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To think that unless the leaders in this country stand up to this sht, women and children’s rights are totally fcked?

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Absym · 27/03/2024 12:20

Sadly Spain is providing ample evidence of why this is all a terrible idea.

https://www.spiked-online.com/2024/03/26/spains-trans-equality-law-is-a-predators-charter/

Spain’s ‘trans equality’ law is a predator’s charter

Gender self-ID has eviscerated women’s rights.

https://www.spiked-online.com/2024/03/26/spains-trans-equality-law-is-a-predators-charter/

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BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:51

EasternStandard · 29/03/2024 09:49

‘It wasn’t a complaint’

You complain in the same way on every thread about this.

It wasn’t a complaint.

AdamRyan · 29/03/2024 09:50

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:45

I don't think "feminism" that stands back and applauds while males claim to be women and allows them to speak over and for females is any kind of feminism.

It's just regressing back to times when males made decisions for females. How can you not see that?

I think you misunderstood blossom.
I agree with her. Self ID is not on the table and there are currently far more pressing problems for women than gender politics. Prioritising this over everything else is damaging tunnel vision.

EasternStandard · 29/03/2024 09:49

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:46

I merely observed that there are many threads all covering the same ground. It wasn’t a complaint. Talk about what you want - and expect challenge from those who disagree with you.

‘It wasn’t a complaint’

You complain in the same way on every thread about this.

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:49

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:45

I don't think "feminism" that stands back and applauds while males claim to be women and allows them to speak over and for females is any kind of feminism.

It's just regressing back to times when males made decisions for females. How can you not see that?

Same way as you can’t see how biased and tunnel visioned you are, I guess. Nobody’s applauding anything, incidentally. I don’t think feminism that ignores the very real harm suffered by thousands of women every day is any kind of feminism either but you seem to.

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:46

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:41

Well funny that because you seem to be complaining that someone started a thread on this issue. 🤔 almost like you think we shouldn't be talking about it.

I merely observed that there are many threads all covering the same ground. It wasn’t a complaint. Talk about what you want - and expect challenge from those who disagree with you.

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:45

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 08:54

I think women’s rights are a very important issue and are embedded in every aspect of society. As a second wave feminist I find confining women’s rights to a single issue tunnel visioned. When rape has essentially been decriminalised through lack of conviction, domestic violence rises every year - up by 7.7% last year - while the conviction rate shrinks and 30% of UK children live in poverty, the trans issue comes a long way down my list of concerns about women’s rights.

I don't think "feminism" that stands back and applauds while males claim to be women and allows them to speak over and for females is any kind of feminism.

It's just regressing back to times when males made decisions for females. How can you not see that?

AdamRyan · 29/03/2024 09:43

Yesterday the Conservatives made Mens Rights Activist Philip Davis MP a lord. Yes that's just what we need. An anti-feminist in the Lords. Well done Tories.

The Conservatives don't give a monkeys about women's rights.

Unfortunately too many women have been hoodwinked by their campaigning into believing this is an existential threat they have to fight against. The political reality is there is a gnats fact between Labour and Tories. Its really not a voting issue and "leaders" aren't going to go to self ID so the Spanish situation is a red herring.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/politics/2019/apr/26/tory-mp-philip-davies-to-speak-at-us-mens-rights-conference

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-38305412.amp

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/politics/mps-philip-davies-esther-mcvey-tracey-crouch-prime-minister-b1148414.html

Tory MP Philip Davies to speak at US men's rights conference

Other scheduled speakers include two Ukip candidates and a US ‘male supremacist’

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/politics/2019/apr/26/tory-mp-philip-davies-to-speak-at-us-mens-rights-conference

EasternStandard · 29/03/2024 09:42

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:41

Well funny that because you seem to be complaining that someone started a thread on this issue. 🤔 almost like you think we shouldn't be talking about it.

They do that on every thread on the topic.

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:41

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:34

You can speak up as much as you want @EasternStandard. I have no interest in stopping you. Equally I too will speak up to disagree with you and your narrow worldview.

Well funny that because you seem to be complaining that someone started a thread on this issue. 🤔 almost like you think we shouldn't be talking about it.

EasternStandard · 29/03/2024 09:40

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:34

You can speak up as much as you want @EasternStandard. I have no interest in stopping you. Equally I too will speak up to disagree with you and your narrow worldview.

I find you entrenched by a narrow male prioritisation so the feeling is mutual.

You mention politicians moving away from self ID is that something you wanted?

Same question for continuing puberty blockers

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:34

You can speak up as much as you want @EasternStandard. I have no interest in stopping you. Equally I too will speak up to disagree with you and your narrow worldview.

EasternStandard · 29/03/2024 09:32

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:14

There are no women's rights if men can just declare themselves women.

