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to not understand why people spend money to pollute their homes with pointless chemicals?

563 replies

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 19:26

scent boosters, to go in laundry, air fresheners that squirt puffs of pollutants at you - the tv is full of adverts for these things, so presumably someone is buying them. I just don't get it though. Loading your family's home atmosphere with a load of unnecessary and unpleasant air pollutants, and paying for the privilege? Why?

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WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 30/03/2024 20:43

I think we’re heading into natural v ‘artificial’ chemicals here.

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:42

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 30/03/2024 20:10

And considering house dust is a mix of sloughed-off skin cells, hair, clothing fibres, bacteria, dust mites, bits of dead bugs, soil particles, pollen, and microscopic specks of plastic (according to the American Chemical Society website), some Glade in the air should be the least concern!

But it is just adding to the pollutant load, not reducing it or neutralising it in any way - just making it worse

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midgetastic · 30/03/2024 20:41

I think if many people have a reaction then , even if you don't, it's still a pollutant

Plus half the problem is that we don't notice that damage is being done

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:41

Thepeopleversuswork · 30/03/2024 20:08

This with bells on. It’s just a sign of deep ignorance.

Again, show me where I have used the word "chemical" ignorantly. I am a scientist, I have one undergrad and two post grad degrees and teach science, including chemistry. I know what the word means, and I have used it correctly

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WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 30/03/2024 20:40

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:35

a pollutant is a substance that has a harmful effect, and air pollutant is a substance in the air that has a harmful effect - such as being an irritant, causing exma, asthma, skin irritation, lung irritation, eye irritation, allergies, potentially causing much longer lasting and more serious health problems, and just plain stinking.

Ok, so if I’m not allergic to, say, a Glade Plug-In, it’s not a pollutant.

But if I am allergic to peanuts or eggs or milk, they are pollutants.

Got it!

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:39

BrendaSmall · 30/03/2024 20:04

Blame that bloody Mrs Hinch woman!
Majority of the chemical cleaners, air fresheners wasn’t as vast until she came on the scene!!!

Who is she?

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FledglingFountainPen · 30/03/2024 20:37

My husband and most of his family are allergic to air fresheners... And lavender. Doesn't matter if it's a dried bouquet or lavender oil, it causes them breathing difficulties. Even "natural" scents can cause others issues.
I use scent boosters in my washing because I like the smell! Don't understand what's difficult to comprehend about that.

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:37

EmpressOfTheThread · 30/03/2024 20:00

Thank. You.
People don't seem to realise that water is a chemical compound.....

I know exactly what the word "chemicals" means and I have used it correctly. No one is saying water isn't a chemical, but as I have pointed out, it isn't generally contributing to the pollutant burden of home atmospheres, is it.

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tobee · 30/03/2024 20:35

To be fair UPF are just the topic du jour

<ducks>

reservoirdawg · 30/03/2024 20:35

Mummame2222 · 30/03/2024 19:59

I hate lavender. Is there another option?

My house smells of peppermint. I’m trying to get rid of the rats.
🤦🏻‍♀️🐀
It usually smells of nothing but the relatively clean air, I have windows open, not open plan always use the extractor fan.

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:35

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 30/03/2024 19:58

What is an ‘air pollutant’? Are fresheners polluting but scent isn’t? Are the airborne ‘chemicals’ given off by your cooking pollutants? Or ‘chemicals’ from candles?

Does it boil down to whether they come from a supermarket v whether a charming little man behind a stall gives you nice smelling oils in little brown bottles at 25x the price?

a pollutant is a substance that has a harmful effect, and air pollutant is a substance in the air that has a harmful effect - such as being an irritant, causing exma, asthma, skin irritation, lung irritation, eye irritation, allergies, potentially causing much longer lasting and more serious health problems, and just plain stinking.

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DeeCeeCherry · 30/03/2024 20:34

PermanentIyExhaustedPigeon
Why does fabric conditioner even need colourings anyway?? You don't need to look at it!

I wonder. Maybe it would look like grey sludge if they didnt use colouring, so that wouldnt appeal? A lot of them aldo contain phthalates which really bad for us and can even affect reproductive system. & a whole lot of other nasties too. Even the fragrance-free ones.

Pretty deadly when you think about it

CheeryFinch · 30/03/2024 20:34

MrsTerryPratchett · 30/03/2024 19:50

It's the air equivalent of UPF.

