and more of her time.

I'd encourage the hairdressing if I were you.

Dandeloosha · Today 03:59

This looks like just the thing.

www.solent.ac.uk/courses/undergraduate/make-up-and-hair-design-ba#employability

Stayinganontoday · Today 09:52

Thank you! We’ve seen now that she has options if she does a foundation year at uni. To me it seems the type of compromise that is worth considering.

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IronicBonds · Today 17:16

Does the third A-level have to "interest" her? If she's seriously looking to go into hairdressing how about something that would support her in to how to run a business? I'm not sure what is available and what would be the best option thinking maths,( although my maths A-Level was totally not useful for things like that) accounting, business, marketing. Do you have access to a careers service. Is she mature enough to study something she might need but doesn't love right now?

Stayinganontoday · Today 17:26

IronicBonds · Today 17:16

Does the third A-level have to "interest" her? If she's seriously looking to go into hairdressing how about something that would support her in to how to run a business? I'm not sure what is available and what would be the best option thinking maths,( although my maths A-Level was totally not useful for things like that) accounting, business, marketing. Do you have access to a careers service. Is she mature enough to study something she might need but doesn't love right now?

Unfortunately it does (or at least from her POV). She refused to do business management for GCSE and instead did music, but even though she’s been playing an instrument since she was five, she’s only going to get a 6.

She was ok with marketing for GCSE but they’d didn’t offer it nor is available at her 6th form.

Also, she can only do hair dressing full time, she can’t have any “add ons”.

and yes, she’s meeting a career counsellor.

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