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Threatening Amazon email?

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Atlasstars1 · 07/02/2024 15:22

I’ve been a loyal Amazon customer for years. Over the last 6 months I’ve had to report a number of missing parcels
as they keep being left on my doorstep which is on a the main road and not a safe place. Most parcels just get lifted round here as there are a lot of opportunistic thefts. I’ve updated Amazon on this so many times asking them to ensure they are not left on my
doorstep, but it still happens.
Following the latest missing parcel I received this today which reads as pretty threatening and as though I’m at fault? What should I reply? If anything? Or am I being unreasonable and just ignore?

Threatening Amazon email?
OP posts:
Atlasstars1 · 07/02/2024 18:01

Definitely don’t want to start a
debate on capitalism 😂😂

OP posts:
Atlasstars1 · 07/02/2024 18:00

westisbest1982 · 07/02/2024 17:58

The drivers always leave on doorsteps, don't they? What else do you expect them to do when they're pushed for time? You need to be in or use a locker.

Amazon are losing money because of you. They're a business so why should they keep refunding you when it's not them that messes up?

Erm then WHY do they offer the option to list your “safe place” to leave the parcel in?

They are losing money because their drivers are leaving parcels in unsafe places! not because I have correctly followed their instructions to leave my parcel in a marked safe place if I’m not in!

in what possible world have I not Amazon messed up here?!

OP posts:
AGoingConcern · 07/02/2024 18:00

EarringsandLipstick · 07/02/2024 17:57

But it's Amazon's own delivery model (to have instructions, alternative drop offs and so on).

OP isn't asking for anything unreasonable.

It's not her fault that Amazon make conditions for their drivers impossible.

Except their service is NOT working for OP in reality. Parcels are being stolen and they've made it clear they're done eating the costs of those missing parcels.

If a restaurant advertises delicious food and I find that in practice their food is inconsistent, I go elsewhere. Yay, capitalism.

westisbest1982 · 07/02/2024 17:58

The drivers always leave on doorsteps, don't they? What else do you expect them to do when they're pushed for time? You need to be in or use a locker.

Amazon are losing money because of you. They're a business so why should they keep refunding you when it's not them that messes up?

EarringsandLipstick · 07/02/2024 17:57

AGoingConcern · 07/02/2024 17:55

Either use a different delivery method (Amazon locker, delivery day on the weekend) or take your business elsewhere.

Amazon's standard free delivery is built around getting it there as fast & as cheaply as possible. Drivers aren't going to spend extra time going to a second house or around back to a safe place or whatever because that ends up costing them time they can't afford to spend. If this delivery model isn't working for your situation, go elsewhere.

But it's Amazon's own delivery model (to have instructions, alternative drop offs and so on).

OP isn't asking for anything unreasonable.

It's not her fault that Amazon make conditions for their drivers impossible.

AGoingConcern · 07/02/2024 17:55

Either use a different delivery method (Amazon locker, delivery day on the weekend) or take your business elsewhere.

Amazon's standard free delivery is built around getting it there as fast & as cheaply as possible. Drivers aren't going to spend extra time going to a second house or around back to a safe place or whatever because that ends up costing them time they can't afford to spend. If this delivery model isn't working for your situation, go elsewhere.

daffodilandtulip · 07/02/2024 17:55

I'm so sick of delivery drivers just dumping things on the doorstep. I'm in most of the time, they don't knock and things have been taken before I've even had the message to say it's on my doorstep, even while I'm in.

EarringsandLipstick · 07/02/2024 17:54

but if you use that service it will arrive the next day so you'll know when to be in, plus you'll get a notification and tracking service when they are getting close to your address. If you are always in on a Sunday, say, then just order stuff on a Saturday and stay close by the following day.

Oh come on!!!

lilacstone · 07/02/2024 17:54

I complained to Amazon recently because the delivery driver started leaving parcels on the doorstep when I was in - and not even knocking - rather than use the designated safe place which is right next to the front door. This continued for weeks.

They reassured me that they would speak to the relevant dept about it and they must have, because the driver started knocking from then on, and leaving parcels in the safe place if we were out.

I’d reply and ask them to speak to the delivery drivers for your area.

EarringsandLipstick · 07/02/2024 17:54

Atlasstars1 · 07/02/2024 17:53

Omg- there isn’t an option with Amazon to say “deliver at 3pm on Friday!”

and threatening doesn’t mean leg breaking unless you’re in the mob 😂🙄they are clearly threatening to close my account because their drivers are ignoring my clearly marked request not to leave parcels on a Main Street doorstep, and offering a safe alternative option as offered by…Amazon!

