What is she up to?

The kids are not OP’s brothers’ children. Even if they were, the house doesn’t belong to him so cannot be viewed by CMS or anyone else as an asset. And all OP would have to do is verify that his living arrangement is temporary until he is adequately housed.

Not sure which of my posts you’re answering.

@Rosscameasdoody The police would be concerned a jury, if it came to that, might think that Jane's story introduced a reasonable doubt. It wouldnt be reasonable doubt for me.

FFS

@MustWeDoThis did you read any of the OPs posts? And please explain how this is a breach of GDPR?

@MustWeDoThis

She's snooping for assets and money so she can take the kids and go for child maintenance. By valuing your house it will be seen as am asset, by signing a letter stating your brother is there will give her leverage to tell CM that hubby is living in a mortgaged house, it's value, how much you pay etc. I think she is hoping child maintenance will then go to you for extra money. However! That only works if you're a significant other. It's all very convoluted and what she is doing is a breach of GDPR by getting that evaluation done, and possibly looking to commit fraud.She just had your house evaluated and would have needed to falsify information to do so. You need to sit her down, ask her why, then kick her out

They aren't married. They don't have children together, and the OP doesn't have a mortgage

She's snooping for assets and money so she can take the kids and go for child maintenance.

By valuing your house it will be seen as am asset, by signing a letter stating your brother is there will give her leverage to tell CM that hubby is living in a mortgaged house, it's value, how much you pay etc. I think she is hoping child maintenance will then go to you for extra money. However! That only works if you're a significant other. It's all very convoluted and what she is doing is a breach of GDPR by getting that evaluation done, and possibly looking to commit fraud.

She just had your house evaluated and would have needed to falsify information to do so.

You need to sit her down, ask her why, then kick her out.

If you feel you’ve got the energy you could do a subject access request for all details about you and your house/address from the estate agent.
it would give you ‘your’ email address and phone number that was used for the booking and any emails sent/received about it.

totally get it if it’s too much hassle and sorted now.
best wishes for the future

https://ico.org.uk/for-the-public/your-right-to-get-copies-of-your-data/

Surely it's obvious the problem is for android users using the app?

@SageRosemary all good points. Just to say I cannot see what the problem is for android users, I am one, and the 'see all' highlighted next to Op's name is very obvious to me using the web browser. I choose not to have the app

You'd think so but apparently not lol

OP I'm really glad you got onto this before Jane was able to take anything further. She sounds a right piece of work.

@FriendlyNeighbourhoodAccountant how annoying! You'd think the apps would all have same features!

ha, never heard of this! Maybe OP can take out a local billboard about Jane, or something in Estate Agents weekly 😁

Many many years ago, as my late Father used to say 'when Adam wur a lad' one used to see notices in the newspapers saying, in legalese, that person ABC had no responsibility for any debts etc incurred by XYZ, is there an equivalent modern way of doing this?

just sharing the info in case it’s helpful. It’s up to you isn’t it

perfectly chilled thanks and I don't like martinis. we're not the weird ones here.

Sounds like Jane thought she was on to a good thing with your brother, until she overreached and fell flat on her face 😬

I know, and like I said someone shouldn't have to use a browser when there's an app available just so stop snide comments from people saying "just press see all" because someone hasn't read 700+ posts

you can do it on your mobile browser

See, this is exactly why a lot of people don’t bother trying to help on Mumsnet anymore 🙄

@Pinkdelight3 @martinisforeveryone good god, chill out. no more martinis for either of you

@Mumsnet Is it possible for you to insert a notice immediately after the OP's opening post to advise that the situation has moved on rapidly and intending posters should read at least all the OPs posts before offering "helpful" suggestions (such as "contact the estate agent", "contact the police" etc)? Or, perhaps you can edit the opening post itself with such a note from Mumsnet. Many of us are interested in this thread but it is frustrating for the thread to be filling up with useful suggestions and other posters telling them to RTFT and that the suggestion was made at the beginning of the thread and now it has disintegrated into who can read all the OP's posts easily on our desktops or Apple devices and who cannot.

For those who cannot choose to read all the OP's posts only by selection, you can at least note that they are in a different colour and you can scroll through pages looking for that colour.

Except the OP has no way of proving Jane did it, the EA are now declining to share the address because OP told them it's not hers and the police are highly unlikely to dedicate resources to confirming the IP used when the email address was created.

It's shit for the OP but the police have already advised why they won't take it further with Jane

People shouldn't have to use the browser on their phone if there is a dedicated phone app available. I'm not complaining, I've read the full thread as it is, I just get bored of seeing people matter of factly state that people can click "see all" when that's not the case for half of users.