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What can an interview tell them?

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Acadoomia · 06/11/2026 22:18

A vacancy has arisen at the level above mine. I have always been happy with my level of seniority. I'm more senior than I ever thought I'd get, or than most people ever get. But now the opportunity has come up to effectively join the board of my company.
I'm not sure if I want it but they have asked me to apply.
The thing is, the application and interview process is really very hard core, and I just don't see the point. They know me. I have worked there for 14 years. They know my good and bad points, and I know theirs. There is absolutely nothing that they will learn about me in a highly pressurised, fake scenario / interview. Similarly, there is no way they can make a reasonable comparison between me (who they have known and worked alongside every day for years) and whichever random people they meet for half a day and interview.

I am minded just to tell them this and not apply. It they want to give me the job, give me the job. If not, don't. But don't make a choice based on a made up process. AIBU?

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KnickerlessParsons · 08/11/2026 15:56

They will have to judge you on the responses you give in the interview and how these compare to other interviewers responses. They aren’t allowed to use prior knowledge as a deciding factor as all interviews have to be fair and the same.

whatcanthematterbe81 · 08/11/2026 16:03

Don’t bother applying, you won’t get it. Likely making up the numbers because if this is how you come across at work then they won’t want to make you a board member

PropertyD · 08/11/2026 16:35

You are being incredibly naive. Surely you know they cannot just give you the role and how do you know who else has applied!

senua · 08/11/2026 16:37

I'm just irritated that they want this whole rigmarole when they know me.
OP says that management know her well. If they did then they would know that she's not really interested in the posittion (or, even, a career) and doesn't really want it. On that basis, why on earth have they asked her to apply?
Something doesn't seem to stack up.

Acadoomia · 08/11/2026 17:05

senua · 08/11/2026 16:37

I'm just irritated that they want this whole rigmarole when they know me.
OP says that management know her well. If they did then they would know that she's not really interested in the posittion (or, even, a career) and doesn't really want it. On that basis, why on earth have they asked her to apply?
Something doesn't seem to stack up.

I presume they have asked me to apply for the same reason they have previously promoted me twice - I am good at my job! I am responsive to clients and colleagues, knowledgeable, kind, don't take myself too seriously, am no trouble, and am always honest.

It's not that I don't want it. I just don't strive for it. I have always seen work as a chore. I do the work necessary to justify the salary, no more or less. If they want to pay me more to take on more, I will consider the trade off and decide accordingly. On the other hand, if they don't, that's fine.

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Acadoomia · 08/11/2026 17:07

KnickerlessParsons · 08/11/2026 15:56

They will have to judge you on the responses you give in the interview and how these compare to other interviewers responses. They aren’t allowed to use prior knowledge as a deciding factor as all interviews have to be fair and the same.

But my point is that this is ridiculous. They 'arent allowed to use prior knowledge' is insane. I could be an absolute dick but perform well in interviews. Or be a star in work but fall to pieces in interviews.
As it is I am neither of those things, but plenty are and my point is that it's silly.

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KnickerlessParsons · 09/11/2026 13:14

Acadoomia · 08/11/2026 17:07

But my point is that this is ridiculous. They 'arent allowed to use prior knowledge' is insane. I could be an absolute dick but perform well in interviews. Or be a star in work but fall to pieces in interviews.
As it is I am neither of those things, but plenty are and my point is that it's silly.

I agree, but that’s how it works in our place. Apparently it’s unfair on others if “prior knowledge’ is taken into consideration.
I’m sure it is, but it can’t be seen to be. All must be fair, on paper at least.

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