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AIBU/WWYD - Nursery Choice

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ImNotHeartlessHonest · 03/04/2024 15:50

We have two good nurseries shortlisted near to us. Not much in it price or quality wise, we'd be happy with either. Arguing the toss with DH, won't say who has which job etc.

Both WFH mostly, both compressing hours to do 4 days, so only 3 days in nursery. Home is in Birmingham, some grandparent cover for emergencies, but lives an hour away and doesn't do early starts.

Parent 1 - WFH but occasionally in London by car and train, some overnights. Will do pick ups.
Parent 2 - WFH but occasionally in city centre. Will do drop offs.

Nursery A - 20m walk. 10m to bus for parent 2. Option to book extra days ad hoc.
Nursery B - 10m walk. 5m to bus for parent 2. No extra days option.

Driving can take as long as walking due to traffic.

One parent swayed by emergency bookings option so we can both look like eager beavers at work/help with travel, other parent more keen on a close pick up as the compressed hours make the days a bit of a slog as it is and could usually rely on grandparents to cover sickness.

WWYD?

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Mumoftwo1312 · 03/04/2024 15:56

I vote B based on just this info, but I think you should be making your decision based on other things ie quality of care. Outdoor spaces, food, activities etc etc.

Our nursery offers extra ad hoc days and we've barely booked any, maybe one a year. They're amazing for the things I listed above though.

LegalAlienWooHoo · 03/04/2024 15:55

I mean, it's a guaranteed extra 40 mins a day (not nice in cold, rain, dark in winter etc) in nursery A for the possibility they might have a free space when you need it once or twice a year?!

Sirzy · 03/04/2024 15:53

On the face of it I would go for option A, but it does depend on hours and if the extra 40 mins a day travel would make things tighter.

LegalAlienWooHoo · 03/04/2024 15:52

Nursery B.

I don't get what you'd be using the emergency cover for, a cold you can just struggle through especially with only one DC, a proper emergency eg one parent in hospital then the other parent is likely to be able to cope with emergency leave etc.

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