Just open your windows and dry clothes on the line.

They all give me migraines though so I was never tempted.

Agree! I'm same

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 30/03/2024 20:33

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:26

I assure you I know what the word "chemicals" means, and I have used it correctly

What is the correct way to use the word ‘chemicals’, and how does it differ from incorrect use?

As far as I know everything - solid, liquid or gas - is made of chemicals. But I’m beginning to wonder if I’ve misunderstood all these years and some chemicals aren’t chemicals at all.

pictoosh · 30/03/2024 20:33

Prime mumsnet this. Great thread.

EmpressOfTheThread · 30/03/2024 20:33

@iwafs - you can't clean the shower by opening the window, surely?

WingingItSince1973 · 30/03/2024 20:33

Personally I used to use all those things but then started to worry what they were doing to the environment. All those additives in washing where the water then goes back into the ground. The chemicals in some house cleaning and air fresheners have carcinogenic qualities. Fair enough they've been passed for sale but they aren't good for us or the planet. Don't get me started on zoflora! When Mrs Hinch sent everyone mental plugging this awful stuff. Please think of the planet. The water system. The wildlife. All these things have to deal with us polluting the air and water. There's a chemical in certain sun creams that have been banned in Australia as it was causing such a problem for the coral reef. Things like that we wouldn't even think of and would use regularly in the summer months. It's worth thinking about. We share this planet.

Watchkeys · 30/03/2024 20:32

people might just as well flush money down the bog

Because they're buying something you don't like @iwafs ? What if it makes them happy? Is it still flushing money away? Or are you saying that you know what should make people happy, and this isn't it?

Growlybear83 · 30/03/2024 20:31

I love nice smelling detergent, conditioner, diffusers, and candles. I really hate the smell of lavender so could never use it as an air freshener.

iwafs · 30/03/2024 20:29

I don’t wear deodorant or perfume or skincare. Don’t have scented candles or wax melts or diffusers or air freshener plug in or spray. Don’t have laundry scent boosters or scented liquid/powder or fabric softener or dryer sheets or balls or essential oils or anything at all. I don’t use cleaning sprays if I can avoid them. Sometimes I think my shower needs them so I open the window.

and I have a dog and children and husband

my house can smell like whatever it smells like. I like it. I put my face in my dog’s hair and love the smell of him.

people might just as well flush money down the bog. I cannot believe people are talking about CoL and then regularly buying more than 10-20 useless, expensive and weirdly scented products which are bad for them and the environment.

I have a friend and when I walk up to her house, I can smell the laundry shite from outside. She has a massive house with lots of rooms and every single room and all family members reek of this laundry stuff. I just don’t get it.

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:28

Dweetfidilove · 30/03/2024 19:43

I think you’ll find water quality is shit too, unless you’re using pure rain or filtered water.

what are you talking about?

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tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:26

KreedKafer · 30/03/2024 19:34

I’m afraid I can’t take people seriously if they use the word ‘chemicals’ to mean ‘things that are harmful’, because it just demonstrates a fundamental ignorance of the most basic science.

I assure you I know what the word "chemicals" means, and I have used it correctly

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justaboutdonenow · 30/03/2024 20:24

I keep pet rats who have delicate little lungs & many of the cheap, synthetic fragrances trigger my migraines, so we don't really use home fragrances.

Saying that there's a Prices reed diffuser in the hallway & I sometimes add a square of Lush Snow Fairy bath melt to my oil burner in the bedroom.

And I absolutely love the cherry kennel disinfectant we use for the brickweave, but I think that's mostly because it gets rid of the dog pee smell.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 20:24

I am very sensitive to smell - many perfumes and perfumed products give me a headache and/or make me sneeze. Aerosol deodorant is a big no no for me (I hate when someone sprays it in pool changing rooms), as are many (not all) air fresheners. I cannot abide things like Scent Boosters either, washing powder with a mild scent does us fine. I do like certain candle scents, nothing too sweet and in moderation. I also love fresh air and open my windows as much as I can, but living in a farming area the fresh air is often quite stinky (not a complaint, just reality) and living in the far north it's often blowing a hoolie outside too!

rwalker · 30/03/2024 20:23

Can’t stand them myself but a lot of people don’t think no further than what it smells like. Not what’s in it