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LT partners will

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Championfancy · 17/03/2024 19:12

AIBU?

I have always been annoyed but not really able to say much about this but I am
not on my LT partners will at all. Nor his life insurance or pension benefactor or anything. We’re not married but been together for over 15 years and it started to grate on me that if something happened to him I could be left with nothing at all.

OP posts:
JTE15 · 17/03/2024 19:34

Is he against including you in the Will. May be that he hasn't really thought about it.. however, definitely have a chat maybe out walking explaining how vulnerable you feel if something happened. I think you're right to be concerned and I'd you've got children. Definitely.

abeeabeeisafterme · 17/03/2024 19:32

Did you give up work to raise his kids?

Merryoldgoat · 17/03/2024 19:32

Does He have a will and you aren’t named? Or is there no will?

AhNowTed · 17/03/2024 19:30

Do you have children together?

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Championfancy · 17/03/2024 19:21

Herdinggoats · 17/03/2024 19:15

Need more information here. Does he have kids, how old are you both etc? Together 15 years at 45 is very different to together 15 years at 80 🤷🏻‍♀️

We have kids and in our 50s

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Herdinggoats · 17/03/2024 19:15

Need more information here. Does he have kids, how old are you both etc? Together 15 years at 45 is very different to together 15 years at 80 🤷🏻‍♀️