To think most women would be annoyed by this

Sounds like you've made a good decision OP. You've inspired me not to overlook people's negative traits when they impact adversely on me. Why do we do that? Well, never again.

You've only been together a year, you should be in the honeymoon period soon and yet he's too busy oggling other women already and trying to make you jealous. Everyone finds people attractive ffs, why does he think you give a shit?? It's purely to make you insecure and it's working.

I haven’t read any more than your first post. Unless he also describes how handsome men are then it’s misogynistic. If does, it’s a bit shallow but may be not misogynistic. To do this with you is massively disrespectful and it would put me off.

That's wanky behaviour on his part,he should be talking you up , making you feel good about yourself.

Creepy. What's he prepping you for? I'd tell him to fuck off with that! I wouldn't want to be with someone that treated my feelings so poorly.

Disrespectful to you and frankly a creep as far as other women are concerned, even if he never says anything to them.

I genuinely think partners who do this (both men and women) do it to make their partners feel insecure and dependent on them for validation.

It's horrible behaviour.

Of course we all find people attractive, that's not the issue. His stirring is. If you want to give him a taste of his own medicine, go on and on about how hot some men at work are.

But in all honesty he's probably too much effort. LTB

Of course we all will find people attractive in life, but to make the effort to tell your other half about someone you saw today who was “really sexy” is definitely odd. I wouldn’t do this because I’d assume my partner would think I was trying to upset him or make him jealous.

Next time he says it (if you don't bin him before then that is) don't mention insecurity or disrespect to you, as that's what he's looking for. Try "I'm sure she is beautiful, but I'm finding it really creepy the way you keep leering at women and commenting on their looks. You're like a dirty old man in training"

As usual you talk complete sense!

In my experience it's men who are very insecure themselves who do this. They want to chip away at you so you feel like he's the prize.

“Wow, husband. Man at the pool today had the biggest cock I’ve ever seen. Made yours look tiny”
Should do the trick.

Agree with this.
There's books written about this sort of thing teaching men how to "neg" women as a dating strategy. It's foul.

Yeah - fight fire with fire, and start telling him about all the hot men you've seen recently (make some up if necessary), and how you can't help wondering what they'd be like in the sack...[with a dreamy, slightly breathless air].... See how he likes it.

He's not being insensitive, he's doing it deliberately because he wants to keep you in your place. He's telling you that he thinks a lot of women are beautiful so don't get any ideas you're special. This is designed to keep the power in the relationship in his hands with you believing he means more to you than you do to him. Its a nasty trick.

I think it's pretty disrespectful to talk about other women being sexy to you. Is he doing it on purpose to make you feel insecure? I wonder how he'd feel if you told him how sexy you find other men?

I would find it creepy and sleazy.

This
There is no good reason for doing this.

Negging is the exact word I thought of. He sees lots of attractive women on a day to day basis so you better be grateful he chose you 🙄

I agree. I'd be done anyway, so next time I'd be like....

'Yeah....she's very sexy. I wonder what her boyfriend's like? Hmmm... I bet he's fit as fuck. I'd love to sit on his face if he's as sexy as her. Bet he's got a big dick too, she looks pretty happy with herself'.

Nothing to lose, no face to save. Just his tiny dick ego to knock in to touch.

Is it quite a new relationship? I'd think about dumping him if it continues. It's alright to comment on someone's looks occasionally but not all the time.

I don’t care. And I also talk about guys I think are hot. It’s just an opinion and sometimes adds context to a story. Like my DH sometimes hears gossip about people at the university where he works. People having affairs etc. I’ll even ask, is he/she hot? And so on…. it’s more intriguing if they’re not! 😂

What weird behaviour!
For years I was insecure because my mother made me that way, my DH would never pass comment and I’d find all other women threatening.
Fast forward now, I am happy with myself and trust my DH entirely. I often comment on a woman being beautiful and ask if DH agrees etc. He doesn’t usually point people out because I think I’ve terrified him up until now!
Noticing that someone is attractive is fine, saying they’re sexy.. totally not ok. What do you reply with?!

Ask him to stop. If he doesn't. Next time you're out start talking about how sexy the bloke over there is and how you'd not say no..

Creepy...