Woooah, lovely to see the people on this thread giving him the benefit of the doubt, and it's nice to see good intentions are assumed but unfortunately people can also have bad intentions. Or have literally no idea how their words might come across, because noone's pointed out to them that they are innapropriate:
“what’s in here today then?”
Innapropriate, it could be something personal - no sane person would ask that of a stranger! Surely an absolute basic of parcel delivery - don't comment unless you are offered the information!
“If I don’t come to your house I don’t feel like I’m at work and I don’t get my daily dose of you”
Creepy and over the line
He calls me by my full name. He regularly says “I need to get my daily dose of [my name].
Sone people will say 'its your name, its on the parcels, its not a secret' but its the way its done, when its done repeatedly...
The other day I had makeup on and he said “looking nice today where you off to?” And I just politely laugh but he carries on.. “is it your birthday? You going out”
again, you've not answered, its basic customer service for him to move on, it's being intrusive - he could have, if he had to say anything, which he didn't, say 'have a lovely time!'
“Oh I thought she lived alone”He asks me things like “are you always at home because I’ve never delivered and you’re not here” I know it’s a conversation starter but just give me my parcel and go. I then have to explain I WFH. He then said to me “when you're neighbours aren’t in I know who to come to because you’re like the full moon”
Erm, again, over the line. Maybe he's just making conversation, and he's got terrible social skills, but someone needs to point out to him why saying to a woman that you are aware of her movements and if she lives alone or not, might make people uncomfortable.
It's not the comments in isolation, it's the fact they are all coming from the same person, consistently, in an unprofessional way.
There's so many ways to behave that are professional, but this isn't it.