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Everyone in the house can f*ck off!

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TurnedInTunedoutAndFckedOff · 04/04/2024 19:06

Relentless last couple of days with the kids.
AIBU to

  1. feel like my body is not a climbing frame
  2. feel like I've run out of answers to the relentless questions
  3. sick of separating fights
  4. tired of reasoning, negotiating
  5. bored of keeping positive
  6. sick of hearing myself talk
  7. cba with the constant drudgery
  8. feel like I just wanna time alone in a dark, quiet room

43, mum of 3 under 5s, perimenopausal and sipping the vino by 430 😬

OP posts:
WaterFast · 04/04/2024 22:47

I was there at 23 and absolutely knacked. I'm 40 now and absolutely couldnt do it, so hats off to you.
Supermum. 🏆

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TurnedInTunedoutAndFckedOff · 04/04/2024 22:45

Thank you for letting me vent! So good to hear im not alone. Currently sat in bed watching NF & eating the rest of the flapjacks I made earlier. . . The other half of the half I ate earlier. . . That should have been for the kids . . .oh well!
Keep up the good work mumsnetters! And I guess, remember how beautiful then look when they sleep 😴 😍

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Whatisthefuss · 04/04/2024 21:37

Sending love and support from a fellow mum on the absolute edge of divorcing her entire family just for some peace and quiet. Well and truelly over stimulated by children needing me every second of the day , I get that’s my role but still … I need a break too 😣

Jeannie88 · 04/04/2024 19:54

TurnedInTunedoutAndFckedOff · 04/04/2024 19:06

Relentless last couple of days with the kids.
AIBU to

  1. feel like my body is not a climbing frame
  2. feel like I've run out of answers to the relentless questions
  3. sick of separating fights
  4. tired of reasoning, negotiating
  5. bored of keeping positive
  6. sick of hearing myself talk
  7. cba with the constant drudgery
  8. feel like I just wanna time alone in a dark, quiet room

43, mum of 3 under 5s, perimenopausal and sipping the vino by 430 😬

Yeah, there is no escape! Stay home, difficult, take them out, difficult! It does get easier...

Hankunamatata · 04/04/2024 19:18

That was me at 31. Hats off at 43 and peri. I'm barely holding myself and my teens together in my 40s

MrsSamR · 04/04/2024 19:17

Are you me? Had a DAY with my 4 year old and 18 month old. My 18 month old actually jumped on my head at one point. And I did have a glass of wine at 4.30 while making dinner for them. They're both in bed now and I'm watching them on the monitor with my heart bursting with love...motherhood is a trip isn't it?!

DGPP · 04/04/2024 19:15

Totally agree, relentless and tiring

Illstartexercisingtomorrow · 04/04/2024 19:15

iPad/tablet.

FillyourPothole · 04/04/2024 19:10

Give them each a tub of very sticky chewy sweets and grab yourself some quiet

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