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Teacher giving wrong information

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Questions1ww · 25/02/2024 22:40

I’m just wondering how you all would react and if my reaction is normal. I was helping DS with his homework and he started getting upset with a question’s answer given by a book so I checked lots of sources and it’s correct but he’s adamant his teacher told him something else and even showed me his school book which he told teacher told him and rest of class to copy down. I reassured DS the answer is in fact correct and we spent a considerable amount of time checking different sources etc. I explained teachers are just humans and they get it wrong sometimes after trying to figure out that maybe he mis heard her or maybe misunderstood. He is very quiet and won’t say anything to her and truthfully I won’t be either as I feel it’s something we very quickly cleared up and I do studying with him after school so I can help him clear up any misunderstandings quickly.

I don’t think any good will come out of talking to the school, the teacher seems very lovely and I can’t be 100% sure she did actually mis-teach them or just a misunderstanding. It’s been a few issues I’ve noticed. I work in the field this subject is so maybe I’m noticing it a lot more but it’s very small things in some subjects such as for example one thing she apparently told them that a certain thing insect is a vertebrate but a quick think or even a Google search would tell you it’s not as it doesn’t have a spine so is an invertebrate.

I’m wondering what the rest of you would do? How would you raise it if you were going to? As I said I probably won’t as I’m worried about any fallouts etc. and I can easily go over any misconceptions at home with him. But on other hand I can only do this for one or two subjects as I am not very good with English, maths and computing etc. so can’t really help much with these subjects of which English and maths are obviously more important.

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Questions1ww · 25/02/2024 22:51

@Smartiepants79 the teacher subject I’m more confident with. Small school and I know some teachers teach more than one subject so this may not even be her actual subject.

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BreakingAndBroke · 25/02/2024 22:50

Speak to the teacher at pickup/drop off/ write a note in your kid's book /send an email?

Questions1ww · 25/02/2024 22:49

He’s 15, GCSE ‘s. We can’t afford a tutor so I teach him the subjects I’m confident with and he does the rest on bbc bite size and some other sites recommended by school.

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Smartiepants79 · 25/02/2024 22:48

If this is very obviously an error in subject knowledge then I think I might try and gently raise it. Email? Point out why your DS was confused and let her work it out for herself. Primary school teachers are expected to know certain levels of knowledge for everything and will have certain subjects that they’re less confident with. A kind nudge to prevent misteaching again wouldn’t be a bad thing.

TeaKitten · 25/02/2024 22:47

You are over reacting. How old is the child and what is the mistake? But in any case, just message the teacher about it. They are human and more than capable of discussion.

MissingMoominMamma · 25/02/2024 22:46

Message the teacher on Dojo, if it’s used.

Startrekkeruniverse · 25/02/2024 22:45

Honestly I think you’re way over thinking this.