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to not understand why people spend money to pollute their homes with pointless chemicals?

563 replies

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 19:26

scent boosters, to go in laundry, air fresheners that squirt puffs of pollutants at you - the tv is full of adverts for these things, so presumably someone is buying them. I just don't get it though. Loading your family's home atmosphere with a load of unnecessary and unpleasant air pollutants, and paying for the privilege? Why?

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MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 30/03/2024 23:32

I'm in Team cause-it-smells-nice
🌹💐🌸🌺🌷🌻🌼🥀🪷🪻

Bluesandwhites · 30/03/2024 23:29

@tomorrowisanotherdate
Maybe to disguise the smell of pets, especially dogs. These scents do not work, in particular when there is more than one dog in a small house, ugh. The scents are harmful to the environment.

IncessantNameChanger · 30/03/2024 23:25

KreedKafer · 30/03/2024 19:34

I’m afraid I can’t take people seriously if they use the word ‘chemicals’ to mean ‘things that are harmful’, because it just demonstrates a fundamental ignorance of the most basic science.

Well yes. We are in fact just chemicals. Best hope OP never meets Prof Brian Cox. Water, air. It’s all chemistry.

MaryFuckingFerguson · 30/03/2024 23:24

I am the first to be an inveterate snob about those plug in air fresheners. But I went to a house the other day and the entire ground floor smelt lovely - like clean washing, and i mentioned it - it was from a plug in air freshener.

Rhoticity · 30/03/2024 23:24

Naytr33 · 30/03/2024 19:30

Yanbu
Why would you want to breathe all those chemicals in?🤮 What is wrong with lavender oil if you really need to scent air?

I absolutely HATE lavender

Old ladies wear lavender, it's disgusting

Forgottenmypasswordagain · 30/03/2024 23:23

I assume they do not have asthma. I have to shut my windows when neighbours are drying laundry, as it us a trigger.

ViciousCurrentBun · 30/03/2024 23:22

I am allergic to air fresheners, fabric conditioners and most perfumes. I always have been just as I am allergic to all make up apart from Clinique and simple products.

People chuck a lot more perfumed products about so for me it’s awful. Plus I’m sure they are getting stronger.

Plug in air fresheners have been linked to asthma

I think in the future they will link far more health issues with fragranced products.

I have windows open, clean with dettol and bicarb, I use a cut lemon warmed up for a natural scent sometimes.

@babyproblems I will check out that author, thanks.

theriseandfallofFranklinSaint · 30/03/2024 23:21

I hate it when I run out of Lenor Unstoppables (deep breaths) aside love my laundry to smell nice. Drying outside? OK but you don't get that nice laundry smell.

wotsistmum90 · 30/03/2024 23:20

Agentdanascullyx · 30/03/2024 23:17

I’ve just cleaned my entire house with fabulousa winter angel ( snow fairy knock off) I like tbe smell 🤷‍♀️

I like the smell too! Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to be one of those who says they hate the smells and likes BO. I love the smell of these, but I stopped myself buying them when I read what they do to the water and the environment. I can't justify doing what they do to the world and to the people in it by saying 'I like the smell'. And don't think I'm some eco live-in-the-woods hippie, I'm just a regular person making small tiny differences and even I couldn't justify them anymore.

Agentdanascullyx · 30/03/2024 23:17

I’ve just cleaned my entire house with fabulousa winter angel ( snow fairy knock off) I like tbe smell 🤷‍♀️

NonPlayerCharacter · 30/03/2024 23:11

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 20:41

Again, show me where I have used the word "chemical" ignorantly. I am a scientist, I have one undergrad and two post grad degrees and teach science, including chemistry. I know what the word means, and I have used it correctly

And yet you can't understand why people buy scented products?

Whyarepeoplesoweird · 30/03/2024 23:10

You start realising instaram and Mrs hunch has a lot to answer for when people spend 50 quid on cleaning products. I keep thinking they must have smelly unclean homes to buy all of this in one go. But also must be brainless to not have a clue how it effects them long term. They'll be the first to cry when they get cancer and then act like they've no idea why.

Desecratedcoconut · 30/03/2024 23:09

Actually they are all a problem for me too. We try to do as much stuff that involves painting/ re-carpeting in the summer when doors and windows can be flung open. Stuff with fire retardant is awful - special shout out for Emma mattresses 🤮

wotsistmum90 · 30/03/2024 23:04

mathanxiety · 30/03/2024 23:01

You mean all the chemicals in paint, carpeting, and furniture?

