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Is this cheeky?

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Isthischeek · 01/03/2024 22:19

Acquaintance I don’t know very well but trying to become friendly with asked me to go to an activity today - just us two no one else. When I got there she told me she has a two vouchers which will expire Sunday so used them to buy ticket. No cost at all to her so basically free. I said she didn’t need to do that and I could have brought my own ticket she said I can just put the amount I would have paid in her bank account. I didn’t think much about it. Got home and she messaged me her bank details.

I’ve transferred the £31.50 into her account. She got the tickets free from work btw and has had them for 6 months, some I think she said she used up but didn’t use her last 2 which she did today. They expire Sunday. It’s an activity I would never had done but I messaged her last week to get lunch/dinner today as she’s been asking me to let her know some dates I’m free and she suggested this activity. No mention of vouchers at that time for context. I didn’t want to appear rude so just said sounds good.

Do you think this is cheeky or just makes sense?

OP posts:
Topofthemountain · 01/03/2024 22:25

You should have just said Thank You.

Alwaysgoingforit · 01/03/2024 22:24

Why would you have paid?? The vouchers were free and she asked you if you wanted to go.🤔

Cherrysherbet · 01/03/2024 22:24

She’s a cf. Not someone I’d trust, or want anything to do with.

Isthischeek · 01/03/2024 22:24

Thank you all, I had a feeling I might be overthinking.

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purpleme12 · 01/03/2024 22:22

Oh my god I can't believe you did this

Scaffoldingisugly · 01/03/2024 22:22

She is frankly a grabby cf... She charged you for her freebies!!
Who the fuck does that??. Except her obviously!!

Capmagturk · 01/03/2024 22:21

It's cheeky she's asked you to go so she can get the cash value of it back in her bank. She likely had no one else to go with and it would of expired unused.