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to not understand why people spend money to pollute their homes with pointless chemicals?

563 replies

tomorrowisanotherdate · 30/03/2024 19:26

scent boosters, to go in laundry, air fresheners that squirt puffs of pollutants at you - the tv is full of adverts for these things, so presumably someone is buying them. I just don't get it though. Loading your family's home atmosphere with a load of unnecessary and unpleasant air pollutants, and paying for the privilege? Why?

OP posts:
ForestBather · 31/03/2024 00:39

I'm with you OP. I will use high quality real essential oils, but try to to keep the nasty stuff out as much as possible.

RogueFemale · 31/03/2024 00:33

I'm with you @tomorrowisanotherdate and don't buy any of that crap. Chanel Coco Eau de Parfum, yes, - Febreze, no.

Topsyturvy78 · 31/03/2024 00:31

My older sister gets them plug in's then can't understand why my daughter has cluster seizures at her house. She also uses candles which I've told her is another trigger. But oh no I don't know what I'm talking about. Strange how when I take her outside the seizures stop. Them plug in's also give me an irritating cough.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 31/03/2024 00:28

YANBU in regards to stuff like plug in scents and aerosol room fresheners.
They absolutely stink, all they do is mask smells as well.
They're so cloying
Get the windows all thrown open and let fresh air in, best way in my opinion!

IAmTerrible · 31/03/2024 00:22

Naytr33 · 30/03/2024 19:30

Yanbu
Why would you want to breathe all those chemicals in?🤮 What is wrong with lavender oil if you really need to scent air?

Lavender oil is made of chemicals. Everything is made of chemicals. You are made of chemicals.

JMSA · 31/03/2024 00:18

pictoosh · 30/03/2024 20:33

Prime mumsnet this. Great thread.

I know. I've been playing Mumsnet bingo with it, and was waiting for 'more money than sense' to come up.
I wasn't disappointed Grin

Inkblue · 31/03/2024 00:16

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 31/03/2024 00:06

I've always had a sensitive nose but it's getting even more sensitive as I age!

You too? It’s horrible, isn’t it? I’ve got no idea why and would love to know.

Bluesandwhites · 31/03/2024 00:14

@mathanxiety

Wow ! Do you work in the science field? Thanks for the info, it's frightening. I have carpets which are 20 years old and some new laminate, I suppose laminate is just as bad, hardly a natural fibre.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 31/03/2024 00:06

Inkblue · 30/03/2024 23:52

I can’t tolerate all those smells as they make me feel sick. If I go into someone’s house with them I literally have to leave, the same with fabric conditioner, scented candles and even some perfume and aftershave. I never used to be like this and I don’t know why I am so sensitive to the smells but there seems to be a lot more about. I don’t mind natural oils at all so it must be an artificial ingredient I’m reacting to but don’t know what it is.

I've always had a sensitive nose but it's getting even more sensitive as I age!

Inkblue · 30/03/2024 23:52

I can’t tolerate all those smells as they make me feel sick. If I go into someone’s house with them I literally have to leave, the same with fabric conditioner, scented candles and even some perfume and aftershave. I never used to be like this and I don’t know why I am so sensitive to the smells but there seems to be a lot more about. I don’t mind natural oils at all so it must be an artificial ingredient I’m reacting to but don’t know what it is.

HonorGold · 30/03/2024 23:51

Screamingabdabz · 30/03/2024 19:32

Because people have forgotten what really clean actually smells like. Pet smells, washing clothes at low temperatures, poor ventilation, general whiffiness and laziness means people would rather try and mask it with artificial perfume. Even though it’s fooling nobody.

💯

people just need to wash and clean properly (themselves, clothes, houses) and open windows for fresh air

Malarandras · 30/03/2024 23:51

To paraphrase the eternal Billie Piper: ‘Because they want to!’.

And that’s it really.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 23:48

NobbyNobbs · 30/03/2024 23:44

For those quoting and re-quoting the 'chemicals' post, ffs stop trying to be facetious and 'gotcha'. You know exactly what that poster was trying to say - anything artificial that mimics what is natural. "We're all chemicals! Doesn't she know that water is a chemical?!" bollocks. How smug do you sound?

Why are you being so defensive? If you're happy for those irritants to be in your home, good for you. If you can afford to buy all those unnecessary 'scents', good for you. But stop with the tedious re-quoting of a very weak argument to justify your stance, will ya?

'Anything artificial that mimics what is natural'.
Again, natural isn't always better and synthetic isn't always worse! Concentration matters too.
(Call me smug if you like but if you're scientifically trained it's hard to ignore false/inaccurate info. People in other professions feel the same).

srood · 30/03/2024 23:48

Merely skimmed the thread.

But I don't have an air freshener in my home. I have always wondered why you'd need to freshen the air in your home.

My home is fresh without them?

ImAlwaysknackered · 30/03/2024 23:47

Surely scents are subjective? Bit like beauty is in the eye of beholder? What smells nice to one person might smell gross to the next!

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 23:45

MenoBabe · 30/03/2024 23:42

Sorry, lavender is disgusting because older people use it? Really?

