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I live in a road with a school

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Truffle55 · 10/03/2024 18:40

Apologies in advance for the rant and slightly long message…

I live in a road with a primary school at the end. I’ve lived here for 25 years and I totally understand that parents need to get their kids to school - I too, need to do the same.

But…

Recently the behaviour of the parents dropping off and picking up their DC has been, frankly awful.

I have come home from picking my DC up from school to find someone parked on my drive! And now, someone thinks it’s “ok” to park across the T-junction into the road. This means I have to drive around them and into cars coming out of the road (from dropping off/picking up DC) to get onto my driveway (assuming no one is “borrowing” it).

I do understand people need to take their kids to school, I have to do it too! But really? Why are they so inconsiderate? When I pick my DC up from school I park away from the school… and we have an agreed process if I’m not there due to not being able to park SAFELY (I do get that DC is at secondary school and its easier to do this).

However, the parking by my house is getting out of control - the person who parks across the junction lets the children get into the car - roadside…. This is just dangerous!?

I’m at the point now that I just push through the cars because I feel “I live there, and I have right of way” - but that makes me uncomfortable.

And, let’s not talk about the addition is of an ice cream van!

Anyway, I’m considering contacting the school or even the police to see if they can do anything - sadly, I really feel, it is an accident waiting to happen 😕

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YoureWinningAtLife · 10/03/2024 18:44

Maybe contact the council and the school.
When things got really bad at our primary parking wise, a traffic warden would show up a few days randomly. Whether this was due to complaints directly from residents, or whether the school contacted them after getting sick of daily complaints from residents, I don’t know.

Beezknees · 10/03/2024 18:44

YANBU.

When DS was at primary, the head was constantly sending out messages about parents parking inconsiderately (I'm a non driver so I wasn't guilty) but I can imagine how annoying it was for residents.

Namechangedagain20 · 10/03/2024 18:44

I’d talk to the school. There’s lots of issues with parents parking around my DCs primary school and after the residents on the street complained they’ve now got a partnership with the local PCSOs who are there before and after school and giving out parking tickets.

Sundaygettingreadyfortheweek · 10/03/2024 18:42

I would contact both the school and the police.

If someone parked across my drive I would probably park across it blocking them in.