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Jesus held on the cross with nails in his hands

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TaFox · 20/03/2024 21:43

DD5 is in year 1 and has been learning about Jesus at school. Great stuff in the spirit of Easter.

The RE teacher told the class how Jesus was NAILED to the cross.

This is quite graphic for a little girl who believes that the Easter bunny will leave eggs in our garden.

Should I tell school that this is too much info for little ears?

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kkloo · 30/03/2024 21:37

@EverybodyIsFantastic
Yes sorry I read your post wrong. I know she was supposed to be a virgin.

EverybodyIsFantastic · 30/03/2024 21:27

kkloo · 30/03/2024 20:43

So Mary had sex? with who?

Well, according to Luke’s Gospel she was impregnated asexually by the Holy Spirit.

But the ‘Immaculate Conception’ has nothing to do with sex, it’s to do with the concept of ‘original sin’ -sex isn’t inherently sinful, but all human beings since the Fall of Adam and Eve are born with built-in sin from the moment sperm meets egg.

The IC doctrine simply means Mary was conceived without the built-in sin everyone else automatically has.

If that’s your belief system, obviously.

(I’m an atheist who had a devoutly Catholic upbringing and education. To this day I am word perfect on the Mysteries of the Rosary, the Memorare, obscure Marian hymns etc.)

kkloo · 30/03/2024 20:57

Laikalaika · 30/03/2024 20:53

God is God, he can do whatever he likes.

The idea that something came from nothing, on the other hand, is a logical impossibility.

But if he could do what he liked then he wouldn't have needed to come down as Jesus anyway....and all of the stories wouldn't have went down as they did!

OOBetty · 30/03/2024 20:53

Laikalaika · 30/03/2024 20:17

The Immaculate Conception is a Catholic doctrine. It's not found anywhere in the Bible.

If you read further down the thread from my post tagged you will see I mentioned it was added in 1854 by the Pope at the time Pius ix

Laikalaika · 30/03/2024 20:53

Parker231 · 30/03/2024 20:51

Which we know can’t be true

God is God, he can do whatever he likes.

The idea that something came from nothing, on the other hand, is a logical impossibility.

Parker231 · 30/03/2024 20:51

BMW6 · 30/03/2024 20:49

The doctrine is that Mary didn't have sex with any man.
She was impregnated by God. To give birth to Himself.

I'm Agnostic.

Which we know can’t be true

BMW6 · 30/03/2024 20:49

The doctrine is that Mary didn't have sex with any man.
She was impregnated by God. To give birth to Himself.

I'm Agnostic.

Laikalaika · 30/03/2024 20:49

Parker231 · 30/03/2024 20:27

No one is born from a virgin and no one is born with sin.

The Immaculate Conception is about how Mary was conceived, not Jesus! The Bible is clear that Jesus was born og a virgin amd was without sin.

kkloo · 30/03/2024 20:43

EverybodyIsFantastic · 30/03/2024 20:30

And the Immaculate Conception is not Jesus’s conception, but Mary’s, anyway.

Celebrated on Dec 8th, so not really an Easter thing. An unfortunate number of Irish women born on this date were called Concepta.

So Mary had sex? with who?

EverybodyIsFantastic · 30/03/2024 20:30

Laikalaika · 30/03/2024 20:17

The Immaculate Conception is a Catholic doctrine. It's not found anywhere in the Bible.

And the Immaculate Conception is not Jesus’s conception, but Mary’s, anyway.

Celebrated on Dec 8th, so not really an Easter thing. An unfortunate number of Irish women born on this date were called Concepta.

Parker231 · 30/03/2024 20:27

Laikalaika · 30/03/2024 20:17

The Immaculate Conception is a Catholic doctrine. It's not found anywhere in the Bible.

No one is born from a virgin and no one is born with sin.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 20:18

Well, it's one of the stories associated with Easter so....

Laikalaika · 30/03/2024 20:17

OOBetty · 23/03/2024 12:48

Yes that’s quite true . ( I mean in terms of Christian followers that is)
But the key concept for Jesus is that he was born of a virgin, ie not from sin.

Had Mary sinned in order to conceive then Jesus would’ve been born with original sin and essentially the same as everyone else.
In writing the Bible Jesus had to be special, he had to be different in the eyes of the authors and church.