I have always loved lavender type smells, but then it's often been said I had an older head on younger shoulders....🤔

NobbyNobbs · 30/03/2024 23:44

For those quoting and re-quoting the 'chemicals' post, ffs stop trying to be facetious and 'gotcha'. You know exactly what that poster was trying to say - anything artificial that mimics what is natural. "We're all chemicals! Doesn't she know that water is a chemical?!" bollocks. How smug do you sound?

Why are you being so defensive? If you're happy for those irritants to be in your home, good for you. If you can afford to buy all those unnecessary 'scents', good for you. But stop with the tedious re-quoting of a very weak argument to justify your stance, will ya?

PensePotter · 30/03/2024 23:44

I am not an old lady and like the smell of true lavender. Lovely to use on pillow and helps sleep in a natural way.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 23:44

mathanxiety · 30/03/2024 23:40

Carpets contain:

Plasticisers: phthalates
Alkylphenol Ethoxylates

  • nonylphenols and nonlyphenol ethoxylates
Biocides: antimicrobials Flame retardants Stain repellents:
  • per and polyfluorinated alkyd substances (PFBs)
Heavy metals and metal compounds Polycyclic Aromatic Hydrocarbons (PAHs) Other VOCs:
  • polyvinyl chloride (PVC)
  • styrene butadiene rubber latex (SBR Latex)
  • polyurethane

In short, carcinogens, endocrine disrupters, chemicals associated with mutagenicity amd reproductive toxicity. Babies crawl around on carpeted floors, pets sleep on them...

Also, they're full of grime.

Concentration of the chemical substances is relevant too though, a substance may or not be present in harmful levels. Not being a carpet expert I'm not sure how toxic the components are, but just making this important point.

ImAlwaysknackered · 30/03/2024 23:43

MaryFuckingFerguson · 30/03/2024 23:24

I am the first to be an inveterate snob about those plug in air fresheners. But I went to a house the other day and the entire ground floor smelt lovely - like clean washing, and i mentioned it - it was from a plug in air freshener.

I need to know which one so I can obtain it immediately. 😆

MenoBabe · 30/03/2024 23:42

Rhoticity · 30/03/2024 23:24

I absolutely HATE lavender

Old ladies wear lavender, it's disgusting

Sorry, lavender is disgusting because older people use it? Really?

PensePotter · 30/03/2024 23:41

DeeCeeCherry · 30/03/2024 20:17

I wont use fabric conditioner because of Glutaraldehyde which is so toxic to marine life, and methylisothiazolinone which can trigger asthma and respiratory issues. Some of them contain D&C violet 2 colouring, which has been linked to cancer.

Air fresheners I dislike because since a youngish age, they've given me a bad headache and made me sneeze repeatedly. For me the health risks just arent worth it for the sake of the fragrance. I wouldnt have wanted any of that around my DCs.

I do understand we don't and can't all think the same so the answer to 'Why' is, some people just love the fragrance and that's a good enough reason for them. There are a lot of companues out there profiting from hastening our death aren't there.

Agree. Also cannot stand the car 'trees' which are truly awful. They smell disgusting

For cleaning only use 4 products: lemon juice, vinegar, Bicarbonate of Soda and Washing Soda.

For washing in machine or hand: Dri Pak Liquid Soap flakes.

Ponderingwindow · 30/03/2024 23:41

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 30/03/2024 21:01

Yeah, that’s really the gist of it. I doubt there’s any evidence of harm from these products even if some find them unpleasant.

Except that diagnosis of artificial ingredient allergies is going up. People are having negative reactions to these products, even if they don’t personally buy or use them.

I feel like a canary in a coal mine. I’m having reactions that range from rashes to anaphylaxis. I’m not the only one.

The general public should be looking at us and realizing they should do something before they become us.

mathanxiety · 30/03/2024 23:40

Carpets contain:

Plasticisers: phthalates
Alkylphenol Ethoxylates

  • nonylphenols and nonlyphenol ethoxylates
Biocides: antimicrobials Flame retardants Stain repellents:
  • per and polyfluorinated alkyd substances (PFBs)
Heavy metals and metal compounds Polycyclic Aromatic Hydrocarbons (PAHs) Other VOCs:
  • polyvinyl chloride (PVC)
  • styrene butadiene rubber latex (SBR Latex)
  • polyurethane

In short, carcinogens, endocrine disrupters, chemicals associated with mutagenicity amd reproductive toxicity. Babies crawl around on carpeted floors, pets sleep on them...

Also, they're full of grime.

Grimchmas · 30/03/2024 23:32

All those scented products just smell terribly artificial to me and give me a headache.

I once house and cat sat for somebody who used all sorts of those products. It was overpowering, and I unplugged them all until a few hours before she came back. Unfortunately she used them because her cat pissed everywhere, so the house stank of cat pee instead 🙃

I work pretty hard to have my laundry and home not smell of anything! When I buy clothes from charity shops I work hard to get rid of the smell of somebody else's detergent - it didn't occur to me that the really strongly perfumed ones probably had scent boosters used on them!