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Man on dating site asking for rude photos.

61 replies

patsy999 · 04/04/2024 08:21

Does anyone else get this.
Then because i wouldnt send him any, he told me i was flying too many red flags and said i was a prude.
Then he blocked me.

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Catza · 04/04/2024 08:34

Never really had this issue. Where are you guys finding these men?
I wouldn't really dignify this request with an answer. I'd just block them myself immediately. Unless we've been on multiple dates already and both feel in the mood for this sort of thing.

cuckyplunt · 04/04/2024 08:33

Does anyone ever send the photos though? They must get a few hits or surely they’d stop asking?

patsy999 · 04/04/2024 08:29

Its a shame, because they spoil it for the odd decent ones.

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JacquesHarlow · 04/04/2024 08:29

100% block this person and move on. Incredible that anyone would ever consider sending to low lifes like this.

Waitingforeverandaday · 04/04/2024 08:28

Don't engage, just report them, unmatch and move on.

jeaux90 · 04/04/2024 08:27

He is gaslighting you, disgusting man.

GreyCarpet · 04/04/2024 08:27

Yeah, there are so many of them.

Just ignore.

BashfulClam · 04/04/2024 08:26

Be glad he blocked you. What an arse!

cuckyplunt · 04/04/2024 08:26

Useful, he has the decency to let you know he’s a total arse before you waste time meeting him, getting to know him etc.

MCOut · 04/04/2024 08:26

Everyone gets this unfortunately. Block at the first sign.

Menopants · 04/04/2024 08:23

you Get all sorts on the apps. Don’t engage. Just block when you feel someone is being inappropriate

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