The Immaculate Conception is a Catholic doctrine. It's not found anywhere in the Bible.

kkloo · 30/03/2024 19:57

WhatAreThey · 30/03/2024 19:21

Before Christ's crucification only the lowest of the lows in society were sentenced to crucification. It was a very common form of punishment. Everyone saw and knew it including children.
The uprising after His Resurrection by His disciples, who were all crucified as well, including Peter who was crucified upside down because he felt it was an honour to be crucified upright like Jesus, and followers who embodied Christ's teaches which form the basis of values,ideology and culture in the West and countries influenced by the west is the reason why you can think it's gruesome.
The Roman Empire would've continued to reign in its form with crucifixions, gladiators etc.
The Jesus movement is the basis of free healthcare (good Samaritan), education, monogamy, fairness, equality etc we enjoy today.

Even the humble first aid box, the Red Cross an international symbol of free help to the needy rich or poor all stem from the crucification of the Son of God who did no evil, healed people, advocated for children etc yet He gave Himself up to be crucified like a criminal.
There's a lot to teach from the meaning of this weekend.

This is poignant video to help understand https://x.com/SpeakLifeUK/status/1773736988195058084?t=09kQ03hUV4tq4fNaRkhayg&s=09

A good book on the topic. https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0B3H573VB?source_code=ASSOR150021921000R

I think I would have rathered been crucified than to be tortured with some of the torture devices used later on in the world
And the rest of it doesn't really make sense either considering the state the world is in.

Parker231 · 30/03/2024 19:25

@WhatAreThey - many of us are atheists and don’t believe in the resurrection or god. The Bible is a number of different stories - some may be true but others are definitely not.

WhatAreThey · 30/03/2024 19:21

Before Christ's crucification only the lowest of the lows in society were sentenced to crucification. It was a very common form of punishment. Everyone saw and knew it including children.
The uprising after His Resurrection by His disciples, who were all crucified as well, including Peter who was crucified upside down because he felt it was an honour to be crucified upright like Jesus, and followers who embodied Christ's teaches which form the basis of values,ideology and culture in the West and countries influenced by the west is the reason why you can think it's gruesome.
The Roman Empire would've continued to reign in its form with crucifixions, gladiators etc.
The Jesus movement is the basis of free healthcare (good Samaritan), education, monogamy, fairness, equality etc we enjoy today.

Even the humble first aid box, the Red Cross an international symbol of free help to the needy rich or poor all stem from the crucification of the Son of God who did no evil, healed people, advocated for children etc yet He gave Himself up to be crucified like a criminal.
There's a lot to teach from the meaning of this weekend.

This is poignant video to help understand https://x.com/SpeakLifeUK/status/1773736988195058084?t=09kQ03hUV4tq4fNaRkhayg&s=09

A good book on the topic. https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0B3H573VB?source_code=ASSOR150021921000R

The Air We Breathe

Check out this great listen on Audible.com. Discover the Christian roots of the values we prize in Western society. Is Christianity history? Or is Christian history the deepest explanation of the modern world?  Today in the West, many consider the chur...

https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0B3H573VB?source_code=ASSOR150021921000R

jasminocereusbritannicus · 24/03/2024 08:38

ShinenKan · 23/03/2024 15:42

A lot of the Bible, Christianity and many religions have very gruesome tales.

Many childrens books are also very gruesome, I’m thinking Grimms so called Fairy Tales.

I don’t see an issue with teaching the story of Easter to children and the use of nails is nor more gruesome than a lot of childrens literature.

Absolutely this.^

OOBetty · 23/03/2024 20:13

Parker231 · 23/03/2024 20:08

@kkloo - I don’t agree with the concept of sin but if it exists it would apply to everyone including Jesus - why would he be exempt. Being born immaculate isn’t physically possible so it’s a piece of fiction rather than fact - similar to the supposed miracles - walking on water - also not possible

I agree.
Some people view the bible in its literal sense I don’t
and with my slightly scientific hat on and just basic questioning I can’t believe in miracles.
If you need religion to lean on…..fine
If you’d rather a glass of wine or some chocolate…..fine
If you just enjoy the choral music or insence….fine
Each to their own.

Parker231 · 23/03/2024 20:08

@kkloo - I don’t agree with the concept of sin but if it exists it would apply to everyone including Jesus - why would he be exempt. Being born immaculate isn’t physically possible so it’s a piece of fiction rather than fact - similar to the supposed miracles - walking on water - also not possible

OOBetty · 23/03/2024 20:08

kkloo · 23/03/2024 19:55

This makes no sense though really.

Jesus wouldn't have been born with sin anyway because he's actually God.

And if Mary was born immaculate it was surely because God chose her to be born that way.

