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What’s your ‘mum uniform’?

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Oohooh · 05/04/2024 18:29

Bit of a lame expression but I’m looking to buy new clothes that are practical for school run, park etc but easy to throw on together (ie not buying in outfits) and not too slobby/hideous. Just interested to see what everyone else wears, at 32 I’m too old for teen fashion but not ready for Next/Boden yet 😂

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violetcuriosity · 06/04/2024 07:37

@Blessedbethefruitz omg I bought 2 pairs of these after I had my baby last year and I'm still wearing them almost daily. So cheap and comfy. Might buy some more later 😂

Tescovalu · 06/04/2024 07:36

Word of advice

never abandon a waistband

Tescovalu · 06/04/2024 07:36

bingoringo4 · 06/04/2024 01:05

Active wear is what I live in

Noooo. Terrible

violetcuriosity · 06/04/2024 07:35

Black leggings, converse and an oversized sweatshirt or fleece. Sometimes high waisted mom jeans with a knit and bomber jacket. Not really a huge fan of my middle since c-section number 2.

TheGlitterFairy · 06/04/2024 07:10

45 and typically skinny jeans, white trainers or Chelsea boots plus Breton top/ jumper or normal top or dress and tights / boots in winter and dress and sandals in summer. Also in summer denim shorts, vest top and sandals.

Mouse82 · 06/04/2024 05:20

I'm 42 and my go to is black skinny jeans, band shirts and vans.

Pinkchicken85 · 06/04/2024 05:16

Old skinny jeans as ironically they are the only thing that fits my postpartum body.
trainers I bought two years ago, as 300€ + a year is spent on tiny trainers/boots which are scuffed within days of wear.
recently I’ve been accessorising with a newborn baby strapped to my chest, très chic!

BusterGonad · 06/04/2024 05:13

*Mum uniform

BusterGonad · 06/04/2024 05:12

backinthebox · 05/04/2024 23:11

Just shoot me now if anyone ever tells me ‘ooh, you’ve got your Mum Uniform on today!’ I’m a professional with a career, a sportswoman, and an individual with tastes of my own. Dressing in a particular way just to fit in with a mum stereotype would make me die a bit inside.

I know, I'm no professional or sportswoman but I certainly wouldn't want to think of my clothes as a 'mum uniform', I can't think of anything worse than wearing a uniform on a daily basis.

penjil · 06/04/2024 02:28

OnGoldenPond · 06/04/2024 01:03

I just carried on wearing the same clothes as I wore before having DC as I was already into slob chic Grin

Trouble is, as I know all too well myself, is that once you start wearing slob chic, it's very difficult to go back to anything else.

But the comfort of slob chic is a beautiful thing.

penjil · 06/04/2024 02:26

Hermione101 · 05/04/2024 18:37

Lululemon and a baseball cap.

A baseball cap?!

You know anyone wearing one over the age of 14 looks like they are cerebrally challenged.

Leave them to early teenagers, baseball players and American tourists.

bingoringo4 · 06/04/2024 01:05

Active wear is what I live in

OnGoldenPond · 06/04/2024 01:03

I just carried on wearing the same clothes as I wore before having DC as I was already into slob chic Grin

MooseBreath · 06/04/2024 00:12

Skinny jeans or thick leggings and a T-shirt, Docs, leather jacket in the autumn and spring, coat in winter. All practical and comfortable.

Screwballs · 06/04/2024 00:05

Blessedbethefruitz · 05/04/2024 22:35

@merryandbrightdelight @doriangrey604726
I use the app so can't link, search: SINOPHANT High Waisted Leggings for Women

Edited

I have lived in these since I got pregnant and just bought another three pairs as I accept them as my fate now as ongoing mummy wear.