Self ID does exist in that a male can enter any female space and no one will check

Eddie Izzard is a good example, does he have a GRC? Maybe not but if he doesn’t he can still get access.

As for politicians knocking it down the agenda that’s due to women speaking up, which pp is at pains to stop on every thread.

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:28

So why then @blossomtoes do we have males in women's sports, males taking jobs legally reserved for females in rape crisis centres, males taking women officer political positions, males representing women at the UN etc etc.? Need I go on?

Confected problem my arse.

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 09:17

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:14

There are no women's rights if men can just declare themselves women.

But they can’t. No political party supports self ID. It’s a completely confected problem.

Rainbowshit · 29/03/2024 09:14

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 08:54

I think women’s rights are a very important issue and are embedded in every aspect of society. As a second wave feminist I find confining women’s rights to a single issue tunnel visioned. When rape has essentially been decriminalised through lack of conviction, domestic violence rises every year - up by 7.7% last year - while the conviction rate shrinks and 30% of UK children live in poverty, the trans issue comes a long way down my list of concerns about women’s rights.

There are no women's rights if men can just declare themselves women.

Kendodd · 29/03/2024 09:06

PuttingOutFirewithGasoline · 29/03/2024 08:25

@Kendodd why not do someone research around this? Some good links on here as to why the trans issue is very much a woman issue.

I don't dispute that it is.
Register as a woman, get the perceived, or actual, advantages that brings without making any effort at all to change anything about your male presentation. I hope more men do this personally, expose this for the nonsense it is. I don't know about maternity leave for example (using it as a made up advantage), but, your wife has just had a baby, register as a woman, boom, you've also got a year off on maternity leave without changing a single thing. As I said, I hope more men do this, without changing a single thing and, we see court cases all over the media, with breaded men called John insisting they are women and sueing those who say they aren't. That's the fastest way to turn this around.

EasternStandard · 29/03/2024 08:58

Absym · 29/03/2024 08:43

As a PP said

‘The reason this shit has "happened under the Tories" is because its a global trend which has taken hold in almost all developed countries. It was going to happen whichever party was in power. There has, at least, been some push back under the current government (Cass review, clarification of the Equality Act etc).

I believe protection of womens rights and an exploratory approach for people experiencing gender distress will be much less likely with any other party in power at Westminster apart from the Conservatives. You can choose to put your fingers in your ears or decide that other issues are more important but dont kid yourself that womens rights arent going to be fucked under Labour.’

Now if some women don’t think women’s rights are an important issue, I wonder why that is.

There will be some that spend time saying no one cares

It’s hard to see why but they don’t read these threads other than to say stop speaking up.

It’s worth remembering women who have spoken up have moved politicians from Self ID and now puberty blockers have been stopped.

Some may wish that wasn’t the case but it’s not worth following that route for women or children

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 08:54

I think women’s rights are a very important issue and are embedded in every aspect of society. As a second wave feminist I find confining women’s rights to a single issue tunnel visioned. When rape has essentially been decriminalised through lack of conviction, domestic violence rises every year - up by 7.7% last year - while the conviction rate shrinks and 30% of UK children live in poverty, the trans issue comes a long way down my list of concerns about women’s rights.

PuttingOutFirewithGasoline · 29/03/2024 08:45

I honesty dread to think what would now be enshrined in law had Labour been in power.

It should matter to every woman who values her vote

Absym · 29/03/2024 08:43

BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 08:39

Some women.

As a PP said

‘The reason this shit has "happened under the Tories" is because its a global trend which has taken hold in almost all developed countries. It was going to happen whichever party was in power. There has, at least, been some push back under the current government (Cass review, clarification of the Equality Act etc).

I believe protection of womens rights and an exploratory approach for people experiencing gender distress will be much less likely with any other party in power at Westminster apart from the Conservatives. You can choose to put your fingers in your ears or decide that other issues are more important but dont kid yourself that womens rights arent going to be fucked under Labour.’

Now if some women don’t think women’s rights are an important issue, I wonder why that is.

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BIossomtoes · 29/03/2024 08:39

Absym · 29/03/2024 08:18

Anyone would think it is an important issue for women.

Some women.

Cancelledcurio · 29/03/2024 08:33

@Hungrycaterpillarsmummy morning Rishi!

PuttingOutFirewithGasoline · 29/03/2024 08:25

@Kendodd why not do someone research around this? Some good links on here as to why the trans issue is very much a woman issue.

PuttingOutFirewithGasoline · 29/03/2024 08:23

@CarrotCake01 exactly.

When I was young you liked pop groups and had pics of bros on the wall.When my older daughter hit secondary the in thing was to want to be a boy.
A hugely disproportionate amount of girls changed their names and became gay as well.
Including my dd.
I'm all for finding love where you want and can, I fully supported dd but what I wanted to know was how much of this is truly your choice and how much is the tidal wave of influence in this school. The school became notorious for it.