My husband died 4 years ago, we were married a long time but we split up for some time during our marriage but got back together and stayed together till he died. I later found out he'd been having a 7 year affair while we were together.
Recently flowers were left at his grave, they weren't from my son, all other family live a long way from here.
Today on what would have been his birthday, I took some flowers to the churchyard and there was a small wooden heart left there.
So who is leaving the flowers/heart? It makes me think he was being unfaithful again and I feel sick to my stomach that the years I've been shedding tears over his loss were wasted tears.