Man on dating site asking for rude photos.

aramox1 · 05/04/2024 17:47

If only MPs had your sense

paulfoel · 05/04/2024 10:47

patsy999 · 04/04/2024 08:21

Does anyone else get this.
Then because i wouldnt send him any, he told me i was flying too many red flags and said i was a prude.
Then he blocked me.

Im a bloke - thats just nobhead behaviour from him. Avoid people like him.

dontcryformeargentina · 05/04/2024 10:39

FillyourPothole · 04/04/2024 21:55

if it happens again send them a screenshot of their own face with a cock and balls drawn on their forehead

Love it! That's hilarious

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 05/04/2024 10:30

You get idiots on every site. You get people claiming to be X but are not

send a pic, and it could be seen by others you don't want it to be seen - so possibly if you really want to send a pic of that nature, don't inc face

ViciousCurrentBun · 05/04/2024 10:19

Is someone asked for a rude pic I would be tempted to send a shot of my middle finger.

SharpWriter · 05/04/2024 10:16

I've had this - a man stopped talking to me because I wouldn't send a pic of myself in a bikini. A lot of women are happy to send personal pics of themselves evidently - otherwise men wouldn't ask. I agree that a lot of men are likely married/spoken for and are just on the site for cheap thrills, but it's unfathomable to me why you'd send pics of your bits and bobs to a total stranger. The good guys definitely like and respect you more for not doing it - 100%.

Isittimeformynapyet · 05/04/2024 09:41

NewNameHello · 04/04/2024 12:26

Is it just me but who wants to see a dick pic? Just why??!

Guess what - you are not the only woman who doesn't want to be sent dick pics.

SamW98 · 05/04/2024 09:38

DonnaBanana · 05/04/2024 09:11

There are plenty of wallys who send online romances money for “operations” or other reasons, romance scams.. so I imagine the odd nude photo which has no cost at all happens all the time.

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There was a thread a few days ago where someone had been having a sexual video call with a man from a foreign OLD site and worries in case he had recorded or screenshot her so yes I’m sure it happens frequently

Rudicoolcat · 05/04/2024 09:35

FillyourPothole · 04/04/2024 21:55

if it happens again send them a screenshot of their own face with a cock and balls drawn on their forehead

... and forward on to Grinder...🤣

DonnaBanana · 05/04/2024 09:11

cuckyplunt · 04/04/2024 08:33

Does anyone ever send the photos though? They must get a few hits or surely they’d stop asking?

There are plenty of wallys who send online romances money for “operations” or other reasons, romance scams.. so I imagine the odd nude photo which has no cost at all happens all the time.

Botanica · 05/04/2024 09:05

Be the one to block them first at the earliest sign.

Jillybloop393 · 05/04/2024 09:04

It's a shame if you've come off the sites because of him. Go back on - hopefully there are some genuine chaps on there, but just block any that you think are behaving badly.

LimeAnkles · 05/04/2024 08:58

Send him a picture of a red flag with the message "I think you dropped this"

SamW98 · 05/04/2024 08:39

Catza · 05/04/2024 08:19

I'm sure it is just that I strangely never came across one.

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You’re very lucky then as every woman I know has had more than their fair share of creepy sleazy sexual pests on OLD as well as in the outside world
I’ve had more than I can count

Waitingforeverandaday · 05/04/2024 08:23

SamW98 · 04/04/2024 21:54

Whenever the subject of crap blokes on OLD comes up there’s always a couple who can’t wait to tell us it’s so much worse for the poor menz bless em

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I haven't said they have it worse though.

Catza · 05/04/2024 08:19

LightSpeeds · 04/04/2024 18:49

Where are you finding these men??

They're EVERYWHERE!!!

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I'm sure it is just that I strangely never came across one.

FillyourPothole · 04/04/2024 21:55

if it happens again send them a screenshot of their own face with a cock and balls drawn on their forehead

SamW98 · 04/04/2024 21:54

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 04/04/2024 19:46

That's not the same at all. How does the fact that some women on dating apps are in the sex industry excuse men from pressuring women for nudes?

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Whenever the subject of crap blokes on OLD comes up there’s always a couple who can’t wait to tell us it’s so much worse for the poor menz bless em

FrancisSeaton · 04/04/2024 21:27

YABU to use the term 'rude photos'

74Violette · 04/04/2024 21:25

These kind of men are not usually even wanting to meet up, they're just using the site for wank material and easy thrills. They're likely married or attached anyway.

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 04/04/2024 19:46

Waitingforeverandaday · 04/04/2024 09:16

From speaking to a few men on the apps it would seem they get their versions of this too. A lot of "only fans" girls and prostitutes advertised on there, it seems to be worse for them in terms of quantities.

That's not the same at all. How does the fact that some women on dating apps are in the sex industry excuse men from pressuring women for nudes?

HRTQueen · 04/04/2024 19:45

so many men asked for explicit photos or just randomly sent a dick pick aka flashing

They are creeps who have no respect for you

block and move on and if on bumble report

MauveOrPossiblyTaupe · 04/04/2024 19:43

SamW98 · 04/04/2024 18:41

I’m ancient (55) and had loads of similar requests. Or they ask if I want them to send a photo - usually or their dick and feel asking questions about sex or commenting on my body as the opening message is the way to win the ladies.

Sadly my experience is the majority of men in dating apps are sex pests

"Sadly the majority of men in those dating apps are sex pests."

Fixed it for you.

TheCadoganArms · 04/04/2024 19:02

Waitingforeverandaday · 04/04/2024 09:16

From speaking to a few men on the apps it would seem they get their versions of this too. A lot of "only fans" girls and prostitutes advertised on there, it seems to be worse for them in terms of quantities.

I ran the gauntlet of Internet dating for a number of years and while it is not common for women to send 'rude pics' during those inital early exchanges I would not go so far as saying it was uncommon either. Said pics were rarely as explicit as a 'dick pic' but I would definitely put them in the 'rude' category. I got the impression after a while that there is a sizable minority on main stream dating sites who would be better off just using a hook up site.

LightSpeeds · 04/04/2024 18:49

Catza · 04/04/2024 08:34

Never really had this issue. Where are you guys finding these men?
I wouldn't really dignify this request with an answer. I'd just block them myself immediately. Unless we've been on multiple dates already and both feel in the mood for this sort of thing.

Where are you finding these men??

They're EVERYWHERE!!!