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Wedding Dress Code - Only Black Allowed

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YorkshirePuddingsGreatestFan · 03/02/2024 18:22

I'm going to a wedding but the bride has specified that all guests must wear black only and no colours. Not even coloured shoes or accessories. Herself and the groom will both be wearing white.

She's seen a video online which I've looked at with a black dress code. However that wedding is outdoors in sunny weather. The women are all wearing clothes that show plenty of skin - bare arms, bare legs, low necklines in lightweight fabrics. The various shades of skin breaks the black clothing up and it looks ok.

This wedding is in the winter in a very cold location, so I'll need to be wearing heavier fabric with long sleeves, high neckline and thick tights on. I would imagine the other women will be covering up to keep warm. I don't think it'll work as there will be no skin to break the black colour up. I think we'll all just look like one big black lump with several heads on the group photos!

I also don't suit black at all. I'm very pale skinned and it makes me look washed out and unwell. My mother has pale skin and is also concerned about this.

Just wondering if anyone has been to a wedding with such a strict dress code and how did it turn out?

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Mumdiva99 · 03/02/2024 18:26

To answer the specific question....went to a party with a strict code.....it was stressful- the photos looked good but would gave preferred no stress. It involved buying new clothed for the kids etc.

Thementalloadisreal · 03/02/2024 18:26

It will look like a funeral. But that’s her choice!

Mumdiva99 · 03/02/2024 18:25

Doesn't matter what anyone thinks. That's what the bride(zilla) has asked for....so you either go in black or not at all.

Does she not like her fiancee? Is she making a point of some kind......

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