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How much is 'a drink' in payment terms for a tradesman?

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cockapup · 30/03/2024 10:20

My elderly parents contacted a tradesman on a local FB group as needed an outside light replacing. The tradesman said he'd pop round after finishing another local job to assess. As it turned out it was a bulb needing replacing so took him less than 10 mins. He kindly said no charge but just give me a 'drink'.

How much would you give? Just wondering if what my parents gave was excessive- I'll reveal amount later.

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MumPlanQuery · 30/03/2024 17:04

He saved them a bit of work that could have been straightforward but equally could have expanded into something complicated - getting a ladder out and climbing up to remove the bulb, doing the online research to see what kind of bulb it is, ordering it, getting the ladder out again to change it, and potentially other awkwardness with getting the right screwdriver to remove the fittings, or finding out the bulb wasn’t the correct one so having to order another, or finding you’ve dropped and lost a screw in the process and need to source another, and through this, having no outdoor light for a few more days, plus having the uncertainty that this would fix the problem and that if it had turned out to be not the bulb they’d have to pay someone to come in after that to assess it.

I would have expected him to take £20 given he’d said ‘a drink’, but I still think a minimum call-out of £50 would not have been unreasonable, plus the cost of a bulb.

XiCi · 30/03/2024 17:03

Your poor mum. He has totally taken advantage of your elderly parents. I would be messaging him on the FB page and asking why he took £60 from them

EatCrow · 30/03/2024 17:03

pootlin · 30/03/2024 14:06

Sounds like he took advantage. This is why we live 5 mins away from my parents even though I’d love to move away.

Mum feels a constant guilt about money and gives her basic pension away like sweeties.

Edited

😥

ginasevern · 30/03/2024 17:03

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 30/03/2024 10:22

All depends what the person did and how long it took - you are not going to give 20 quid to someone for 5 mins work

so generally a fiver or tenner at best unless they'd worked more than a day, then consider 20

You'd graciously consider £20.00 fair payment for more than a day's work. Are you serious. Do you live in the UK or Bhutan?

ImWatching · 30/03/2024 16:59

I’ve never heard of being asked for “a drink” by a tradesman - learn something every day

Me either. I read the op and though he wanted a cup of tea, which I though odd as he was on his way home, until I got to the question.

EatCrow · 30/03/2024 16:59

Nightlight robbery.

Laurama91 · 30/03/2024 16:57

I think this is a bit cheeky of him. I have gone to my local garage because my bonnet wouldn't shut properly. I have never used them before. They greased and shut it. A 5 min job and did it for nothing. I have taken my car there every since they did this. And to be honest I'm glad I did. They have also come a jumped my car as I had mot booked but couldn't move my car, again for free

whynotwhatknot · 30/03/2024 16:56

he tried to make himselflook good but then ripped them off

you dont take 60 off anyone for a ligtbulb fitting

MumblesParty · 30/03/2024 16:55

Horsewhisperers · 30/03/2024 16:46

For those suggesting very low amounts such as £5, they need to remember that tradesmen are not working when travelling to the job so the 10 minute job would be an hour with travelling, plus the cost of a light bulb and the cost of fuel.
It is so difficult to find people willing to do small jobs so it's worth paying more than you think the job is worth just to ensure he will be happy to come back for another job,

I agree, and I would give £20 for a “drink”.
But you have to remember that yes they are doing customers a favour by fitting in small jobs at discounted rates. But they’re doing themselves a favour too, because that money is tax free. I don’t begrudge them that, and I have several regular tradesmen who fit in jobs for me for £20, so I’m happy with that arrangement. But it isn’t a one-way street. It benefits the tradesmen too. They get a bit of tax free cash, and a potentially a future customer for bigger jobs (except in the OP’s case, because he’s a bloody criminal!)

wellerhugs5 · 30/03/2024 16:55

£20 here

PToosher · 30/03/2024 16:53

We had some building work done. We gave the bricky that was onsite every day for weeks 'a drink' and that was £20 of bottles of ale.