JP123459 · 06/04/2024 00:00

High waisted mini skirt with a bodycon top underneath with thick black tights and black Doc Martens. High waisted mom jeans with a nice belt .. Floral mini dresses with leather jacket and thick black tights and Doc Martens again .. Love my DMs. Always have my silver hoops in, feel naked without them and my silver rings too.

alesia · 05/04/2024 23:55

museumum · 05/04/2024 20:28

I’m clearly not your target audience as I’ve worn Jext as a teen, in my 20s, 30s and 40s. Not sure what’s supposed to be old about it.

I’ve bought stuff from Boden for years, what’s wrong with it

VampireWeekday · 05/04/2024 23:43

backinthebox · 05/04/2024 23:11

Just shoot me now if anyone ever tells me ‘ooh, you’ve got your Mum Uniform on today!’ I’m a professional with a career, a sportswoman, and an individual with tastes of my own. Dressing in a particular way just to fit in with a mum stereotype would make me die a bit inside.

I think the OP means your own personal "mum uniform" , as in, what you wear when you're on "mum duty" - I don't think she means that she's trying to look like all the other mums or to fit some stereotype. She's asking what you wear when you are just doing mum things, rather than say dropping off kids on the way to work or sport.

I like this turn of phrase because I use it too in my own head, for example I think of my work clothes as my "work uniform" even though I'm completely free to wear what I like at work, and I have a "DIY uniform ". It's just a way of thinking about those clothes I've chosen specifically for work or DIY or the park or whatever. In my case I've given myself a work uniform that's entirely black and white because I hate choice in the morning. I genuinely love all my work clothes and spent a fair bit of money on them, but I still consider them a "uniform" and don't usually wear them for social occasions.

Essie274 · 05/04/2024 23:43

I wear plain coloured, loose fitting, midi-dresses pretty much every day - not very practical in the rain, but fine for all other weathers (bare legs in summer, wool tights in winter) and just easy to throw on and look presentable (I really don't have the body for leggings). Wool jumpers/cardigans for layering under/over in the winter, linen or cotton shirts in spring. Usually with trainers - boots when its wet/cold, sandals when it's warm.

merryandbrightdelight · 05/04/2024 23:36

@Blessedbethefruitz @MummaMummaJumma
Thank you!

mightydolphin · 05/04/2024 23:34

I'm 33 and do shop at Next, mainly because my MIL kindly gifts me vouchers for there on special occasions. They do have a good range of brands!

I just got some nice Superdry cargos from there for £27.

I generally wear jeans in the winter with Chelsea boots or knee high boots and a thick jumper in the winter. In the summer I wear floral summer dresses or shorts and t-shirts with trainers.

I do quite like that dark academia look...

VampireWeekday · 05/04/2024 23:30

tttigress · 05/04/2024 20:32

Had to Google Cold Water Swimming jacket. I think I know the look you are talking about now!

But if you were an actual cold water swimmer you would have to have one for the school run and one for training!!

In fairness we're by the coast and I assume the mums are going swimming at some point that day, or that it was just the easiest thing they grabbed in a rush. Surely people don't wear them inland?

My go to outfit is jeans, Chelsea boots and colourful jumper, with a big wool coat or lighter jacket.

isthatmyage · 05/04/2024 23:19

Oohooh · 05/04/2024 18:29

Bit of a lame expression but I’m looking to buy new clothes that are practical for school run, park etc but easy to throw on together (ie not buying in outfits) and not too slobby/hideous. Just interested to see what everyone else wears, at 32 I’m too old for teen fashion but not ready for Next/Boden yet 😂

OP is this a dumb and run to school vibe or dumb and to work earn a living look? 🤔

YaMuvva · 05/04/2024 23:14

I think everyone needs to calm down, OP is only asking for clothing ideas.

backinthebox · 05/04/2024 23:11

Just shoot me now if anyone ever tells me ‘ooh, you’ve got your Mum Uniform on today!’ I’m a professional with a career, a sportswoman, and an individual with tastes of my own. Dressing in a particular way just to fit in with a mum stereotype would make me die a bit inside.

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