If he could make an exception for her then why not fix the problem in all of us instead of being so annoyed at his creation and needing to create Jesus in order to free us from the sin.

Also it's taking the piss to create people with urges to reproduce, give them sexual urges and then say that the parents sinned by having sex and therefore their baby was born with original sin.

It's like an abusive parent blaming their kids for the way they turned out....and then the parent gets a bit of help (by creating Jesus which allowed him to understand us) and then we're supposed to be eternally grateful that our parent managed to soften up a bit.

I don't believe the symbolism and the stories do explain the concepts of good works and deeds!
I do like some of the stories and how they are interpreted in a new age spiritual way, but not in religious ways 😅

Read subsequent explanations and discussions.
The whole Mary thing for example was added in the 1850s not by God but by a Pope
re Gods mistakes in creation…..religion doesn’t necessarily have to make sense….does any religion make absolute sense in fact,
re Gods mistake or maybe not in creating a being wired for temptation…surely if religions decided that God created everyone so perfect and happy and the world was so wonderful we wouldn't need religion at all and religious leaders wouldn’t exactly be promoting that .

I like your take on the stories interpreted in a new age spiritual way

kkloo · 23/03/2024 19:55

OOBetty · 23/03/2024 12:26

The original sin aspect I understood ( also Catholic here ) was not the babies ability to sin but the sins of their parents in having sex.
Sex caused the babies to be born and baptism cleansed them of that original sin. We carry the sins of our fathers, I believe is the phrase used.

Again my Catholic understanding is much the same idea as I previously quoted. Adam and eve were created as pure by God by then sinned, ie had sex because of a flaw in the creation ie humans are tempted to do bad things. Of them we are all created by sex and with the ability to sin.( and before anyone comes back with a comment about that one I’m actually in the Darwin camp )

The birth of Jesus was without original sin because he was born of a virgin. That’s key to the idea. Only Jesus was born pure and only Jesus therefore could save mankind from ‘eternal damnation’ and by dieing he created a pathway for everyone to live an eternal life in heaven. Or indeed come back after, which is why Catholics pray for the sole and why it was always important to bury and not cremate.
In the RC church it is understood that if you ask for forgiveness and pay penance it will be granted because that’s why Jesus died. He took on the suffering of future sinners.

As an aside. I’m am personally of the idea that the bible is a story. Not all is based on fact. I do not believe in miracles or that priests literally change wine into blood at mass, I believe in the symbolism only. I believe it is a book used to support those in understanding concepts of good works and deeds. The stories are a way of explaining those.

This makes no sense though really.

Jesus wouldn't have been born with sin anyway because he's actually God.

And if Mary was born immaculate it was surely because God chose her to be born that way.

If he could make an exception for her then why not fix the problem in all of us instead of being so annoyed at his creation and needing to create Jesus in order to free us from the sin.

Also it's taking the piss to create people with urges to reproduce, give them sexual urges and then say that the parents sinned by having sex and therefore their baby was born with original sin.

It's like an abusive parent blaming their kids for the way they turned out....and then the parent gets a bit of help (by creating Jesus which allowed him to understand us) and then we're supposed to be eternally grateful that our parent managed to soften up a bit.

I don't believe the symbolism and the stories do explain the concepts of good works and deeds!
I do like some of the stories and how they are interpreted in a new age spiritual way, but not in religious ways 😅

PlantingTreesAgain · 23/03/2024 16:57

Parker231 · 23/03/2024 16:44

However now, in order to keep up with the times, we interpret the teachings on sex of the RC religion as ok as long as you’re married.

From your earlier post- is this what you believe?

I’m referring to the ‘teachings on sex in the RC religion’ ….as it says. Ivam not referencing my thoughts on the subject.
Thats completely irrelevant to the original discussion.

Parker231 · 23/03/2024 16:44

PlantingTreesAgain · 23/03/2024 16:41

See my post 1st para @ 15:35pm.

However now, in order to keep up with the times, we interpret the teachings on sex of the RC religion as ok as long as you’re married.

From your earlier post- is this what you believe?

PlantingTreesAgain · 23/03/2024 16:41

Parker231 · 23/03/2024 16:10

Do you not think the teachings are wrong?

See my post 1st para @ 15:35pm.

Parker231 · 23/03/2024 16:10

PlantingTreesAgain · 23/03/2024 16:00

We are talking about the teachings of the RC church.
Not what we believe is right or wrong about those teachings.
As noted the RC church like so many churches are having to and have evolved over time to fit in with an evolving society, hence the example on cremation.

Do you not think the teachings are wrong?

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