My ukulele group played for an afternoon at a local social club for a Christmas do. They said we'd get a drink. Bearing in mind the place has a bar at club prices. We got a cup of tea each. A cup, mind you, not a mug. And no biscuits.

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 30/03/2024 16:51

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 30/03/2024 14:40

Only you are being "ridiculous"!
The thread is about "beer money," not paying people for jobs/etc

I think people were picking up on your saying "so generally a fiver or tenner at best unless they'd worked more than a day, then consider 20".

Did you mean if they'd popped over after work on a Monday and then had to grab a special tool from home before popping in again after work on Tuesday?

From what you said, it did sound very much like you were saying to only even consider giving a professional £20 for doing more than a full day's work for you - hardly 'do us a little favour' or 'beer money' territory.

Horsewhisperers · 30/03/2024 16:46

For those suggesting very low amounts such as £5, they need to remember that tradesmen are not working when travelling to the job so the 10 minute job would be an hour with travelling, plus the cost of a light bulb and the cost of fuel.
It is so difficult to find people willing to do small jobs so it's worth paying more than you think the job is worth just to ensure he will be happy to come back for another job,

Kissmystarfish · 30/03/2024 16:44

cockapup · 30/03/2024 13:05

She wasn't sure what 'a drink" meant so showed him the notes she had in her purse. 2x £20 and 2x £10 for him to select the right amount and he took it all. She didn't comment as assumed that's how much a drink was.
Mum is 87 and dad 89 so no way would either be able to climb a ladder to reach outdoor light to fix themselves although my dad now says he'd give it go for £60!

Oh!

no that’s terrible! That really is. I would be phoning some kind of Chartered place.

where did they find him?

I hate this kind of stuff the most. My granny got taken advantage of

I believe he has totally taken advantage of your parents!!

Filingisfatal · 30/03/2024 16:35

Oops read update no 60 too much

Filingisfatal · 30/03/2024 16:34

Tenner, but I think I would have given him 20 cos he sounds like a decent bloke.

BashfulClam · 30/03/2024 16:33

We bought a new outside light thinking it’d be a like for like swap…it wasn’t. We called a local electrician who took off the old one and mounted and connected the new one…,£35!

Findmebythesea1 · 30/03/2024 16:33

Just read your update, yeah that’s really out of order. He took the piss out of their vulnerability there. If he asked for a drink and your mum handed him £60 he should have said oh no that’s too much and handed her at least £40 back. 😡

Findmebythesea1 · 30/03/2024 16:30

I would consider £10 but give £20 so I didn’t look like a tight arse 😂 £5 is absolutely too low! Anymore than £20 seems excessive.

TimeandMotion · 30/03/2024 16:27

I’d be worried that (a) your parents thought it appropriate to offer up all the money in her purse and just let him take it and (b) that your Mum thought “a drink” might cost cost £60. Sounds like they are struggling with daily living, how can they manage their daily finances if they are that out of touch with what things cost?

GlitterBall91 · 30/03/2024 16:17

I’d probably have taken that literally and given him a crate of beers !

WimbyAce · 30/03/2024 16:12

He took money to replace a light bulb??!! Frigging hell!!

OneTC · 30/03/2024 15:26

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 14:36

Because it’s ridiculous ? Could you survive on £100 a week ? We hired a local decorator and he charged £100 a day - and that was several years ago. The daily rate now is an average of between £240 and £400.

Edited

They mean a £20 tip on top for works that took a day

BusterGonad · 30/03/2024 15:12

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 30/03/2024 14:18

He's totally mastered the art of making himself seem like a really good guy, whilst simultaneously acting like a really bad guy, hasn't he?

Honestly: anybody taking £60 for changing a light bulb from a couple who are both knocking on 90 needs to have a really long, hard look at themselves.

I'm not necessarily saying he was wrong to earn anything for his trouble, but what a shame he couldn't have been like plumber James Anderson of Burnley:

Wow. This has teared me up.

853ax · 30/03/2024 15:11

If local pub just ask them to give him a drink next time he in and pay them
Wouldn't expect give cash with that reply and odd to say that but then accept £60 for changing light bulb