I'm with you OP! It's crazy.

Atlasstars1 · 07/02/2024 17:53

Omg- there isn’t an option with Amazon to say “deliver at 3pm on Friday!”

and threatening doesn’t mean leg breaking unless you’re in the mob 😂🙄they are clearly threatening to close my account because their drivers are ignoring my clearly marked request not to leave parcels on a Main Street doorstep, and offering a safe alternative option as offered by…Amazon!

OP posts:
existentialpain · 07/02/2024 17:52

I'm guessing you don't use Prime? I appreciate you shouldn't have to, but if you use that service it will arrive the next day so you'll know when to be in, plus you'll get a notification and tracking service when they are getting close to your address. If you are always in on a Sunday, say, then just order stuff on a Saturday and stay close by the following day.

Or just get stuff delivered to an amazon locker.

EarringsandLipstick · 07/02/2024 17:52

TotalAbsenceOfImperialRaiment · 07/02/2024 17:50

It's hardly threatening. They are suggesting that they might not be able to sell you any more stuff, not that they will send a man round to break your legs.

That is the threat. They are making it clear OP's reports are suspicious so they may suspend her account.

They should have started with the bit about wanting to find out what the issue is, not the 'you've made too many reports'.

snowlady4 · 07/02/2024 17:51

Could you put a note on your door? Do Not Leave Parcels On Doorstep. Alternative address is next door at number 25. - the drivers would probably follow this.
Frustrating but not a threatening email I don't think. And the drivers are under alot of pressure they clearly aren't checking your instructions on the account.
Alternatively a safe box or amazon locker/po box as others have suggested.
Good luck

EarringsandLipstick · 07/02/2024 17:51

PictureALadybird · 07/02/2024 17:49

It is your fault though. Stop ordering parcels when you’re not in or send them to an Amazon locker.

What a silly response! She's not 'ordering parcels when she's not in'. How can she know when exactly they'll deliver? If she's not there, they are supposed to leave with her neighbour - which Amazon are not doing.

TotalAbsenceOfImperialRaiment · 07/02/2024 17:50

It's hardly threatening. They are suggesting that they might not be able to sell you any more stuff, not that they will send a man round to break your legs.

Andthereyougo · 07/02/2024 17:50

Don’t have Amazon lockers where I live but drop off is village shop open til 9 pm. You could also put a note on your door Do Not Leave Parcels on Doorstep, Take to Number …

Alargeoneplease89 · 07/02/2024 17:49

Pick a day you are in for deliveries... they have weekends etc. The email didn't come across threatening at all.

PictureALadybird · 07/02/2024 17:49

It is your fault though. Stop ordering parcels when you’re not in or send them to an Amazon locker.

Gymnoob · 07/02/2024 17:48

Sounds like you’re in a city so use a locker pick up. Yes inconvenient. But much less inconvenient than things going missing and having to deal with that.

EarringsandLipstick · 07/02/2024 17:48

I'm completely on OP's side here.

That's an appalling email, suggesting she's trying to defraud them. I'd be mightily pissed off too. Of course it's threatening - threatening that she won't be allowed to place any more orders.

It's completely their fault & shocking customer service too.

Moodicum · 07/02/2024 17:47

Mine leave them on the doorstep even though I am usually in. Sometimes they don’t even ring.

Why don’t you try using an Amazon drop off box.

SapphireSeptember · 07/02/2024 17:47

I like DPD, they take stuff to the Post Office on the High Street. UPS deliver things to the next village over, which has no public transport. Hermes and Royal Mail dump stuff on the doorstep, which I've often had to rescue (it's a house converted into flats, with no doorbell at all, let alone individual ones.🤦🏻‍♀️) If Amazon kept ignoring my safe place I'd get very cross!

Atlasstars1 · 07/02/2024 17:46

My point is….this is not my fault! It is Amazon’s
fault!

I cant get them delivered to work (as I already explained)

I have no family nearby

my neighbour kindly doesn’t mind taking in a parcel for me but I dont want to list her address on my account, that feels overstepping a boundary and I’m often home to take things in myself. It’s the 4 times I’ve not been here that they’ve just been dumped (and once actually thrown onto my doorstep from the van by ring doorbell footage 😡)

yet I’m the one being threatened with further action?!

OP posts:
ClemFandangooo · 07/02/2024 17:45

It's an automatic email. I've had the same email twice before (parcels kept being delivered to X Street instead of X road). In the end they stated saying they wouldn't refund unless I contacted the police and got a case number for each parcel that wouldn't be delivered so I made a new account and started getting them delivered to a pick up point

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