I'm good friends with a man I've worked with for a couple of months and I admit I do fancy him. We talk all the time, get on really well, tons in common and similar personalities, I do find him attractive.
We've spent time together as friends one-to-one and we've always got tons to talk about. He's made it clear he'd like to go on a date but I think dating at work is a bad idea. I've refused someone in a previous workplace for the same reason.
The last time I did date at work, it didn't end well and it was incredibly awkward/difficult to have to still see them at work, it made me want to change jobs.
So AIBU to keep things platonic, even if he's a lovely guy? I don't want him to think it's him as it isn't, if we didn't work together I would be interested in dating.