It is kind of necessary to have flooring and furniture in a home, and these aren't changed much. But unnecessary chemicals that you add to everything are being discussed here. Coating your furniture and carpets in air freshener, washing all your clothes in oily chemicals and washing it all down the drain to kill wildlife when you're finished is not really comparable to painting your walls every 10 years is it?

mathanxiety · 30/03/2024 23:01

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 19:26

scent boosters, to go in laundry, air fresheners that squirt puffs of pollutants at you - the tv is full of adverts for these things, so presumably someone is buying them. I just don't get it though. Loading your family's home atmosphere with a load of unnecessary and unpleasant air pollutants, and paying for the privilege? Why?

You mean all the chemicals in paint, carpeting, and furniture?

Ramalangadingdong · 30/03/2024 23:01

Pigeonqueen · 30/03/2024 19:30

For the same reason people spray themselves with perfume and bother to wash regularly 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

It smells nice. That’s it .

Except Jonathan Ross who doesn't bathe much (it's in an online interview at the moment so that's why I mention it). He reckons his wife doesn't bathe much either. It was disgusting to read. I hope he was making it up.

agent765 · 30/03/2024 23:00

I'm allergic to these products.

Walking into my sister's home without giving her notice to air it out with all the candles she burns, air fresheners all over the place and the stink of scent boosters and whatnot can and has sent me to A&E with a severe asthma attack.

Both my nieces are asthmatic and also find it unpleasant to go back home.

There's a reason these products have warnings on them.

My sister moans constantly about the cost of living crisis but happily spends a fortune on unnecessary household items.

I also don't get why anyone needs MORE scent in their laundry. My niece uses Surf. Her clothes smell lovely and don't trigger our asthma.

ETA that most of these items are made in other countries from cheap ingredients then shipped halfway across the planet. Needless waste of the planet's resources but that's just MHO.

babyproblems · 30/03/2024 22:57

I do like a nice scented candle but to be very clear - most of these products - cleaning & fragrances & cosmetics are toxic carcinogens that enter the body and there’s a lot of research to prove this. It’s not potential it IS fact.

‘Countdown’ by Shanna Swan is very informative on the damage chemicals are causing to our health. These chemicals are why we have a fertility crisis and many modern illnesses are on the rise. Well worth reading.

wotsistmum90 · 30/03/2024 22:54

It makes me sad to see the cleaning trend of late. All those extra chemicals (and yes, chemicals is the right word) being washed down the drains. As we know, this year a record number of our drains ended up in our rivers and no river in the UK is without contamination. This means the chemicals, scents, oils, build ups are in our rivers and in our wildlife. Just because people want to smell nice?

I don't that they should be sold, and if you disagree with me on the basis that 'I want to smell nice and have a right' then we fundamentally disagree

MadamVastra · 30/03/2024 22:54

I bet you're all the ones who were on the thread about salt saying it lasts you a million years as well!

no air freshener and no salt in salad dressing

sad times 😂

AmethystSparkles · 30/03/2024 22:45

I agree with you OP. I don’t use any air fresheners, fabric conditioner etc and it says on Zoflora that it’s toxic to wildlife. Why would anyone want to use that?!

I’m even wary of using essential oils because lavender used to set off my exH’s asthma.

I do wear perfume though.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 22:43

Theunamedcat · 30/03/2024 22:42

No its toxic if it gets on them they groom it off and ingest it

PLANT lavender and I believe curry plant? They will stay away from it also mulch with coconut shell good for your plants bad for the paws they won't dig in it

Right, I just want to discourage them, I don't want to harm them.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 22:42

Thegiantofillinois · 30/03/2024 22:40

People still have coal fires where I live. Our house reeks of other people's fires all winter. I have to breathe it in when I'm out and about. I spend over an hour a day in my car, presumably breathing in petrol fumes all the way. A few aldi scented candles and some smelly sprinkles in my laundry isn't going to do much.

Quite a few coal fires here too. I'm convinced one neighbour is burning something other than coal or wood or even peat....the fumes smell very unusual.

Theunamedcat · 30/03/2024 22:42

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 22:17

Would lavender scent stop them coming in my garden, without harming them of course?

No its toxic if it gets on them they groom it off and ingest it

PLANT lavender and I believe curry plant? They will stay away from it also mulch with coconut shell good for your plants bad for the paws they won't dig in it

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 30/03/2024 22:41

Essential Oils aren't amazing and healthy either

Thought we'd got passed the obsession with essential oils tbh